Women do not always appreciate what they have, it happens that the relationship in a couple gradually deteriorates and deteriorates, and the girl pretends that you are normal. The result in this case is deplorable - the guy ceases to love her and leaves.

The reasons may be different, but if your beloved has left you, having stopped loving, you need to return it or try to forget it. So, you still love him and can’t accept the loss. How to get a guy back if he doesn't love you?

Do you really need him?

Think first do you really need this guy? Maybe it’s for the best that he left because you couldn’t find a common language with him, he liked to swear, was lazy, uninitiated? Are you still ready to return to your previous life? Then act.

Release it to begin

To make it easier to return the guy to his arms, you need to correctly part with him. Do not make scandals and tantrums, do not threaten, do not blame anything. Hold on with dignity, and then a seed of doubt is sown in the heart of a young man whether he is doing the right thing and leaving you. And even if this seed does not germinate, this is a great first step on the way to the goal. But do not confuse the word “worthy” with another word - “detached”. The guy should see through your eyes that it hurts, but you are trying to come to terms with what is happening.

Wait a while

For some time, try not to see and communicate with the guy, even over the internet or by phone. Devote your free time to thinking, understanding your mistakes, building a further plan of action. Take care of yourself, completely change your image. Places where you can meet an ex-boyfriend, so far, avoid making your transformation a surprise to him.

Do not forget about personal life

You must to live in such a way (or at least pretend) that everything is fine with you. That is, your personal life should look fine. Do not sit in the four walls of the apartment, communicate with friends, make new acquaintances, in general, live an ordinary life, and for the time being, harbor the pangs of unrequited love as deep as possible.

Ask for help

Ask a guy to help you, say, with a computer that is broken. It’s not necessary to destroy your equipment, because you can simply pull out a couple of wires from your sockets, disconnect power from the hard drive so that the operating system does not load. The main thing is for the guy to come and start working, that is, repair your PC. In the meantime, talk to him slowly, then invite him to the kitchen for a cup of tea.

Turn on all your charm now, remember all the flirting techniques you know, use all the tricks, but win the guy’s location again. And it will be much easier there - just become friends and continue rapprochement, until everything returns to normal and your serious relationship resumes.

It's always hard to leave. Especially if you love a person, and you quarreled out of the blue. In such a situation, only a clear plan of action will help. Use this step-by-step instruction.

Sometimes life develops so that even strong family unions break up. Parting takes place on various occasions. Love has passed, disappointment in the partner has come, and feelings are no longer the same - over the years, people have bored each other. It begins to seem to them that there is no sense in staying together. To decide how to return a loved one, you should understand why the gap occurred.
  A man and a woman begin a serious relationship because of the needs that they want to satisfy. This is not necessarily the need for sex. People besides him need love, respect, care. Do not forget about the financial and housing issues. If a loved one is deprived of what he expects from a partner, frustration begins.
  As soon as you realize that you are starting to lose a loved one, immediately proceed to solve the problem. Otherwise, the chance of success will be missed. You need to make sure that this person is really close to you. You might really be better off breaking up.

How to return a loved one - is it possible

Yes it is possible. The main thing is to understand the essence of the situation, draw the right conclusions and make a decision. We offer the following algorithm for determining the causes of disagreements:

• The first step is to determine who is actually the initiator of the breakup.
• Next, you need to honestly admit to yourself what reasons have become an obstacle between you and your loved one.
• For further reasoning, a clear mind will be required - you will have to completely calm down and, without unnecessary emotions, reflect on whether the person who left you really loved you.
• Try to identify the tipping point and remember what caused the change in relationship. Determine where you made a mistake.
• Think over methods of eliminating the reasons for the separation, make a plan of your actions.

According to psychologists, if a breakdown has already occurred, the chances of their recovery are not very high. The fact is that the gap does not happen just like that. Before making a decision, a person carefully considers all the pros and cons. Serious efforts are needed to turn everything back.
  The chances of restoring relations are great if the couple had common interests and needs, or the partners are able to take into account each other's interests. In other cases, the relationship will certainly be broken.

