All girls and women love compliments. They need to be expressed subtly, and not intrusively. Otherwise, you risk being caught in flattery. And flattery, oh how they do not like. So, what can you write to a girl to make her smile, give her joy and pleasant feelings.

The main rule! Do not try to think of anything when you are tired or in a bad mood. Better stop and have a good night's sleep.

Breaking ice is always hard when you only meet. Sometimes this seems unrealistic. Most often you have so little in common - just a few photos, you know each other so little.

Therefore, it is always difficult to come up with something worthwhile. Secondly, it can be difficult to imagine yourself on the positive side. Therefore, we have collected a collection of messages for VKontakte, facebook, instagram, viber, telegram, skype - in a word so that you would be delighted with correspondence with your loved one!

From simple greetings to interesting questions, flirting. More than 100 examples of messages to make your conversation easy and not forced.

What to write to a girl instead of hello?

• Hello! How was your weekend?
• How healthy is the week?
• Hello. What are you doing, what are you working on?
• Hi, how are you doing today?
• Hi, what do you think is fun to do on the weekend?
• Hi, I hope you are doing well this week.
• Hi, how are you?
• Hello to you. How do you feel about us today? (comic, sarcasm)
• Hello, what's new until today?
• Just stopped to shake your hand. Hello!
• I just could not welcome you. Hello!
• What's up? How are you?
• How is your day going?
• I hope you had a better day.
• Hi, how are you?
• Just wanted to say hi!
• Hello everybody! And you)
• Hi, I hope you have a wonderful day.
• I saw your photo, and just had to say hi!
• Hello, what are you doing?

What to write to a girl to melt? Examples

• I can’t think of anything better than getting an answer from you.
• I would like this message to make you smile on my screen.
• Ever felt something wonderful happen? It feels like it's happening now.
• If you answer only 1 message today, let it be mine.
• I kinda like, well ... well, I think you look super. Do you want to take a walk someday?
• If you decide to chat, it will improve my day. And maybe this whole year.
• Hey. And yet, you are amazing.
• Could you reply to this message and make me feel the happiest in the world?
• You can’t imagine how lucky it is for me to speak with you.
• So hooked me. That's the number.
• Hello, bonjour, aloha, salut! - my phone is crazy.
• Grrravar, - so dinosaurs say hello.
• This is not a clever moment when you write a message to a girl and all that creeps into your head is hi. Hey.
• Hello! Just decided to annoy you a bit.
• I like your sweet nose. This is really sweet.
• I like hugs.
• I will always tell you if something goes wrong with hair, clothes, or gets stuck in your teeth. I always do that ...
• I would like to talk to you. Seriously. No kidding.
• I think you like me.
• Double like you)
• Everyone can be cool, but your awesomeness gained experience.
• You. Yes, it’s you. I wanted to talk to you.
• I'm looking for someone with whom I could remain a complete idiot. It's not you?
• I am a good example of an eccentric. What about you?
• What is the truth? I really like you. And I don’t even know you.
• Passed by your photo several times, and now, I decided to say hello.
• My atoms are drawn to your atoms - this is chemistry.
• Hi awesomeness.
• You made me smile. All.
• I would like to make you smile when you read this.
• I liked watching your pictures rather than pizza. Although I really like pizza.
• I bet my dog \u200b\u200bwould have liked you.
• I bet my cat would have liked you.

Examples of messages to a girl for flirting

• I send messages only to those who are close to me, whom I love and who I care about. I am writing to you because you are everything!
• Today is not a special day. There is nothing to write about. But I send a message because I always remember and think about you!
• Even if you don’t have a call, a message ... I always remember and love you!
• I want to be your favorite hi, and your hardest yet.
• If you ask me why I love you so much, then I have no reason. But then love does not require a reason. It just happens.
• I don't think much, I don't think often, but when I think - I think of you!
• If the only place where I can meet you is in a dream, I no longer want to wake up.
• If I had one desire, I would give you a long and gentle kiss, and if I had two wishes, I would decide to do it again.

What questions to ask a girl to break the ice? Or keep up the conversation

• What could you talk about for hours?
• What do you like to do on the weekend?
• What brings you joy? what occupation?
• What is the most banal, typical day of your life?
• If you choose where to live, then where?
• How do you behave when you are angry?
• What do you do in your free time?
• If you could be a hero in any film, then by whom?
• Which actor / actress could play you best?
• What is your favorite book?
• What should I know about you, and not about your profile in VK (facebook, instagram)?
• What is your favorite sport?
• Why do you have such a strange login?
• Do you have a tattoo? If not, which one would you like?
• Are you close with your family?
• If you had a superpower, which one?
• What is the worst thing that you are ready to admit in yourself?
• What are you ready to chat about all night and stay up?
• I like listening to other people's stories. Do you have such a story?
• What, in your opinion, is the most ideal day?
• When I was a child, what did I want to become?
• Which city do you want to visit?
• What is your favorite band?
• What is your favorite movie?
• What is your favorite song?
• What was the last book you read? If this is not a secret)
• What is your favorite drink?
• In which cafe, cafeteria, pizzeria did you like the most?
• Would you describe yourself as a romantic person?
• Yes or no. You are romantic?
• Do you have a pet? Dad and mom do not count)
• Have you been given a nickname, ever?
• Where did you grow up?
• Are you an open person, or shy?
• Do you like to invent something, create?
• What is your favorite TV show?
• What do you do in your free time?
• Engaged in any kind of sport?
• What would you take with you to a desert island?
• What is your favorite memory?
• Tell me one random fact about yourself?
• If I could make 3 wishes, what would it be?
• If I could live some year again, then what?

