Being beautiful means not only having a good appearance. Being a good, kind person can help your inner beauty shine as well as your outer. As the saying goes, "Only those who act beautifully are truly beautiful," and this means that in order to be beautiful you need to maintain the beauty of your appearance, as well as be polite and kind.

Steps

Keep your hair and makeup fresh

Take care of your body

Dress well

Wear clean clothes.  In truth, most of your things can be worn several times before washing, but always remember the rule of the golden mean: if you smell, do not wear it.

• Pants are not so striking as t-shirts (basically, all jeans look the same) and they can be worn several times in a row than all other things. Just make sure that they remain relatively clean and do not lose shape; jeans can stretch after several uses.

1. Choose stylish, modest clothing styles.  Most of the images offer frank versions of clothing that tightly fits, attracts attention and has deep cuts. Sometimes you need to dress like this in order to stay young and beautiful, but in everyday life you will be much more attractive in modest, slightly embellished things that do not attract huge attention to your body.

   • If you have a beautiful figure, modest things will come in handy.
   • If your goal is to win the attention of a guy, you may be surprised that most men themselves like to think out some things. It is especially important that a lot of guys who want to see girls in bizarre little things are not at all those whose attention you need to win.

2. Wear practical shoes. Do not belong to those girls who can not play football because of their miniskirts and wedges; It will look more attractive if you feel comfortable and take part. High heels should be matched to a special dress code. Low heels and boats can be worn in many cases, unless of course they are durable and comfortable. The rest of the time, wear cute athletic shoes, leather lace-up shoes, or something that matches your daily life.

Develop a healthy inner world

Forget about the past.  Whatever happened in the past, it passed. Accept the lessons that life has taught you, and try to move on. Remember: if you think about it every day, you still allow the memory to control you.

• Consult a professional if necessary. A counselor or psychiatrist will help you deal with self-confidence and stay the best.

1. Be confident in yourself.  If you have low self-esteem, build confidence. You should not try to become what you are not really, but you should not tell the whole world that you are upset. Keep calm and collected. You will be respected if you express your emotions, but only in a restrained manner.

   Accept your personality.  You are a wonderful, individual person with your personality traits and talents. Only accepting your capabilities will help you develop your abilities and offer something to the world.

2. Maintain your integrity.  Do not do anything that you later regret or after which you lose confidence in yourself. And not only because of this, but because secrets can come out, and after that, negative opinions of people can undermine your self-confidence. Be honest and ethical and have your skeleton in the closet! !

   • Defend the truth. If someone is trying to humiliate you, be your own king in armor; no one has the right to disrespect you. Do the same if you humiliate someone. Do not be afraid to defend your innocence - even if you are left alone; remember that only one person can change everything.
   • Respect yourself and your body. Think twice before drinking, smoking, or eating low-quality foods. Avoid legal drugs. Be vigilant about your sex life.

3. Keep a diary. Write it down as often as you can, and you will soon find that the time has come: do not think about your relationships or trials, but the diary will help you understand who you are and what you want to become. While keeping a diary, write down your good things in life. You will even be surprised how happy you are.

   • If you think it’s unfashionable and don’t worry, don’t worry, it can be your personal and no one should know where you store it

4. Set goals.  Use the moment in all this self-knowledge for a better future. Start with 1 or two goals (for example, lose 5 kilograms, create a volleyball team, enter the list of excellent students, save money or buy new things and so on), and as soon as you complete them, set new goals. Let it become a habit for you to understand what you want and receive it.

   • You can select a separate page for each of your goals and write why you want it, how you will do it and at what point you should do it.

Sometimes men are tormented by the question of where did all the normal girls who need you go, and not what you have got. Which can not stand the brain, with which it is easy, fun and pleasant. Where are the normal, adequate and good girls, and not the women who only spoil life?

When you are young, you don’t really think with whom to walk and who to fall in love with, but time puts everything in its place. Over the years, you understand that I’m not ready to exchange for one-time sex, unhindered affair, and the requirements for girls become much higher.

Where to find a normal girl, and not another headache? A girl who is important to you, and not your apartment, money and a car? Which doesn’t have a goal to make you brains every day? Which is not trying to manipulate and use you?

1. Meet more

The magic of large numbers works in relationships. The more girls you meet, the more choice. Around a thousand girls, and you limit your horizons to your class, yard, group, work or social sphere. Go out to places you rarely go. The more active you are in life, the more beautiful girls you will meet on your way.

2. What girl do you want

Decide for yourself what kind of girl you want. What should be her appearance and qualities. Define the main parameters, but do not push yourself into a narrow framework. Make an approximate portrait of a girl. Then it will be much easier for you to sort out the girls if you know who you want.