Do I need to return it

You have already analyzed the situation, found out the reason or reasons for the breakup, and made a plan on how to get your loved one back. Next, the following question arises: do you need to restore your relationship? It all depends on why you ended the relationship. If a partner constantly cheated on you, showed aggression and even beat, showed disrespect in every way - why restore such a relationship?
  But more often it happens differently: you unexpectedly broke up because of an ordinary quarrel, and there was no time or opportunity to resolve the conflict. In this case, the desire to resolve the conflict will be quite natural.

What to do to revive love

• The first advice - you need to calm down, pull yourself together. Down with tears, pleas, moaning - you need to show firmness and fortitude. Compliance with this rule is the key to success.
• Do not show your former partner how difficult it is for you to endure the breakup. You need to at least outwardly show that you do not care. If not all the same, then not enough to go crazy over him.
• If the partner hints that it’s time for you to leave, it’s better to say right away: “So be it, then let's part as friends.” There is no need for tantrums and “burning” bridges; it is better to leave a chance for a return.
• Be more where there is a person with whom you broke up. Do not stop contacts with mutual friends, and do not forget to call him occasionally. You do not need to be persistent - it is better to observe the measure.

Not all girls have friends or relatives who can listen and give good advice. Then there remains another option - seek the help of a psychologist. We advise you to pay attention to the recommendations of psychologists - they actually help.
Calm down, try to quickly get out of stress. Free yourself from heavy thoughts, it’s easy for girls to do this - just cry, take a bath or shower, go to bed early. Do not try to cope with stress with alcohol - this will only help temporarily.
  Before embarking on an action, reflect on the history of your relationship — you need to find your mistakes and try to correct them. Even if you do not return your beloved, you will know what you were wrong about.
  You already know where you made a mistake, then all that remains is to act. Trust in the strength of your feelings, in your love, sexuality, intellect. Avoid importunity, draw up a plan for the return of a loved one and clearly fulfill your plan.

How to return a lover if he went to a rival

The reason for your separation is his departure to another woman? Then the task of returning a loved one is significantly complicated. Here we need a special psychological approach. Use the entire arsenal of your female charm, all means will be good. Find out more about your rival.
  If she is smart, be even smarter, if she is beautiful, you will have to become more attractive, if she is sexy - be even more frank and sexy. Do not forget to use its flaws. Do not try to return it right now - let the story of your parting be forgotten first.

We change ourselves in order to return the beloved

Not only your appearance, but also your worldview needs change. It is necessary not only to look attractive, feminine and sensual, but also to feel oneself. Anything that looks bored and unacceptable will have to be ruthlessly removed. Hairstyle, manicure, makeup - everything should be on top.
  Do not prematurely reveal his new image to him - let it be an absolute surprise for him! Think about where you should meet. Ideally, he should be with his new passion. You should look much better during this seemingly random meeting than your rival. In any case, he will compare you and her. And if the comparison is not in favor of the rival, your lover will understand that he’s obviously stupid, having parted with such a wonderful girl like you.
During the meeting, try to behave calmly and confidently, let him feel your attraction to him. It is likely that he will reciprocate. After some time, organize other meetings, but without a rival. If he makes contact, try to calmly express your point of view on your relationship, let him tell his own. You have every chance to return your beloved. Good luck

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Probably, every person at least once in his life thought about how to renew a broken relationship. Romantic feelings for your former soul mates are quite natural, because in the past you probably had passion, pleasant moments, and plans for the future. Even if the relationship ended in scandal and disappointment, all happy memories will remain in memory, no matter what. Of course, if everything is fine on your personal front, a new relationship, a strong love, etc., you will hardly come up with the idea of \u200b\u200breturning your ex. But if everything is not so rosy? If the new love did not come, and the old did not end? Is it possible to return the beloved with whom they parted, and if so, how?

Which depends on the reason for the breakup.

