This is a story about feelings, misunderstandings in the family, about how you need to notice any trifle in time, otherwise the situation will become irreparable. She appeared on the network recently, but has already managed to fly around the whole world, because her deep meaning and life lesson teaches us not to make serious mistakes that lead to irreversible consequences.
Talk of divorce
“He came home in the evening. His wife was cooking dinner as usual. For a long time he gathered his thoughts and forces, he needed to seriously talk with her about them, about their relationship. He added that something needs to be said, but she said nothing, quietly set plates of food and began to have dinner. He repeatedly noticed this unbearable pain in his eyes. But could not keep cheating on her, inside some worm gnawed, gnawed a hole until a huge hole formed, and he could not stand it and announced that he wanted to get a divorce.
She was not surprised or even angry, only quietly asked why. How he did not want to hear this question! How he did not want to answer him! And the wife got angry: she began to throw objects at the wall and screamed that he was not a man.
That evening they no longer uttered a word. He headed to the bedroom undressed and went to bed. There was no dream in any eye, but he heard his wife crying. He did not want showdown at night, did not want to rack their brains over why their marriage had fallen apart, why they always wanted to be together and he thought that he would not love anyone else, but ... And the wife was worried about the reason. And what did he need to answer? What has long stopped loving and now in his heart the beautiful Jane? There was no courage. Yes, he is a coward ...
Why did he avoid talking about divorce:
- a pity;
- cowardice;
- fear seems weak.
Section of property and conditions of the wife
The morning began with the filing of documents for divorce and the division of property. He did not need anything: he gave the house, the car and 30% of the shares to his wife. He is a coward, but not a greedy cattle. However, the wife did not accept his emotional gesture, tore the documents to shreds and proudly replied that she did not need anything. Then she began to cry again. God, how he did not like women's tears!
He was sorry for the spent 10 years of family life, their marriage too. But these tantrums and anger instilled in him even greater confidence that he had done everything right. More he did not see anything in her. There was no longer that amazing woman in whom he had once been crazy and was ready to turn mountains for her. She didn't hold him anymore.
He returned home late in the evening. Did not eat dinner: there was no appetite. Entered the bedroom and immediately lay down on the bed. In the light of the night light I could see the silhouette of a wife sitting at a table and writing something. I did not remember how I fell asleep, and when I opened my eyes in the middle of the night, my wife was still sitting and writing something. In general, he did not care about her. No matter what she wrote there. He no longer saw her as a loved one. In the morning they crossed in the living room, and she said that she had written her divorce conditions:
- The first thing she asked for was keep a good relationship between them. He did not argue, because they had a son, and a month later he began exams at school. She believed that divorce will affect his psyche, he will not be able to pass exams, he will be depressed. It is necessary to maintain good relations for the sake of the son. At least until he passes the exams. He agreed with her.
- The second condition surprised me. His wife wanted him to pick her up in the morning in the morning and take her out of the bedroom onto the porch. He remembers how on the day of their wedding he carried her home in his arms.
He decided that he would not argue, because all the same it meant nothing to him: he had cooled down, he did not care. But when at work he shared this information with Jane, she laughed nervously and assured that it was a pitiful attempt by his wife to manipulate, so that he returned to the family. He shrugged, he did not care, but he knew one thing for sure: he would never return to her again.
And then the next day came when he took his wife in his arms. Awkwardness seized him. There was no intimacy for a long time, and sharp snatches of phrases that they threw at each other made them strangers. But their child happily hopped around and shouted that his father was carrying his mother in his arms and that he would also wear his future wife like that. The wife whispered in his ear to say nothing to him. He silently put his wife at the door and she went to the bus stop, and he went to work.
The second time, everything worked out naturally: she laid her head on her shoulder, and he smelled her hair. He caught himself thinkingthat he had never looked at his wife so close, did not know that she had wrinkles around her eyes, and several gray hair gave her a certain charm.
How much strength she gave to their marriage, and he acted like the last cattle! I did not notice her, did not give anything in return. He felt ashamed. On the fourth day, something woke up inside her, her heart began to bounce at the meeting with her eyes. When she passed him, he smelled her body, and he drove him crazy. It was the most coveted and best fragrance for him.
