How to check the reliability of a man on a first date. These questions were formulated by a practical psychologist, author and presenter of training courses on the relationship between a man and a woman, and personal life specialist Vadim Kurkin

How to check the reliability of a man on a first date

These questions were formulated by a practical psychologist, author and presenter of training courses on the relationship between a man and a woman and specialist in establishing personal life, Vadim Kurkin. They will help you understand if a man is suitable for a serious relationship. To avoid disappointment, it is better to ask them already at the first meetings and dates.

1. What are your immediate goals and plans?

If a man does not have immediate goals and plans (for about 1-3 years), then most likely you have a "sissy" or an unreliable man. Male energy is the energy of moving forward. And if a man strives for more, plans something, then this shows that he has every chance to succeed in the future.

2. What are your long-term plans and goals?

Long-term plans should be different from short-term ones. These are already plans for 3-5 years or more. For a promising and reliable man it will not be difficult to outline these plans for you. Especially if you will show sincere interest in his story. :)

3. How do you look at our relationship?

In the context of this issue, it is important to understand what the values \u200b\u200bof this man are - whether he wants a family, how he relates to children, what kind of relationship he has with his parents. Do not be afraid to ask this question on a first date if you really want to find out if this man is right for you or if you are facing another adventurer.

4. What do you think of me?

Men very often answer this question with standard phrases. Try to achieve specifics. Use leading questions, for example, “why do you consider me that?”, “And what led you to this thought?”, “How did you notice this quality in me?”. And if a man finds an explanation, recalls some examples from your joint pastime, then this means that he is really interested in you.

5. How do you feel about me?

This is perhaps the most difficult question for men, since it is turned to the side of the senses, and it is not always easy for them to openly express their feelings. But if a man cannot answer him, then most likely he does not experience anything for you, but simply wants to get something from you. The standard answers from the series "you're cool, cool, cool, cool" are also not suitable. His words should help you feel beautiful, wonderful and make you understand that you are not indifferent to him.

A reliable man who really expects to build a serious relationship with you will easily answer all these questions.

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Hello, I'm 23 years old. Six months ago I met a man. At first we did not communicate, but then I noticed that he began to look at me often. I could never stand his gaze, he always looked intently and never looked away. This went on for about six months, I never tried to talk to him or to get acquainted, because I am married and I know that he is also married. Then he often tried to close the distance between us: he stood nearby, always sat next to me, but did not say anything. By chance, then it turned out that we have a common friend. Thanks to her, we began to communicate. He talked about himself, about the past, about his family, wife and children. I listened to him, supported his conversation, I was quite interested with him. He is a cheerful, sociable man. But he never asked anything about me. Even my name is. And I did not say anything about myself. I think that if he does not ask anything, then he is not interested. After a week of such communication, our conversations ceased, if earlier, when we saw each other, he came to me, sat next to me, and we started talking about this and that, today he tried to avoid me altogether: he didn’t look at me, he didn’t sit next to me.
  Please explain this behavior of this person. How he treats me?

Good time, Hope. The way this man treats you, only he knows. Moreover, apart from the looks and the fact that he was sitting next to you, there were no signs of interest in your direction. The fact that his views were close, it may be a reflection of your interest in him ... You are also very interested in him, and this cannot but be reflected in your eyes. It is possible that you aroused sympathy with him, otherwise I would not have paid so much attention. But in this case, it is better to pay attention not to his attitude towards you, but to his feelings. What happened to you? For you, this person has become interesting. It became important for you how he looks, where he sits? Of course, this is important for a woman! To feel attractive, sometimes you need confirmation from the outside. And family Life becomes a routine. Therefore, sometimes there is a need for fresh sensations and experiences. And this is normal. The only thing, it is very important to show interest first of all to your own feelings, and then ask yourself the question "how does he feel about me?" I wish you to continue to arouse interest in the strong half of humanity, but not to lose yourself. Sincerely.

Silina Marina Valentinovna, psychologist Ivanovo

Hello, Hope.