Before thinking about how to glue the broken, it is necessary to assess the extent of destruction, that is, look at the fragments of old love, their size and quantity - you may immediately abandon the idea of \u200b\u200brestoration. Sometimes, when parting, people say such things to each other that they can’t atone for any excuses. It happens that bitter words are also confirmed by cruel acts in order to inflict as much pain as possible on the person who offended you. At such moments, few people think about the possible resumption of this connection in the future. This is called "breaking the relationship into small fragments."

Of course, returning a guy after such a stormy breakup is quite difficult, although possible. Therefore, the methods and techniques that can help in this matter, directly depend on the circumstances of the separation. Here are some examples of such circumstances:

• The couple is breaking up because relationship stalled. Nothing bad happened, as well as good. Love has passed, there is no more passion, there remains one habit that tired both of them. A guy and a girl begin to move away from each other, less often they call, they do not feel the joy of meeting, they suddenly discover many shortcomings in each other (and among people around, by the way, a lot of advantages). They part quietly, as if by itself.
• Lovers, by contrast, too emotional. For example, one of them, or both, at once cannot cope with their jealousy. It would seem that love has not died out, and more than enough passions, but they can no longer be near. Endless quarrels, suspicions, grievances, distrust can destroy any relationship. The breakup, like everything that came before him, is very stormy, with a scandal, mutual accusations and a secret desire to take revenge.
• Parting due to treason  - real, established, indisputable. Either the guy cheated and the girl left him, or vice versa. In both cases, the gap will be very painful, even if no quarrel breaks out. By the way, often betrayal provokes just such a reaction - silence full of contempt or just quiet “leave”.
• Relations ceased due to misunderstanding. For example, some common acquaintances, “friends, girlfriends” told you all kinds of nonsense about a guy, in other words, slandered him. Or they did the same, but with respect to you. One way or another, but not understanding the situation, following the acquaintances' acquaintance, one of you announces the termination of the relationship. Most likely, there will still be a quarrel, because the slandered side will want to at least find out what is the matter.
• The breakup was under the pressure of circumstances. For example, a pair did not pass the distance test. At one point, one of the lovers left for an indefinite time in another city or country. For some time, communication continued, but faded away by itself. And now each of you has his own life, possibly a different relationship. But at some point you suddenly really wanted to return your boyfriend, with whom fate itself divorced you.

There are other models of parting, as well as the nuances that accompanied him. But you must admit that the ways to return a guy in each of the mentioned cases will be different, as well as the chances of success. Therefore, each situation is strictly individual and requires a special approach. However, regardless of the situation, some rules and techniques can help to achieve the goal.

From words to deeds

Before you begin the process of winning over your ex-boyfriend, you should answer yourself a few questions. First of all, to understand whether you are sure that you really want a renewed relationship. For this, it is necessary to recall in detail the reason and circumstances of the breakup. Remembered? Now answer the question, what really drives you now? Jealousy? The desire to return "their property"? Fear of loneliness? Self-doubt? Or is it still not cooled love? Having understood your feelings and thoughts, proceed to analyze the current situation, writing out initial data on a piece of paper, as the conditions of the task are written:

• feelings that pushed you to this decision (love, principle, jealousy, fear, etc.);
• does the guy have a grudge against you;
• are you really to blame before him?
• whether he is currently in a relationship;
• are other people involved in your breakup?
• do you intend to return it for a long time or just to achieve its return, and then you do not care.

After writing down the answers to these questions with the utmost honesty, take a look at the resulting picture with an open mind. Already at this stage it will become approximately clear whether it will be difficult or simply to solve this problem. Of course, the more “yes” answers are in front of each question, the more complicated the matter.

Now you need to prepare for the implementation of the process. You must select the most suitable time and place for your meeting. No preliminary dialogues through messages, calls, etc. - the guy needs to be taken by surprise, especially if someone has already appeared or other people are involved in your break. Nobody should interfere with your meeting.