3. Habitats for girls

To get acquainted with a bar, club or Tinder with a girl, and then hopes for her high moral standards? There are no diamonds in the mud. Look for a girl in ordinary dreams, where there are good girls. In the subway you will meet 100 more good and beautiful girls than in a drunk club.

4. Wrong girls

Mercantile, angry, always dissatisfied, pessimistic and moody ladies are not worthy of your attention. Do you want to be constantly guilty? Immediately send the girls who carry the brain in the forest, demand gifts, command and do not make you happy.

5. Sift out the girls

You take the girl who reciprocated, and then try to date her. She may have many qualities that you do not really like. Instead of parting, you are trying to fix it or suffer a little. But it will not be better. It is not possible to change an adult. Change the girl. If you are not comfortable with something in the girl, then move on. Why suffer all your life if you can find the one that you like in your soul and body beyond the next stretch of life?

6. Be alone than anyone

Better to be alone than with anyone. If you are content with little, but you will never find a dream girl. It would be better to be alone than it turns out that you cannot meet a pretty girl because you have a “temporary” woman at your side. Be free and the opportunity to meet new chicks will be the sea.

7. Take your time with the final decision

Do not rush to weddings and promises of eternal love. Give you time. It will reveal the whole ins and outs of a girl and how much you fit together. Take your time with the final decision. Enjoy relationships, love and sex.

Where are the normal, adequate and good girls? They are, only you need to find the one that deserves you. Stop sleeping and meet anyone ...

In pursuit of a beautiful appearance, most women put the figure first. For this, the beautiful half of humanity sacrifices a lot to look like beauties from the covers of fashion magazines: applies diets, goes in for sports and more. But are these efforts worth the reward in the eyes of men?

The opinion of men: a female figure should be symmetrical

And what figure do they consider the most attractive, looking at photos of famous beauties? This question today can be answered by scientists from around the world who have repeatedly conducted sociological surveys regarding the most attractive female appearance.

What she is “a beautiful female figure through the eyes of men” - you will learn from our article!

It turns out that a beautiful female figure through the eyes of men is not at all the notorious sizes 90-60-90, as many women believe. But there is still some truth.

How many different people, as many opinions on the ideal appearance. Earlier, at different times, dumplings or very thin girls were in fashion. Now, the main ideal of a female figure can be called symmetrical proportions, and the size of the chest, waist and hips are not so important.

There are lovers of both thin and full women:

1. Too thin  must have rounded proportions to draw attention to your figure. It is better if the chest and hips are about the same size and the waist is smaller. This figure is perfect for girls of short stature. Men like this type of appearance due to the fact that you can feel like a gentleman, protecting and taking care of her.
2. Curvy ladies  also attract the attention of men. They are often chosen for a serious relationship. According to psychologists, this type of appearance is more popular with men of low social status or those with a mother of the same form. But it is worth noting that the fullness should be moderate - a sagging stomach and sides do not paint anyone. If you look through the eyes of a man, then you can call beautiful a full female figure if the waist is about 70 percent of the hips, and the chest is the same volume.
3. The most ideal appearance  possess women athletic physique. A tucked-up stomach and hips, medium-sized breasts and slightly pumped up muscles of the arms and legs make the wearer the most desired in the eyes of a man. But here you need not to overdo it with pumping up muscles, because too noticeable biceps make the figure less feminine, which men really dislike.

Hourglass figure - an ideal body according to men

Although everyone has different tastes, in one opinion most men agree - a manly figure with large shoulders and narrow hips is not very attractive. The hourglass is considered to be the most ideal figure. For this type of woman, the waist is significantly smaller than the hips and chest.

Such a choice is connected with the fact that for men at a subconscious level it is inherent in nature to choose a healthy and prolific couple. A narrow waist and wide hips just give rise to the idea of \u200b\u200ba woman’s readiness for procreation.

Interesting fact!Scientists have found that women with a guitar-like figure have a large amount of estrogen, which contributes to the conception and bearing of children. It is this sex hormone that forms the female body, making the hips wider than the waist.

Therefore, a beautiful female figure, when viewed through the eyes of most men, should be in the form of an hourglass, indicating that a woman will be able to bear and give birth to a healthy child.

The figure "90-60-90" is an ideal body for womanizer

Not so long ago, the proportions 90-60-90 were considered the standard of beauty. It was to these parameters that most beauties sought. But, as it turned out, such volumes most often attract men who are not ready for a long relationship. If we talk about a partner for procreation, then the main criterion that men distinguish is a thin waist and wide hips.

But centimeters are not the main thing here. But a man who has only fashionable attributes of attractiveness in the first place is looking for the most ideal, the most beautiful, the most slim. Such a partner will always change, looking on the side for a more fashionable and glamorous beauty.