It is impossible to explain the motives of the behavior of another person. From what you wrote, you can see that at first there was mutual interest. And now you have expectations, and the man is avoiding you. The reasons for changing his behavior can be very different, including not the most pleasant for you: he could change his mind to continue acquaintance, because he did not like it; he might have trouble, or he doesn’t want to drag you into a relationship for security reasons. You understand that a man has a family that cannot but influence his life. It is not clear how you feel about this person and what you expect from him. If your interest in him remains strong, then you should pay attention to the real manifestation of a man to you in order to avoid disappointment. For example, the fact that the man did not ask anything about you, and even the name, raises questions. I think that time will give you the opportunity to understand whether intentions were serious or not.

Sincerely.

Paryugina Oksana Vladimirovna, psychologist Ivanovo

Hello, Hope! This man did not ask for your name, was not interested in your family, while he talked a lot about himself. By what you write, it seems that this man has lost interest in you. But you do not seem to continue to be interested in him. Hope, it is important to understand what you yourself lack in life? Try to answer your question: what attracted you to it?

Gorbashova Svetlana Vasilievna, psychologist Ivanovo

His words that you are the only one do not sound too convincing to you?Hm! Perhaps he is not the best speaker, or perhaps you just do not understand his message of love.But still, as?

I am sure that a similar question torments many girls and women.And here is another relevant one from the same series:« how   my feelings?".
How complicated everything is in the relationship between a man and a woman!

Especially for women who want to better understand their beloved man, we included lesson number 14 in the training called “Magic Words”. Recommend.

Why can't we just and, most importantly, honestly talk to each other about our feelings?Why are we afraid? Why are we hiding what we feel?
So the psychology of relations between us is arranged ...

In this article I will talk about  by the short messages that he sends to your phone. In my trainings, I often talk about this. It's time to uncover the meanings of some of the most frequent SMSs from men.

A few phrases aboutas

Love cannot be understood until you experience its presence and action on yourself.It may seem to you that you have already experienced it. But years later you see a man, his heart flashes and understanding comes that here she is REAL LOVE! And everything that came before this seems to be just passion.

Most often, people who associate their destinies get stuck in a routine. As a result, this condition becomes synonymous with love for them.In fact, this is a habit that rarely has something in common with love.Nevertheless, love is real. Just everyone in a relationship understands the language of love in their own way. Men are no exception.

  That is why it is not always easy for you to understand that a man likes you, that a man is in love with you. The presence of this wonderful feeling is quite difficult to determine, but possible. For example, in text messages.

So, here are 10 SMS, each of which just screams"I love you!".They will help you. understand that your man is in love but hides  this is for some reason.

SMS number 1."I am so proud of you"

Yes, pride is not the best argument. But in this context, from the lips of a man, he speaks of respect and acceptance as a consequence of love. If a man is proud of you, then he loves you.

Why? Think about this: as a rule, pride means a sense of satisfaction with your own achievements.Therefore, if he is proud of the achievements of his woman, then he equates them with his personal ones. And from this it follows thathe considers the two of you as one!  And.

Therefore, by such a short SMS message, you can understandis a man in love with you.

SMS number 2.“I already know what we will do after our date”

Such a message can at least make you angry if your relationship has not yet moved to a level where intimacy has already become the norm.But let's try to be realistic. Does he really mean what we thought?

Firstly, such an SMS message can be interpreted quite harmlessly. Perhaps he just prepared a surprise for you in the form of a walk along the promenade under the starry sky.
Secondly, even if he means intimacy after a date, think about whether this is so bad?  The way he behaves after this may well giveunderstand that a man likes you, and not just another achievement in his path of sex exploits.

Spending the night together after a successful date may well mean moving to a new level in your relationship. If after one of these nights a man does not disappear from your life, then he has long-term plans for your account.

Therefore, you should not conclude after such SMS that“All of them need IT only” . Accept the proposed date and maybe you canunderstand if a man is in love with you. In any case, if you do not like something, leave.