Every day, her husband fell in love with her again and didn’t notice how, after work, he hurried home to taste a hearty dinner prepared by her hands, just to see her and be with her. He also noticed that his wife is getting lighter every day, like a feather. But he thought that this was all due to divorce, worries. To wife getting closerand Jane reminded him of a neighbor: surprisingly, but he didn’t feel anything for her anymore. He looked at her and did not understand what he had found in her. I did not begin to share my thoughts with her, because I knew that this would make her angry.
The last month has come somehow quickly. I did not notice him, although what can I notice: before her eyes was only her - his wife. A man who has always been dear, dearest and only. Just a turning point in their family life. He simply thought that everything, but she did not, she saved both of them. Her faith was enough for both of them.
So, on the last day of the month in the morning, he had to carry it in his arms again. He went up to the bedroom, and his wife stood near the closet. She chose clothes, quietly and without loud exclamations. He noticed that she was very thin, she had an unhealthy appearance. He felt sorry for her, everything was stabbed inside, and his mind was spinning: “Cattle!” “Bastard!” He was disgusting, he felt like a cruel animal that caused unbearable pain to his beloved wife.
His thoughts were interrupted by his son, who entered the bedroom. He asked when he carried his mother in his arms. For him, this has become a tradition, the beginning of a new day. He picked up his thin wife and carried him to the porch. Pictures flashed before my eyes from the day of their wedding. Just like 10 years ago, he and she, both young and so happy. She gently hugged his neck. How wonderful it was to feel like a boy in love again, whom the beautiful wife adores! But he was worried about her weight. It is abnormal, like her pale skin. He put his wife at the porch and rushed off to work.
The husband informed Jane that he would not divorce his wife. She was shocked, touched his forehead, thought that he had a temperature. But he repeated insistently that he loved his wife, that he was mistaken. They never stopped loving each other, but only stopped paying attention. Jane hit him, burst into tears and ran away. He didn't care. Let be runs and does not return. He caught himself thinking that he wanted to see his wife. Everything was stabbed inside, my heart began to beat painfully, it yearned for my beloved. He did not care about work. He went out, bought her favorite flowers (white orchid) in a flower, signed a card: “I am ready to carry you in my arms until my death!” And went home.
He was fine, he laughed for no reason, but easy on his heart. What a fool he was! He ran home, climbed the stairs, went into the bedroom and froze. She was dead. At that moment, the world collapsed, he stopped breathing, a huge lump came to his throat, tears almost strangled him.
Later, he found out that she had cancer of the last stage and courageously fought with it. Lord, why didn’t he know ?! Yes, and why, if he was so passionate about the affair with Jane. But his wise wife knew that she would die soon, and made sure so that the son does not know anything and so that he remains in his eyes an exemplary father and husband. The last request of his wife before the divorce forever changed his life. "
It does not matter whether you are in a relationship or not, it is important to know that even the smallest joy, attention only strengthens the family. And all this will not allow the fire to go out. It is important to be not only a lover and husband, but also a friend and faithful partner in life. Forget everything: money, work, important things. The main thing - this relationshipthat fill life with harmony and love, if surrendered completely without a trace.
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The family law of Russia provides for the possibility of a divorce, both by mutual agreement and at the request of only one of the spouses.
Unilateral divorce arises for various reasons - the defendant’s physical impossibility will appear in court, an obstacle to the process or other life circumstances.
Any spouse has the right to initiate the termination of the marriage.
Unilateral divorce occurs when:
- the second spouse does not come to the divorce proceedings;
- partner refuses to divorce.
The initiator of the divorce can file an application with the registry office or file a lawsuit with the court, it all depends on additional circumstances.
Divorce through the registry office unilaterally, when possible
It is possible to divorce in the registry office only with the obligatory observance of certain requirements.
First, a husband and wife should not have young children and disputes over property.
Secondly, mutual agreement of the parties is required.
The procedure for divorce through the registry office can go through without the presence of a second partner, for this you need to provide a notarized statement of intention to terminate the marriage to the registry office.
The law allows for divorce through a registry office at the request of only one person based on the following reasons:
- The second spouse was missing and this is established in court.
- Loss of legal capacity.
- Serves a sentence (term of imprisonment - at least 3 years).
It is simply impossible to get a positive response to a divorce from a missing or incompetent person, and imprisonment due to a crime frees the second partner from the need to obtain such consent.