Next, you should carefully consider all the circumstances of the upcoming meeting, provide for possible complications, if necessary, even collect some information in advance. For example, a guy’s employment, his daily routine, when he has more or less free time, etc. In addition, consider such tips:

• choose a time when he will not be in a hurry;
• invite him to a place where he can relax emotionally, and ideally, tune in a romantic mood;
• do not make an appointment in a place that reminds the guy of the moment of your separation according to the situation or in any other way;
• do not wear clothes that remind him of any unpleasant moments, it is better to choose something completely new;
• do not overdo it with makeup, but you should not neglect it - you need to look spectacular, but not vulgar;
• turn off the phone so that a sudden call does not spoil your whole business;
• remember in advance the most pleasant and happy moments from your common past that you will rely on during the upcoming conversation.

To invite a guy to a meeting (time and place are well thought out in advance) is necessary simply and categorically. For example, you call him and say: “Hello! I need to meet and talk with you. Tonight, let’s say, at seven o’clock, are you comfortable? I will wait for you at ... ”It is better to make an appointment as soon as possible so that he does not have a chance to change his mind or change his mind (and even more so to consult).

If he says that he cannot today, specify what time it is convenient for him. If he sets the time himself, it will already be a small victory for you. If he begins to evade, ask, why do you need it, etc., do not try to explain anything, answer that he will know everything at a meeting. You can only say that nothing bad happened, but this is not a telephone conversation.

When he comes to a meeting, you need to completely take control of the situation. Firstly, because you are the initiator of the meeting, and secondly, only you know the real purpose of this event. At the same time, stay cute, talk without pressure, as softly as possible. Glance will work better if it is full of tenderness and light sadness.

For example, you meet in a coffee shop. As soon as the guy sits down at the table, tell him something like: “You probably wonder why I called you? I will not beat around the bush. A few days ago, one event (to clarify which event is not necessary, this phrase in itself involuntarily attracts attention) prompted me to think about you. I understood that there were unresolved issues between us, and I would simply die if I did not clarify everything for myself. ” After that, you can suddenly change direction, as if distracted: “By the way, I'm sorry, I did not ask how are you? How are you?" It is necessary to constantly keep his attention in suspense until he relaxes and you feel that he will not go away at this moment.

Then during the conversation periodically recall happy moments, especially those where he excelled, showed himself. Flatter him, but unobtrusively, so that he does not understand that all this is a well-designed game. Pretend that the purpose of this meeting is to clarify the circumstances, for example, your separation. Say that you suddenly felt a reproach of conscience, learned new information about that time, brought slanderers into the open, etc. Say that you regret that he had to go through because of your stubbornness and distrust.

Then switch to more pleasant moments (although what could be more pleasant for a guy than a repentant girl!), Remember funny cases, try to cheer him up, draw him into the conversation. Having chosen a favorable moment when the guy will be as well-disposed as possible, ask him to accompany you (it's already too late!). On the way home, say as if by chance that you spent the happiest days in your life next to him, that you would give half the world to return that time.

At the moment of farewell, try to kiss him on the cheek. Long and passionate kisses are not appropriate here, unless he himself wants to. Then say thank you to him for the evening and for pleasant memories, express hope that you will meet “somehow” and sit together as well. Say goodbye and go home. The next day (closer to noon) you can safely send him a message about the following content: “You completely disabled me, I can’t think of anything except you!” And after some time, ask: “Maybe, see you, I miss, as if I fell in love only yesterday!” And then everything will depend on your perseverance, patience and mind.

Even if a guy has a girl, do not give up. You will always have at least one advantage - you know him much better than she does. You know his weaknesses, what he is proud of, what he likes. Using this knowledge, you can touch the most hidden strings of his soul. The new passion is just starting to step on the rake that you walked on for a long time and remember where they lie. More confidence, and you will succeed!

How many beautiful love stories ended because of stupidity or betrayal. How many tears and regrets were shed due to a break with a loved one. How many beauties are looking for the answer to the question: "?". So, it's time to stop feeling sorry for yourself and solve the problem once and for all, if the feelings for the former are still strong, and you are ready for a lot to achieve your goal.