SMS number 3.“I miss / love you”

Do not be distrustful of such messages. It may seem to you that this is some kind of special tactic, the purpose of which, one way or another, is to drag you into bed.My advice to you is do not try to see what is not really there. Be simpler and learn to understand the words exactly as they sound. No need to look for hidden meaning in everything.

Although, perhaps, you have a completely different point of view and it seems to you that such SMS messages are a manifestation of excessive gentleness of a man. Reading them, do you imagine that he is sitting in tears with a distant look?If so, then you have a very stormy fantasy!
It just means that he really misses you and constantly thinks about you throughout the day.

SMS No. 4."Have you eaten yet?"

Yes, a strange SMS from a man, you think. For an inexperienced eye, this is a rather innocent text that has no underlying motive. But if you look a little deeper, then a similar SMS from him can give youunderstand that a man is in love, but hides  this is. He can carefully disguise himself, but with such messages he does not intentionally betray his feelings for you.

SMS No. 5.“You don't have to go to the gym!”

Such a phrase should not be taken as permission to quit taking care of yourself and gain a dozen extra pounds of weight.

Of course, if his feelings are real, then after that he will not stop loving you. But he means something completely different.Such SMS only directly givesunderstand that a man likes you  the way you are at the moment. Everything is trite simple ...

SMS No. 6.“I watch a movie / read a book / listen to a song that reminds me of you”

Such messages also help.understand if a man is in love with you. When a person (it doesn’t matter, man or woman) falls in love, his subconscious mind constantly tries to recall who he loves in a variety of ways.

If you often receive such messages, be sure that he sees your image many times during the day. And this does not irritate him at all, but only makes you once again remind you of your feelings.

SMS number 7. Any message with the word"to cuddle"

For instance, “Come, have a hug!” . Similar messages in some women immediately cause a feeling that he just wants to have sex with you. I want to tell you that with such texts you canunderstand that a man is in love, but hides  this is. Perhaps he is just embarrassed to express his feelings in words.

Understand that men also need affection. Therefore, such messages need to be understood literally: he needs your company, communication and hugs.Sex after that, of course, maybe. But be sure, in most cases this is not planned by them in advance.

SMS number 8.“Let's not go tonight”

Do not think that he no longer likes to date you.
You should also not think that you are tired of him.
He just wants to be more often alone with you.
After all, you are the most important thing for him and he does not want to share your attention with anyone else.
On such evenings it will be easiest for youunderstand that a man likes you.

SMS number 9.“I wish you were there now”

Such SMS means that he wants to do everything together with you. No matter what, it’s important that the two of us. And so that more often and longer ...

True love is born between two people who are good not only to communicate together, but also to do something.Do you want him to be with you now?

SMS number 10."My mother wants to meet you!"

Men do not disturb their mothers over trifles.This statement does not require proof, since it is a well-known truth.Therefore, constant hints of getting to know his mother mean that he wants to introduce the two most important women in his life . And this is a clear confirmation that he sees the future in a relationship with you.

If he still does not introduce you to his mother and constantly comes up with all sorts of excuses, then it is very likely that he does not feel tender feelings for you.Although there may be other reasons for such behavior (a strict mother who does not share his passion for you). But in this case - do you need this man?

  What do his brief messages tell you

So, if at least once in your life you have received such messages from a man, this means that:

- he is proud that such a woman is next to him;
- he already has his own plan for you;
- it is important for him to know how you feel;
- he loves you as you are;
- thoughts about you are constantly floating in his head;
“He wants you to be there more often and longer.”

And all this says one thing - you are interesting to him as a woman. He wants to be with you.

I hope that after reading these short messages from a man it will be much easier for youunderstand that a man likes you  and occupy an important place in his life.Write in the comments if you received similar SMS from a man. If yes, share your feelings.

You may also be interested in lesson number 46 of our training called "Spicy SMS." In it, we analyze only working schemes of subtle psychological impact on a man with the help of short SMS messages.

Thank you for your trust in this matter. I wish you real feminine happiness - to be loved and always be able in time (and this is important!) To understand that a man really likes you.