Unilateral divorce through court
If there is no possibility to carry out the procedure through the registry office, then the initiator will have to file a lawsuit.
First, you need to file a lawsuit with the reason for the unilateral divorce, attaching supporting documents to the lawsuit.
Which court to file a lawsuit
A lawsuit to terminate the marriage is filed at the place of residence of the defendant.
In the case when the spouses live in the same city, it is not difficult to file such a claim.
But what if the defendant lives in another locality.
There are not many reasons to sue the plaintiff’s place of residence:
- disease;
- the presence of minor children living with the plaintiff.
Be sure to consider the jurisdiction, as you can make a mistake and the statement will not be accepted.
You need to submit an application:
- justice of the peace - when it comes only to disagreeing with a divorce;
- to the district judge - if there are young children or a division of the common property is carried out.
The procedure for filing a lawsuit in court, for a divorce unilaterally
The process of divorce through the court does not require preliminary steps - such as concluding an agreement, etc.
If the couple cannot agree, they need to go to court.
When the spouses have reached an agreement on certain issues, it is possible to draw up an agreement (for example: on alimony or the place of residence of the children), which then needs to be attached to the lawsuit to confirm the fact of agreement on a specific issue.
Divorce proceedings through a court in Russia:
- Prepare documents for subsequent transfer to the court. You can invite a lawyer to file a lawsuit. He can also represent the interests of his client during the trial.
- Next, you should choose a court and file a lawsuit.
- Get notified of meeting dates.
- Appear on the indicated day in court.
- Wait for the entry into force of the judgment.
- Go to the registry office and pick up the certificate of termination of the family union.
Important! Payment of state duty is mandatory.
The process of divorce through the court has a number of rules.
The more disputes the spouses have, the more likely it will be for the court to take longer to reach a decision.
If in the course of the trial questions about the place of residence of a minor child and the recovery of alimony will be considered, then a representative of the guardianship authority should be present at the meeting.
Failure to appear of one of the participants in the proceedings will delay the process, as the meeting will be postponed.
The law does not prohibit making a decision in absentia if it becomes clear that the defendant intentionally ignored the appearance in court, did not accept subpoenas in order to prolong the proceedings.
If a person does not report that there is a serious reason for missing, not appearing at the hearing three times, the court has the right to make a decision without it.
If the plaintiff or defendant had important circumstances for which he did not appear in court, and he can confirm this fact - the court decision can be appealed.
If the defendant submits a reconciliation petition, the court does not have the right to refuse it. For reconciliation, a period of not more than 1 month is granted.
If, after the conciliation period, the couple could not establish a relationship, the court will satisfy the suit for divorce.
The plaintiff may appeal the decision of the court within one month if he does not agree with him.
As soon as the decision on the claim comes into force, a copy of it should be sent to the registry office, where the couple entered into a marriage. There they will be able, having paid a fee, to receive a certificate confirming the dissolution of the marriage. Everyone gets their original.
List of documents
An important condition for any divorce is the availability of the necessary documents.
The statement of claim is prepared in triplicate:
- first, the plaintiff retains, having previously put on the document a corresponding mark in the court registry;
- the second is sent to the defendant;
- the third is filed to the court case.
In addition to the statement of claim, the plaintiff must provide:
- Documents confirming the identity of the applicant and the defendant (the original and a copy of the passport).
- State duty payment receipt.
- Certificate of marriage.
- Copy of the birth certificate of the child (ren).
- Documents confirming ownership of the apartment, etc.
- Certificate of Income.
- Additional documents. This may be an alimony agreement, a prenuptial agreement, etc.
When a unilateral divorce is carried out in the registry office, then you need to provide:
- an application for a divorce of an established form;
- passport;
- certificate of marriage;
- notarized statement of consent of the second partner to terminate the marriage.
Unilaterally divorced petition, sample
It is better to entrust the preparation of the necessary papers to a qualified lawyer, especially if the couple has property disputes.
The law does not prohibit making a claim on its own. It is important to consider the norms of civil law.
The standard lawsuit for divorce includes the following points:
- Name and location of the judicial authority.
- Personal data of the parties.
- Description of the circumstances of the case. The date of marriage, information about joint children, etc. The reason for the breakdown of the family can not be prescribed.