How to return the former

Time has passed, the pain after parting has subsided a bit, but thoughts about it continue to haunt, forcing over and over to scroll through your head over and over what happened and how you could lose it. And whatever you do, nothing can make you throw it out of your head. New hobbies, acquaintances, study, attempts to start a new life, and even new relationships do not allow to let go of the past. And instead of relief, you begin to feel more and more how you miss him.

But no matter how hard it was and didn’t want to run to him, nevertheless try to calm down and approach the solution of the problem with a “cold” head. In order for your life to return to normal again, you need to deal with this problem, get rid of its source, and not drown out the thoughts in a mass of different activities. Allow yourself to live today, take your time to run away from yourself and your thoughts, restore peace to yourself.

First, analyze everything that happened between you and your ex-boyfriend. Remember how they parted, what was the reason when the relationship began to deteriorate, and what mistakes you made and what you could not forgive him. Be honest with yourself. Do not try to blame yourself or him for all sins. Look at the situation from the side. Put yourself in his place. Just no dusting your head with ashes and thoughts that your life is over. You are too important a person and many and many depend on you, especially since everything in life is fixable, except for truly tragic events.

When a person decides to look into his soul and relive painful memories again, he finds the strength to let go of this situation, free himself from it and move on. So you, remembering everything that was between you, will be able to make a decision, which you will not regret later. After all, the chances of returning the ex-boyfriend depend not only on the one who decided to leave, but also on how much the girl really needs it.

The desire to return the former can often be caused by any remaining feelings, and fear of being alone, jealousy or possessive feelings, especially when a guy begins to meet with another.

Therefore, after immersion in yourself, try to forget about it. Take care of what you have long wanted. Watch a good movie, listen to your favorite music, which is not associated with your ex-lover, but causes you joy and excitement.

A complete immersion in the tasks that you still haven’t found time to help will help you to understand yourself. Devote your free time to them. Imagine that the former went on a business trip and will be back soon, and you have the opportunity to deal exclusively with your beloved. Look for ways to achieve goals that you have long forgotten about, but which have not lost their relevance.

After such occupational therapy, it is much easier to understand why, after parting, which was hardly possible without mutual insults, you still want to be with him. If you realized that the desire to renew the relationship has nothing to do with love, she, unfortunately, really left or she never was, you can breathe a sigh of relief. You are free and ready to meet the one and only that will never leave you.

In that case, when you really continue to love the ex-boyfriend, you have to fight for your happiness. Only answer first if you were the initiator of the breakup, why did you suddenly change your mind. He corrected or you realized that you are wrong.

You think that you got excited, so it's time to apologize to him. Arrange a meeting with him, but it is better to first send an SMS or email.

Writing is much easier to admit your own mistakes, in person you may not have the courage. Do not offer to forget everything and renew the relationship. Leave the decision to him. Otherwise, your apology will be perceived not as a sincere desire to correct the harm and admit guilt, but as an attempt to get what you want.

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Do not push him, do not rush to answer. Be patient and enjoy being able to ask for forgiveness. Very soon he will take a step towards.

We decided to leave by mutual agreement, try to understand who, after all, was the first to offer such a scenario. If you, and the young man just supported you, invite him to meet and talk. Usually, a few meetings will be enough to renew the relationship, because you did not have time to tell each other offensive things, parting in a civilized manner and retained your feelings, despite the difficulties.

I want to return the former: what to do

• No matter how strong feelings you feel for him, do not pursue him, trying to meet as often as possible. Especially if the gap was too severe or occurred solely on his initiative. Remember about self-esteem and that a man wants to feel like a hunter, not a game. It is unlikely that numerous messages on the phone with declarations of love and offers to meet will cause him positive emotions.
• He refused to continue the relationship, so behave as if you abandoned him. Treat parting as a chance to reconsider life, priorities and goals. Relive the gap in your mind and disappear for a while. Let the ex get what he wanted - life without you. This will give him the opportunity to understand whether he is right, breaking the relationship or not. Returning, if there will still be a need, observe his reaction, do you have any more chances to return him or he began a new life.