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Is it possible to determine exactly whether a guy likes you or not? Sometimes uncertainty can just drive you crazy, and by all means, you want to understand it. And if you want to be 100% sure that you are interesting to a guy before “taking a step towards him,” this is understandable and quite natural. Why make yourself a "fool" if you can avoid this ... How to understand that a guy likes you?

I’ll tell you what most guys do and how they behave when they like a girl, even if they want to hide it in order to look “cool”. There are always signals that give out.

There are many subliminal signals that are almost impossible to hide; this is a natural behavior when a guy feels something for a girl.

Besides the obvious symptoms, some less obvious ones can also be found on this list. They will reveal his real desires, which he is trying to hide, not only from you, but, possibly, from himself as well!

So, how to understand that a guy likes you:

1.   He says it

Are you kidding? Not at all. I understand what could be more obvious than that ?! But, the guy who tells you: “I like you. I love you. ”Probably not lying.

Another question is what he puts in this “like”! Either he wants you to be together, or just wants to drag you to bed, after which he will simply tell you “ I'm sorry but everything went«.

1.   He asks a lot of questions.

He is obviously trying to keep up the conversation with you. He is trying to know and understand you. Thus, he continues to ask, and ask ... Many questions may not be entirely clear or illogical, but he tries to maintain a conversation and avoid awkward pauses.

He may just ask some questions out of politeness, but as soon as you notice that he asks not only out of necessity, it means that he is interested.

That is, you should not think that he is deeply in love with you if he asked you: "How are you?" Use common sense.

If he doesn’t like you, he will not look for meetings with you or start a conversation idle if he doesn’t need something (for example, help with something).

But, remember, when he sincerely asks questions, tries to find out more, digs deeper and deeper, this is a really good sign.

1.   He finds common interests with you

One of the reasons why he asks a lot of questions is that he wants to get some information about you that he can use to “hook” you. If you say that you like ... And he goes on and on, telling how he loves the same music, movie, or something else like you, he (perhaps subconsciously) tries to prove that you fit together and have common interests.

A guy to whom you are pretty, as a rule, will not enter into an argument, on the contrary, he will seem pleasant and try to be pretty.

If your conversation has a lot of “I like it too” - this is a good sign that you can be compatible.

1.   He leans over

When you talk to him, he leans toward you. Even if he hears you perfectly. You can be in a bar or club with music, so he will have to stoop to hear you. But still, if he makes an effort to hear you and be closer - this is a great sign. Look at the amount of effort he puts into a conversation with you. This is the easiest way to determine its relationship. Pay attention to his body movements, gestures, to what his subconscious says.

A normal guy who does not try to “act cool”, as a rule, will show a lot of subliminal signs, and try to get closer to you.

He can also behave “cool” with you, but just because the guy acts as if he is not interested in you does not mean that he really feels it (more on this later).

1.   He came to you

Another obvious thing. Yes, but there are some buts. If he "accidentally bumped into" you, he probably liked you ... Or your girlfriend! And he simply uses you as a strategy to get closer to it. Who knows? In any case, the guy who comes to you in a cafe or bookstore, etc., obviously finds you sweet.

When he starts a conversation, you can ask yourself why he did not go to anyone else. If most likely he deliberately chose you, then this definitely means something.

1. His behavior changes when you're around

Watch him when he is with friends or with other people. How does he behave? Does his behavior change when you're around, or is he 100% the same as he was?

This usually happens with young, less experienced guys.

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1.   He completely ignores you

Some guys use the “I don't care” strategy. So they are trying to be different; that is their way of thinking.

But he will talk to you in private when there is no one nearby. He most likely likes you very much, but he lacks the courage to approach you when you are surrounded by friends or other guys.

He needs you to give him a sign (just look!) That you are open to talking to him.

In any case, often when a guy “seems to” ignore you, this is because he is either not interested in you, or he is very interested. This is a trick as old as the world.

Think, in a normal situation, when a guy is not interested in you, he will be normal in relation to you, and may well start a normal small talk (depending on the situation), but he (usually) will not completely ignore you.

The guys show mixed signals when they try to hide what they feel. Look for various deviations in behavior. Everything unusual is usually a good sign.