- Requirements. Indicate your basic request - to divorce the defendant. As an addition, you can specify the desire to determine the place of residence of a minor child or the division of jointly acquired property, housing.
- List of documents to be attached to the claim.
- Date.
- Signature.
In one application, you can specify all the requirements, including a divorce. But if the divorce has already taken place, then you must separately file an application for the recovery of maintenance payments or the division of property.
⇒ A sample application for a divorce form No. 9 can .
If you decide to divorce together and it is mutual, then use another sample application - form No. 8.
⇒ A sample application for a divorce form No. 8 can .
State duty, the cost of divorce proceedings unilaterally
The cost of the divorce proceedings unilaterally depends on the purpose of the statement of claim.
⇒ If the plaintiff initiates the divorce proceedings due to the fact that defendant is legally incompetent or is missingthe state duty will be 350 rubles.
⇒In case divorce through registry office by mutual agreement, both spouses must pay a fee of 650 rubles.
⇒When applying to court - the size of the state duty for the plaintiff will be 600 rubles, but only when the claim does not contain a clause on the division of property.
If a couple, in addition to a divorce, wants to settle issues with the division of jointly acquired property, then the final price of the claim depends on the cost of the living space of the apartment or house, car and other expensive assets. The maximum amount of state duty in this case cannot exceed 60 thousand rubles.
The receipt confirming the payment of tax must be attached to the rest of the documents.
Moreover, at the conclusion of the trial former spouses must pay an additional state fee of 650 rubles for each, for making changes to the respective registers, and issuing a certificate of divorce.
Attracting a lawyer or a lawyer to the trial will entail additional costs for their services:
- preliminary consultation will cost at least 1-2 thousand rubles;
- drawing up a claim - about 5 thousand rubles;
- representation of interests in court - from 15 thousand rubles.
Having lost the case in court, you can of course appeal, but it’s much more appropriate to think over the strategy in advance.
What is the time to wait for official divorce
Dates of divorce are always individual. The method of divorce, the possibility of appealing against a court decision, etc., should be considered.
For example, if the second participant in the divorce proceedings does not attend meetings or files a petition for reconciliation, then the procedure can be dragged out.
But on average, litigation on these issues lasts no more than 3 months. The law gives thirty days to the consideration of the lawsuit, another month - to hold a meeting. After the adoption of a court order, it takes effect only after 30 days.
In case of unilateral termination through the registry office, the procedure takes 1 month.
When they can refuse to unilaterally divorce
There are legal reasons when the termination of a marriage without a positive response from a partner is simply impossible:
- if the wife is pregnant;
- there is a joint child under the age of one year (12 months).
The lawsuit will be denied if the above circumstances occur and the spouse is against a divorce.
If the spouse is the initiator of the termination of the marriage, then the court may not consider all these circumstances when making the decision.
These reasons are temporary, but limit the man in initiating the divorce process. However, the plaintiff may resubmit a similar request after the common child reaches 1 year. Then the place of residence of the minor will be determined, the procedure for providing alimony, and the spouses will be divorced according to the standard procedure.
Is it possible to stop the divorce proceedings
According to the law, the plaintiff has the right to refuse his claims at any stage of the trial (Articles 39, 173 of the Code of Civil Procedure of the Russian Federation).
But the refusal is accompanied by the observance of certain conditions:
- he must not violate the rights and interests of third parties;
- must be provided before a court order is issued.
Waiver of claims automatically means that the marriage of spouses remains valid.
But the plaintiff has the right to apply again for a divorce, if the circumstances, due to which the waiver of the claims came, have changed over time.
How to file a one-way scam via the Internet
You cannot get a divorce on the Internet, you can only submit documents for the implementation of this procedure. The law does not yet allow the filing of a claim through the State Services, documents must be submitted to the registry office.
If the husband and wife were divorced by the court, then it is possible through the State Services to apply for a certificate.
Using this service, it is easy to pay state fees. The main thing is not to forget to print the receipt.
When auto-divorce is possible
Automatic divorce is often used if the defendant is not at court hearings. The court has the right to make an absentee decision and satisfy the claim in full or in part.
The main condition is that the defendant must be notified of the content of the claim, the date and place of the meeting and other circumstances of the case.