• Do not despair if, after a long separation, he did not show violent emotions. Men are not inclined to this. Pay attention to his actions and behavior. Knowing him best of all, you will definitely understand whether he is feeling for you, or if everything has already passed. Do not despair if with all his behavior he shows indifference. There is always a chance to change his attitude, you just have to try. But after separation, and you can look at him with different eyes, is he really good or is it worth paying attention to another young man.
• Be friendly. Do not sort things out. Behave as you did in the first days of your acquaintance. Show only the best qualities. Show him that you are ready to change. After all, everyone is able to become better.
• Interested ex-boyfriend. Become a mystery to him. Show yourself in an unexpected way. Of course, this does not mean that you need to turn from a modest and shy girl into a fatal beauty, but a little more confidence in the behavior will not hurt, even if everything is okay with her. If he criticized you, show how wrong he was. Let her feel awkward. After all, in fact, he should worry about the fact that he could not save love, and not you suffer and think about how to return it.

• When communicating, do not touch painful topics or memories. Try to talk about the fact that both of you cause positive emotions. Associate with him exclusively with the positive. Moreover, it will not be difficult for you, because you already know what brings him joy.
• In any case, your task is to be on top. Gorgeous appearance, confident and beautiful gait, smile and sparkle in the eyes. You do not need to turn into a groomed woman who has lost the last chance to become happy. Do not give him a reason to make sure that he was right by leaving you. On the contrary, let him look and see whom he has lost and has not managed to discern. And interest from other representatives of the strong half of humanity can be the impetus that will make him once again be with you.

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There is always a chance to get a former guy back. Of course, this will require effort and certain sacrifices. But if you are ready for anything for him, nothing is impossible. Just before you do something, you should once again think about whether you need it. Do you want to really return to the person who already left you once. If you are sure that he is the one that you need or left first, and now you understand that life is not the same without him, then do not hesitate and fight for your happiness.

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Often, after breaking up with a loved one, the girls are ready for anything to return him. But a break in relations always leads to severe stress, it is important to carefully weigh your decision, otherwise you can do stupid things and alienate your beloved guy from yourself even more. How to return the former guy?

When to start acting and how to understand if there are chances to restore your union

The question you need to ask yourself is not immediately after parting, but only making sure that you truly love him and will be happy with him. Maybe you don’t want to meet this guy later, he’s like that. Then you can add it yourself. Each person has his own shortcomings and advantages, and if you pay attention to the former, you may not be destined to bear them again, and indeed, if you try to tolerate his shortcomings, you should not torture yourself and build cloud castles.

They will fall apart again.

After the break you need to pull yourself together

  A break with a loved one - a guy, a man is not easy to survive. All the emotions that we experience in this difficult period can be confusing.

Does it seem to you that you love him? Or maybe you're just afraid to be left alone, or are you so used to it that you just don’t notice that love is gone?

Until you understand these issues and understand what you want, you cannot make any attempt to return your beloved. And for this you need to pull yourself together. Calm down, thoughts should be sober and clear and not hasty.

Give yourself time to think.

• Firstly, immediately after the breakup, you don’t need to take any action - call him or write an SMS and try to “randomly” meet with him or constantly ask your common friends about him.
• And secondly, a short break in communication will allow you to think everything over and decide for yourself whether it is worth trying to renew relations at all. It may hurt you at the time of separation. But after a very short time you will feel relief and understand that the separation was correct.

How not to run after him

  The most important thing you need to understand after the break is don't fall into despair. Try to recover as soon as possible.

When you begin to live your life, you will see that everything is fine with you and without a former lover. This happens after parting, because we can’t always understand what we want from a relationship.

Maybe you take a look at your old relationship after breaking up with completely different eyes and don't want to return it.

Do you love him? - important question. This question must be honestly answered in front of you.

Action plan to return

  If you are still determined, keep calm and begin to think through a plan of action. Do not pull too long with active measures.