1.   His body language betrays \u003d he turns to you

You can judge his sympathy by body language when he is nearby. Does he straighten his back or extend his chest, trying to look more masculine? Some guys try to hide interest; others, on the contrary, openly manifest it.

It all depends on the degree to which he is confident in himself. The problem is that most guys don’t want to “face down” and don’t want to take risks. Especially in situations that may have social consequences - at work or school, or if he is a family friend, etc.

1.   He treated you

In some cultures, it is normal for a man to treat a woman. If you are with a group of friends and he buys something for you, this does not mean anything. But then again, if there are only two of you, and he insists on paying, either he is just a gentleman in general, or he likes you.

Watch him, does he treat his friends?

If he does this, he is just a generous guy as a whole and considers you a friend. But if he pays only for his own things, and then treats you, then this is a clear difference. But then another question arises, if he is stingy, maybe he is not the guy you would like to be with?

Again, it really depends on the place, if you are in a bar and he buys you a drink, maybe he wants to make you get drunk. In this case, you need to be careful.

1.   He asks for your number

This is another obvious sign that indicates sympathy. Sometimes!

Use logic. If he finds a relatively stupid reason to get your number, maybe he wants to have a way to stay in touch with you and invite him to a date in the future. When he takes your number, and there is a really good reason for this, then maybe it’s all to blame. Nothing more.

1.   He found and added you on social networks.

Just one of the "evidence", which, of course, may not mean anything. But if he sends you messages, likes the photo, then this may already mean something. Look for more evidence, dig further.

1.   Trying to kiss you

There is nothing to explain, everything is clear. Even if he was tipsy, it only revealed his subconscious desire. No matter how much alcohol he drank. It’s clear that if he wants to kiss you, then he likes you, anyway. The only question is whether he wants a serious relationship with you or just spend one night ?!

1.   Hey my eyes are here!

He knows where your eyes are. But your chest is like a magnet, and sometimes it’s hard for him to control himself.

Just look at his eyes and where they look ... No matter how hard he tries to look disinterested, his gaze will tell a lot. When you pass in front of him, he will look at you from top to bottom.

When you speak, he looks at your lips, and does it often ... He likes what he sees! The easiest way to determine whether a guy likes you is to look him in the eye. What does he look at when you speak?

1.   A lot of eye contact

Of course, if he does not inspect your body, he may like your face. He will look into your eyes when you speak, and he will hold his gaze a little more than other people, but so as not to arouse suspicion.

1.   He turns away

If you catch his eye and he quickly turns away, as if he is busy with something - this is a great sign. Just think, I was a little nervous about you or trying to hide my interest. This usually happens when you are still not very familiar. In case you know each other, he probably will not look away ... in this case, he will keep eye contact, smile, or ask about something to keep the conversation going.

1. He smiles or laughs (a lot)

Just a smile does not mean sympathy. But, when no one said anything particularly funny, this can serve as a signal.

1.   You have a boyfriend?

Guys rarely ask this question if they have no sympathy. In any case, there must be a reason for such a question. I mean, if he doesn’t have feelings, he doesn’t give a damn about you alone or not. This is an easy way to understand whether you are free or not.

If he does not ask directly, it can be indirect or implicit. This is another clear indication that he is interested. Again, this is only one of the signs that you need to note to yourself. The question itself, of course, does not mean anything.

1.   Agrees with everything

With everything you say. Maybe he doesn’t have his own opinion, but maybe he does it so that you feel “you have so much in common.” It may be too good to be true.

It’s good when your views on life converge, but it’s also normal when your opinions differ. Disagreeing in difficult matters can be really fun and informative!

1.   Nervous when you're around

When someone gets nervous, you can get infected. These emotions jump from one person to another ... Look for signs of nervousness in him when he is next to you. When the conversation ends, awkwardness appears, there is tension between the two of you, and it seems that he is thinking “what should I say next?”. If so, these are all good signs.

If he is not interested in you, he will not care how he looks from the side, and will not be nervous.

How do you know if a guy likes you?