Divorce unilaterally takes place precisely through the court, and the registry office applies with mutual and voluntary consent.
“I returned home to the dinner my wife had prepared. I had a difficult conversation with her, which I began with the phrase "I need to tell you something." She did not answer and began to have supper. This is not the first time I have noticed pain in her eyes ...
But I still had to start, and I blurted out that I wanted a divorce. She did not look angry or surprised, only quietly asked a short question: “Why?” But I avoided this question, which made her very angry. My wife started throwing objects and threw a tantrum. “You are not a man!” she threw to me.
That evening we did not talk anymore. I went to the bedroom and went to bed, but I heard my wife crying. In truth, I did not intend to arrange a showdown why our marriage collapsed. But it was precisely this question that worried her. What could I answer? That I do not love her for a long time, but only regret it? And that my heart now belongs to Jane?
In the morning I signed the divorce papers and the property division. I gave my wife a house, a car and thirty percent of my company’s shares. But she only grinned and tore the documents, saying that she did not need anything from me. Then she began to cry again. I felt sorry for her ten years, and I also felt sorry for our marriage, but her reaction, her tantrums and anger strengthened me in my desire to divorce. I no longer saw in this woman that I had once loved and that had once held me by her side.
In the evening I returned very late. Without supper, I went to the bedroom and lay down. My wife sat at the table and wrote something. I quickly fell asleep, and when I woke up in the middle of the night, my wife was still writing, sitting at my desk. I didn’t care what she was doing, I no longer felt a kinship with her.
In the morning, she informed me that she had written her terms of divorce. All she needed was to try to maintain a good relationship as much as we had. Her argument was very convincing: a month later, our son had exams at school, and she believed that it was not worth disturbing his nervous system with such bad news, but we should try to maintain normal relations until he figured out the exams. I agreed, because I was forced to admit that this is the right decision. My second request from my wife seemed stupid - all she wanted was for me to take her out of the bedroom in my arms for a month every month and carry her to the porch, in memory of how, after our wedding, I brought her to the house.
I did not argue, if only because it would still mean nothing to me. But when I told Jane about this request at work, she laughed sarcastically and said that it was my wife’s pathetic attempts to manipulate me in order to return me to my family. I just shrugged, I did not care, and I was sure that this was impossible.
When I took my wife in my arms on the first day, I felt very embarrassed, because we had not had intimacy for a long time, and the conversations that have been conducted between us lately have completely made us strangers. But our son joyfully jumped around us and shouted: “Dad carries mom in his arms!” And the wife quietly told me, “Don’t tell him anything ...” Near the door, I put my wife on the floor and went to the car, she headed to the bus stop.
The second time we behaved more naturally, she bowed her head on my shoulder, and I smelled her. Suddenly, I caught myself thinking that I had not examined my own wife for a long time, did not notice small wrinkles on her face and several gray hair. She gave so much to our marriage, what did I give her in return?
The fourth day gave birth to a tiny spark between us
The next two days made me feel that the spark was growing. And I was surprised to see that my wife is becoming easier and easier for me. I did not speak about my thoughts and feelings to Jane, subconsciously realizing that this would make her angry.
On the last day, when I was to carry my wife, I found her near the closet. She chose what to wear, and lamented that she had lost a lot of weight. And then I noticed, indeed it was, she became very thin, perhaps too thin. I felt bitterness that I had caused her such pain. Our son entered the room and asked when would dad carry his mother in his arms? For him, this was the usual beginning of the day. I easily grabbed my skinny wife and carried her to the front door. I felt exactly the same as on our wedding day. She gently hugged my neck, just like then. And everything was perfect, the only thing that really upset me was the weight of my wife.
When I put my wife on my feet, I rather ran to the car and rushed off to work. There I first met Jane and told her that I had changed my mind about getting divorced. She felt my head, hoping that I had a fever and I was raving. But I repeated my desire, adding that our marriage was falling apart not because we stopped loving each other, but because we stopped paying attention to each other.