Rectangular figure - perfect body for male leaders

But the beautiful female figure through the eyes of male leaders is rectangular, without roundness and mouth-watering curves. Such a woman demonstrates a strong character and the ability to stand up for herself, so for her the best couple can only be a strong man with leadership qualities.

But even “mama’s sons” with a weak character, who are ready to live “under the heel”, also reach for women with a “rectangle” figure, because they want to be under someone's protection.

Note!In women with a rectangular figure, male hormones androgens predominate, which direct fat deposits to the waist, removing them from the hips. Such homons increase stress resistance and endurance, which makes the female character “steel”.

What should be female breasts

Often in fashion magazines and on television, models with large breasts can be seen. Many ladies are trying in every possible way to increase their breasts, believing that men like this type more. But it is worth knowing that the beauties of model appearance are more to the liking of adolescents or men of age.

And such ladies attract them only because of the opportunity to assert themselves, to show others their importance.

Not everyone considers a female figure with large breasts to be beautiful. In the eyes of most men, the second or third is considered the most acceptable size. And for the busty ladies, they show rather simple curiosity, but they do not want to marry such women.

On thin and fragile girls, large breasts look more vulgar than beautiful. Therefore, you should not spoil your body with silicone, as this can lead to poor health, and it will not be possible to achieve the desired result.

Waist and hips: what are the ideal options for men

Men, when looking at a woman, immediately pay attention to the hips and waist. This area, according to most representatives of the stronger sex, is the most attractive.

But what really really catches their eyes? Scientists have found that on an intuitive level, men in this way evaluate their potential partner - is it worth it to get to know her, is she already busy with another contender for her hand and heart, is she healthy, and so on.

And you can find out exactly by the waist, hips and their ratio:

• thin waist  shows a man that a woman is not pregnant, and therefore not busy;
• tight, rounded hips  talk about the good health of the female and the ability to give birth to healthy offspring;
• the difference between the waist and hips  will show the character of the woman and her ability to bear and feed the child.

No matter how complete the lady, the optimal index between the waist and hips should not exceed 0.7. That is, the waist should be only 70% of the hips. Such parameters will attract attention regardless of the fullness, height and body weight of the woman (within reason, of course).

Interesting fact!Men do not need to walk with a centimeter to see an attractive waist-to-hip ratio. It is enough for them to look at the woman for 10 seconds, and intuition itself will tell them the correct parameters of the female body, in which you can safely make a further decision on the continuation of the genus.

Long legs - the standard of female beauty

An indisputable fact is the increased interest of almost all men in long-legged ladies. Regardless of height and weight, a woman's legs must be necessarily long.

This whim can be explained by the fact that short legs indicate childhood, that is, the woman’s unpreparedness to continue the genus. And during puberty, women's legs begin to lengthen, and this intuitively allows men to understand that the girl is ready for childbearing.

So long legs and a symmetrical figure of a woman is not a whim of a pampered and moody man, but a very practical choice in implementing a plan for the production of offspring.

What size clothes should a woman have for men

If women think that they need to lose weight up to the 40th clothing size (or XXS by international standards), then this is a deep misconception. Numerous studies have shown that men are more likely to see their chosen ones in the 46th size of clothing than in the smallest.

For example, the British TV presenter and actress Kelly Brook has a rather impressive bust, and it is difficult to call her thin, but her figure has become an ideal for most men.

For comparison, in order to understand how thin a woman is considered beautiful, you can see the table of the ratio of the collected positive votes to the parameters of figures of different celebrities.

As you can see, the too small size of women's clothing is not popular among the stronger sex and is gaining extremely few sympathy votes.

But men also treat neglected very complete girls, and will not be delighted if their chosen one sharply begins to gain extra pounds. A particularly large amount of disapproval was heard of girls who quickly plumped into three or more sizes of clothing.

Men reacted relatively calmly when gaining partner weight by 1-2 sizes. And the opinion was split almost in half if their chosen one got better by 2-3 sizes.

So a beautiful female figure through the eyes of men is definitely not an anorexic model and not a shapeless bun, but a figured woman with rounded proportional shapes and a thin waist.

A survey by German sociologists of men regarding the ideal female figure showed very interesting results. It turns out that the male ideal changes depending on the social situation in the country.

In wartime or in the event of a financial crisis, the eyes of men are turned to magnificent forms, and in peacetime - to thin ladies. So do not worry too much about the extra 2-3 kg of weight gained, the main thing is that the figure should be taut and the body healthy. To do this, you need to lead a healthy lifestyle, give preference to natural products and play sports.

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