1.   He is trying to be alpha

Shy guys will be nervous near you. But more confident guys can try to show their masculinity ... Or show their superiority - (money), knowledge, or something else that makes them different.

Look for something, a certain oddity. He will be either a shy or expressive extrovert who is trying to demonstrate his best “features” - all that you can find attractive, in his opinion.

1.   Protects you

You began to notice that when people push you on the street, trying to pass by in a crowded place, he positions himself in such a way that they do not touch you; he is trying to protect you to some extent.

He will take the hand, will go in front to push the crowd away. This is another sign of sympathy - it will protect you.

1.   Getting jealous

When you talk to other guys and all the more laugh. You can see jealousy on his face or read by his behavior. Just watch. He will try to look fun, but with one eye he will check on you, and how you respond to other guys.

He could sigh, be angry, or make a moody face. Try to understand these little tips.

1.   Remembers your name

Suppose you met him once, in the company of your mutual friends ...

And, when you met again, he remembered (surprisingly) your name. So at that moment, you were significant to him.

Another option is that he has a good memory (plus he is smart). Most guys don’t remember names, especially away.

Seriously, if he remembered your name, this is a good sign.

1.   Remember about your birthday

There is one useful feature in social networks, they remind you of the acquaintances' birthdays. Imagine if there is no information about your birthday on the Internet, how many people would know about him, or rather remember about him? And here he sends you a message congratulating VKontakte! If he does not wish all his friends a happy birthday, he may just be trying to develop a conversation. Answer him and see how he keeps the conversation going.

1.   Trying to impress

You can think of anything, but a guy who boasted of work, a car, money, clothes, achievements, etc. is wretched (because tough guys know that they are cool, that they don’t need to show it).

But he also wants to impress you!

In any case, there are many different ways to make an impression, and trying to imagine yourself in a good light can signal that he likes you.

1.   He initiates a dialogue

Let's say you're at some kind of party, with a bunch of people. He accidentally starts talking to you, asks a question, or smiles.

This does not mean that he likes you; maybe he's just polite. On the other hand - does he do the same with other women around? Always pay attention to how he treats other women around, is his attitude different? Yes? Then this guy is sympathetic.

Shy guys who are waiting for the right moment to show their interest - drop the bait and wait for the reaction. Provide the opportunity, and at this time you can observe and check if he has feelings.

1.   Makes fun and pokes fun

Constantly mocks you and finds something to hurt? If he jokes with you, trying to make you laugh, or sarcasm is heard in his words - this is a signal for you.

A guy almost never teases a girl who is not interested in him. This can be one of the types of flirting (not quite a good option, well, what can you do). In any case, this is a sign of interest.

1.   Delays one second longer

When you come across him on the street, at work, at school, at a party, in a club, on a bus, wherever you are, you start talking to him, and then ... There is such a moment when he is going to leave and then ... there is it one, tiny little second. He stays a little longer, as if he wants to stay or guide you. Then he leaves. Look at this moment.

Science has proven that women express their feelings more emotionally than men. Whether it is anger or resentment, love or jealousy - she does not keep it in herself. Others clearly see that the woman is experiencing strong emotions.

Men are stingy with the manifestation of emotions. There is rarely a man who demonstrates demonstrates joy, fear, or hostility. The same rule applies to love.

However, if the heart of a representative of the strong half of humanity did not resist this eternal feeling, this is immediately evident.

A man in love is ready:

make an impression;
perform romantic (and crazy!) actions;
change your lifestyle.

Female and male love - what are the differences?

Female love is earthly and pragmatic. A woman gives her heart to a man who, in her view, looks:

the earner - he is able to feed future offspring, to equip life;
strong and reliable, solves life problems;
ready for family life. Frivolous womanizer is destiny of windy and stupid persons. A smart woman thinks ahead: is this man worthy of becoming a husband and father?

Male love is not so pragmatic and thoughtful. The man does not care about the social status of the chosen one, material wealth. He draws attention to the appearance of the chosen one, hard work, the ability to house.

What are they, signs of a man in love?