Jane slapped me in the face and ran away in tears. I really wanted to return home to my wife. I jumped out of the office and first went to the flower shop. There I bought the most beautiful bouquet, and when the seller asked what to write on the card, I replied, “It will be a pleasure for me to carry you in my arms until my death!” With a light heart, a bouquet in my hands and a smile on my lips, I flew up the stairs and ran into the bedroom. My wife was lying on the bed. She was dead
Later, I found out that my wife had courageously fought cancer for the past few months. She did not tell me anything, and I myself did not notice, since I was busy with an affair with Jane. But my wise and kind wife, knowing that she did not have long, made sure that our divorce and my new romance did not make me a monster in the eyes of my son. Seeing how I carried my mother in my arms, he will now always consider me an exemplary husband. It doesn’t matter whether you are in a relationship now or not, remember that any small joys, signs of attention, touches to your love will only strengthen and decorate the marriage. And they will not allow the spark to go out ... Be not only a lover to your soul mate, be a friend and partner in life, faithful and faithful. Forget everything - money, work, business. The main thing is relationships that will forever fill your life if they are harmonious and full of love.
I hope my story will help someone save the family ... Many people gave up, not knowing that they are just a step away from victory! ”
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The last request of his wife before the divorce changed his life forever. It does not matter whether you are in a relationship now or not. We advise you to read this story about how important it is to value your loved ones. While they are nearby.
« I came home for dinnerIt was cooked by my wife that evening. I wanted to talk to her, the conversation was not easy, and I started with the phrase “I need to tell you something” ... She did not answer anything and switched to cooking. Once again I saw the pain in her eyes.I needed to continue the conversation somehow, and I blurted out that we needed to get a divorce. She only asked: “Why?” I could not answer avoiding this question. Then she got angry, threw a tantrum, started throwing at me everything that came to hand. “You're not a man,” she cried out.
There was nothing more to talk about. I went to bed, could not fall asleep for a long time and heard her cry. It was difficult for me to explain to her what happened with our marriage, I did not know what to answer. How can I tell her that I have not loved her for a long time, only pity has remained of my feelings, and I have given my heart to Jane?The next day I prepared all the documents for the divorce and the division of property. I left my house, car and 30% of my business as a wife. However, she grinned, tore the documents and said that she did not need anything from me. And then she burst into tears again. I also felt sorry for 10 years of our marriage, but her reaction only strengthened my desire to divorce.
That day I came home late, did not dine, and immediately went to bed. She sat at the table and wrote something. I woke up in the middle of the night - my wife was still writing, sitting at my desk. I didn’t care what she was doing, since I didn’t feel any closer souls with her.
In the morning, she told me that she has her own conditions for divorce. She insisted on maintaining good relations, as long as we had enough. Her argument was very convincing: a month later, our son had exams at school. She believed that such news would excite his nervous system. It was hard to disagree with her. The second condition of my wife seemed stupid to me: she wanted me to carry her out of the bedroom in my arms every morning for a month and carry her to the porch, as a reminder of how I brought her into my house after the wedding.
I did not argue, I did not care. At work, I talked about this request to Jane, to which she noted with sarcasm that it was my wife’s pathetic attempts to manipulate me in order to return me to my family.
When on the first day I took my wife in my arms, I felt awkward. We became strangers to each other. Our son saw us and joyfully jumped around: “Dad carries mom in his arms!” And the wife quietly told me: “Don’t tell him anything ...” Near the front door I put my wife on the floor, from where she went to the bus stop.
On the second day, everything turned out more naturally. I was surprised to note that I had never noticed small wrinkles on her face and some gray hair. She put so much heat into our marriage, how could I thank her?
Very soon, a small spark appeared between us. And every day this sparkle grew. And I was surprised to see that my wife is becoming easier and easier for me. I did not say anything to Jane.
When on the last day I was going to pick up my wife, I found her near the closet. She lamented that she had lost a lot of weight lately. She really lost weight, lost a lot of weight. Is she so worried about our relationship? Our son entered the room and asked when would dad carry his mother in his arms? He took it as a tradition. I took her in my arms, feeling exactly like on the day of our wedding. This is incredible: she gently hugged my neck. The only thing that haunted me was its weight.
Then I put my wife on the floor, grabbed the car keys and flew to work. When I met Jane, I told her that I didn’t want to divorce my wife, that our feelings had cooled off only because we had stopped paying attention to each other. Jane slapped me in the face and ran away in tears.