During this time, your ex-boyfriend can find another and one, and then it will be very difficult to return him. But rather, even impossible at all.

At the expense of your personal life. How is it going? Is there anyone in mind? Or you still shed tears and worry.

Yes, you can get yourself a gentleman.

But not more. It does not need to be shown to relatives, let alone people who are somehow connected with the guy. If your ex learns about the existence of another person in your life. From the stories of a friend, he finds out that you are happy. He will let you out of your heart forever. Worse when your gentleman is better than your ex, from your own words.

The main thing you need to understand is that there is always a chance. But remember - there is exactly the same chance that you will cease to see each other forever. The surest strategy you should follow is to take care of yourself. Imagine how pathetic you will look in the eyes of an ex-boyfriend if you stop monitoring your appearance and lose confidence.

• You need to be honest with yourself and with him, here the secret is simple. A man or a guy is afraid to be deceived, if he discovers this lie, he will certainly never be with you. The main thing is that the words are from the heart.
• When you don’t know how to get your ex-boyfriend back, the advice from the guys will not help you. Ask psychologists what they can advise when you love someone.
• For your part, you need to see what didn’t fit and your ex-boyfriend didn’t like you. This may be the reason for another discord.
• Appreciate your time and stop wasting it on memories of parting, if you decide to return, then act without looking back.
• Convince yourself that you have exchanged, you know the mistake that led to the discord and you will not make it anymore.
• The young man is to blame for the breakdown, take the blame on yourself, if you do not follow this advice, then again slide into mutual insults and accusations.
• There is one important detail. Remember that if a guy or a man wants to discuss your relationship with you, he is also subconsciously ready to make concessions and is ready to restore your relationship just like you.

What not to do

  Girls love all sorts of fortunetelling and love spells, but do not trust them. Do not rely on conspiracies, they are used by scammers. This will definitely not help you. Magic in these matters is so far powerless, although it may leave some hope.

Do not trust your friends - if you love - if they dissuade you from any thought of meeting him again. The main thing is healthy optimism and desire.

There is only one reason why a man will never return - he seriously fell in love with another. Then then you will not have a chance. Until this happens, you need to do your best and show that you really got better.

Is it worth thinking about how to return the man you love with calls and SMS messages?

This is unlikely to be a good strategy. In order for the ex-boyfriend to think about reconciliation, he must, firstly, find out that everything is fine with you and you do not suffer from it, and secondly - to see you in a new light. But to remind yourself of everything is possible: if you parted with a terrible scandal, some time after the quarrel send him an apology message and thank you for all the good that was between you.

If you manage to remind him of that wonderful time when you loved each other and make it clear that you regret your break (not begging him to come back), maybe he will look at you with different eyes and will draw attention to you and want to try to renew your relationship .

The most important thing, even if it didn’t work out, is enough to get upset, that's okay. Anything that happens in life does not need to react to all this with wild hysteria and depression, no nerves will remain. Believe in the best and the beautiful. You can always meet a guy or a man who is much better and for sure everything will work out, the main thing is to keep it.

Combine this into several points:

1. Change yourself for the better.
2. Return to his life, let him know about your existence.
3. Try to think positively.
4. Do not rush.
5. Call him sometimes.
6. Get in touch with him.
7. One conversation is not enough, act!

Well, he’s back and how do you order yourself to be with him. Suddenly he will leave again. Here you need to manifest a female cunning.

It is necessary not to recall the past. He already has a negative experience, and any reminder will immediately generate a huge amount of negative in your direction. It’s better to forget about conflicts altogether. But remember where they started. Avoid any hints.

If the conflict arose in your favorite movie theater, then it is better to refrain from visiting it. Similarly with other places.

You need to learn how to cope with your lover, instantly get around weak flashes of emotions. If you start arguing, making claims, we’ll not break the gap. Think about the little things. You must become a new girl for him (Woman). This is a new stage in your relationship. On which you have already learned everything and know how to build a dialogue with your beloved man.

How to return the ex-boyfriend