Sign number 1. Thirst for communication

A man in love talks a lot. He talks about his work, friends and relatives, shares memories, emphasizes life achievements.

A man in love wants to look successful and strong in the eyes of a chosen one.

In addition, a representative of a strong half of humanity is interested in the life of a woman she likes. He is ready to listen to you for hours. He is interested in where you were born, how you studied at school, your favorite dish and hobbies.

Man in love while chatting:

gallant, polite;
looks into the eyes of the interlocutor and hears every word;
is next to the beloved;
feels awkward, embarrassed;
constantly preens (straightens hair, clothes).

Sign number 2. A man in love takes care of his woman

He wonders if you put on a hat and gloves on a cold winter day, if you want coffee or a bite to eat. Before going to bed, he will call to wish good night, and in the morning he will surely instruct how to carefully drive the car.

A man in love helps with deed, not with a word.

The feelings of a man in love are not expressed as expressively and vividly as in a woman. Stormy emotions and the clarification of relationships in the character of a woman. A man, if he loves, acts.

Whether you have a faucet in the kitchen running or you need to take the cat to the veterinarian - the man puts difficulties on his strong shoulders.

Gifts are another indicator of concern. A man gives flowers, pays the bill in a cafe.

Sign number 3. There is always time for you

Even if a man is the president of an international corporation for the protection of animal rights or a sought-after actor, he will definitely have a moment to talk with his beloved woman. He finds time for dates, no matter how busy his work schedule is. Meeting you is a priority.

Often calls, writes funny messages. Most often this is a conversation about nothing - how are you, mood, plans for the evening.

Sign No. 4. Non-verbal contact, jealousy and ownership

His touch is light, perhaps even unconscious. Coming off the bus, he gives you a hand. On the street, his hand unobtrusively lies at your waist. When talking, the torso of a man is fully turned in your direction. that has serious plans for you.

He frowns when you smile sweetly at a passing man or warmly talk about a friend who helped you in a difficult life situation.

Sign number 5. Acquaintance with parents, friends

A classic and striking indicator of male interest. A man in love will introduce you to his circle of friends. He will invite you to a family Sunday dinner, introduce you to friends. No reason is needed for this. If he says: “Let's go to friends, have some coffee” - it means that you are not easy for him a minute hobby.

If during meeting with friends you see their evaluating views, it means that they are already formally familiar with you - the man told about you.

He also wants to meet your family and friends. During a meeting, a man is polite and gallant, especially for your parents.

Sign number 6. He controls your behavior and social circle.

A man in love is wondering where you are, what you do, and when you get home. He cares who you are going to on your birthday, what you plan to do on Monday night, and why you are still awake at midnight.

This does not mean that you are not allowed to go to a disco with your friends or take a walk with an old friend in the park. However, a man, if he feels tender feelings for you, wants to be in the center of your life.

Sign number 7. Builds joint plans for the future

If a man in the process of conversation asks where you would like to go in the summer - to Egypt or Turkey, be sure - his feelings are real. This man sees you next to him tomorrow and a year later.

Behavior of a man in love

To understand what feelings a man has for you, it is enough to analyze his behavior.

A man in love is unpredictable, doing things unusual for him. He is ready to spend hours choosing a dress, skating, or learning to cook paella. A man takes over your interests and hobbies.

However, something similar happens at the initial stage of the relationship, while the man is not sure that the woman reciprocates.

A man turns into a knight and gentleman. He pampers his beloved with pleasant trifles (chocolate, flowers), prepares surprises, thinks over each date. A man in love is constantly surprising.
Male love (at least at the initial stage of the relationship) is incompatible with critical statements about the chosen one. A man admires your taste (even if you are dressed in a grandmother's sweater), culinary talent (although you are sure that cooking is not your thing). He will not allow himself and his entourage negative statements, critical reviews of his beloved. In addition, a man in love does not listen to other people's advice.

During the period of falling in love, each representative of the strong half of humanity behaves in his own way. Yet the signs of male love are universal. An intelligent woman necessarily analyzes the behavior of a man and draws conclusions.