And I realized that I rather want to see my wife. I jumped out of the office, bought the most beautiful bouquet in the nearest flower shop, and when the seller asked what to write on the card, I replied: “It will be a pleasure for me to carry you in my arms until my death!”
I arrived home, with a light heart and a smile on my lips, I climbed the stairs and ran into the bedroom. My wife was lying on the bed. She was dead ...
It does not matter at all whether you are in a relationship now or not. I advise you to read this story about how important it is to value your loved ones. While they are nearby.
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“I came home for dinner, my wife was cooking it that evening. I wanted to talk to her, the conversation was not easy, and I started with the phrase “I need to tell you something” ... She did not answer anything and switched to cooking. Once again I saw the pain in her eyes.
I needed to continue the conversation somehow, and I blurted out that we needed to get a divorce. She only asked: “Why?” I could not answer avoiding this question. Then she got angry, threw a tantrum, started throwing at me everything that came to hand. “You're not a man,” she cried out.There was nothing more to talk about. I went to bed, could not fall asleep for a long time and heard her cry. It was difficult for me to explain to her what happened with our marriage, I did not know what to answer. How can I tell her that I have not loved her for a long time, only pity has remained of my feelings, and I have given my heart to Jane?
The next day I prepared all the documents for the divorce and the division of property. I left my house, car and 30% of my business as a wife. However, she grinned, tore the documents and said that she did not need anything from me. And then she burst into tears again. I also felt sorry for 10 years of our marriage, but her reaction only strengthened my desire to divorce.
That day I came home late, did not dine, and immediately went to bed. She sat at the table and wrote something. I woke up in the middle of the night - my wife was still writing, sitting at my desk. I didn’t care what she was doing, since I didn’t feel any closer souls with her.
In the morning, she told me that she has her own conditions for divorce. She insisted on maintaining good relations, as long as we had enough. Her argument was very convincing: a month later, our son had exams at school. She believed that such news would excite his nervous system. It was hard to disagree with her. The second condition of my wife seemed stupid to me: she wanted me to carry her out of the bedroom in my arms every morning for a month and carry her to the porch, as a reminder of how I brought her into my house after the wedding.
I did not argue, I did not care. At work, I talked about this request to Jane, to which she noted with sarcasm that it was my wife’s pathetic attempts to manipulate me in order to return me to my family.
When on the first day I took my wife in my arms, I felt awkward. We became strangers to each other. Our son saw us and joyfully jumped around: “Dad carries mom in his arms!” And my wife quietly told me: “Don’t tell him anything ...” Near the front door I put my wife on the floor, from where she went to the bus stop.
On the second day, everything turned out more naturally. I was surprised to note that I had never noticed small wrinkles on her face and some gray hair. She put so much heat into our marriage, how could I thank her?
Very soon, a small spark appeared between us. And every day this sparkle grew. And I was surprised to see that my wife is becoming easier and easier for me. I did not say anything to Jane.
When on the last day I was going to pick up my wife, I found her near the closet. She lamented that she had lost a lot of weight lately. She really lost weight, lost a lot of weight. Is she so worried about our relationship? Our son entered the room and asked when would dad carry his mother in his arms? He took it as a tradition. I took her in my arms, feeling exactly like on the day of our wedding. This is incredible: she gently hugged my neck. The only thing that haunted me was its weight.
Then I put my wife on the floor, grabbed the car keys and flew to work. When I met Jane, I told her that I didn’t want to divorce my wife, that our feelings had cooled off only because we had stopped paying attention to each other. Jane slapped me in the face and ran away in tears.
And I realized that I rather want to see my wife. I jumped out of the office, bought the most beautiful bouquet in the nearest flower shop, and when the seller asked what to write on the card, I replied: “It will be a pleasure for me to carry you in my arms until my death!”I arrived home, with a light heart and a smile on my lips, I climbed the stairs and ran into the bedroom. My wife was lying on the bed. She was dead ...
Later, I learned that she had courageously fought cancer for the past few months. But she didn’t say anything to me, and I didn’t see anything, because I was busy with my relationship with Jane. My wife was an amazingly wise woman: so that I would not become a monster in the eyes of my son because of a divorce, she came up with all these “divorce conditions”.
I hope my story will help someone save the family ... Many people gave up, not knowing that they are just a step away from victory! "