Do you like the ideas? Express your opinion or say Thank you in the comments!

Title: Beautiful words to the girl greetings. I wonder where is the paradise from which you came to this earth?

You impress, amaze, amaze. It is comfortable, calm and infinitely good with you.

I really like your slightly upturned nose and lips with a bow!

It's great that I have you, and with you came love and laughter, and joy, and meaning.

Please tell me that I can admire your beauty forever!

You are beautiful as a goddess! Love you!

Oh, I would have rushed off to the end of the world with such a girl!

Even the most powerful warriors are powerless before your beauty!

I dreamed about you all last night. Love you!

Your eyes are full of the coldness of ice and the flame of passion at the same time.

The famous northern lights can not be compared with the radiance of your beauty!

I need you like air, my love always follows you like a shadow. Honey, you found a key to my heart, you gave me happiness.

Surely you were born only to give beauty to this world!

I sent an angel to look at you at night. The angel returned a minute later. I asked the angel why he came back. He said to me: Angels do not look at other angels.

Honey, may your morning be good, and may the day be clear and successful!

You are impossibly good, clean! Just an angel!

You are able to support in difficult times, and, of course, come to the rescue. It’s comfortable, good, cozy with you.

If suddenly the heart is filled with sadness, sadness stirs in the chest - remember, I’m close, I’m near you. The meeting is ahead of us!

People like you are a real treasure in the modern cruel world.

I wish you a good, wonderful, successful day so that everyone has a moment! You are my beauty, take a compliment!

In no case do not change anything in yourself, you are simply divine!

There are no more beautiful moments than the minutes spent with you!

I’m fabulously lucky in life, because for me you are the most beautiful of all! You are worthy of admiration, and the most wonderful compliments!

Spring and summer delight many with their arrival! And it makes me happy when I see you and your charming beauty!

You have a very beautiful smile! I feel happy when I see her.

You have an amazing look: when you look, the feeling that I feel your touch.

You know, even if you take all the cosmetics of the world, then she will not be able to hide your true beauty!

You are my scarlet flower, my guardian angel. May the constellation of love shine brightly over our heads, I love you with all my soul, my sun.

I loved you from the first second of the meeting and I will always love, my joy!

You are an amazing goddess! Just a gift from above!

Every day I love you more.

You always know how to surprise me and make me pleased. You just read in my heart, like in a book.

I have never seen such beautiful long hair, clean radiant skin and delicate facial features in my life!

I wish you a lot of positive emotions, may luck happen to you today and everything goes smoothly, like in a movie!

I know, for sure, that you are nicer, I can’t find on the whole planet!

You are so refined, so refined and beautiful, I cannot but admire you!

How do you manage to put so much sense into your little hello?

Hello my dear, know that I love you! I can’t live without you and a single day!

What is the matter with your phone? I call you, they tell me - the subscriber is currently making love, wait your turn!

There are people whose absence resembles the lack of oxygen. You are such a person.

No, you're not fat at all. You are perfect - just such a build as I love. There is something to do, it's nice to hold on.

Darling, you deserve the most wonderful compliments and admiration. I fell in love with you the first time.

I feel so good with you, know that I adore you and I always miss you!

You are the one for whom I began to live and breathe. I love you, and I will always love!

A terrible thing. I was diagnosed and found you in my heart!

All the girls are angels. But you are a special angel! You are my guardian angel!

You are sweet to me and love forever! The soul and heart are not alien. I always want to caress and undead, adoring you!

Your lips are admirable!

Even angels are looking enviously at you from heaven, admiring the unearthly beauty!

You are the charm itself! Your eyes, smile, sweet kisses make my heart beat faster.

I really like how cute you are pursing your lips before giving the world a unique smile!

Love you! Your beauty darkens your eyes!

You are adorable! What eyes! They cling so that goosebumps. Just do not let go!

When you look at me, I become happier!

You are like the morning sun, driving away the night!

I love you dear sweet, I think of you, I suffer, I can’t live without you, I die, I want to kiss, I adore!

Hello my dear, know that I love you! I can’t live without you and a single day!

The geometry of your figure is amazing!

Let the day go in the morning. And all things will get better! May the sun smile at you, my beauty!

Great minds are full of ideas, scientific minds think of formulas and numbers; in my thoughts now only you, my beloved!

When I look at you, I just lose my reality!

May this day fly like a holiday, and my kiss to you is already in a hurry!

When I see you, I forget to breathe. Love you!

Here a new day has come again to give us the joy of life! Darling, time to get up!

I think you deserve the title of the dazzling beauty of the city!

Curious how many men have already drowned in your bottomless, beautiful eyes? I am next!

The depth of your two dark blue whirlpools cannot be described in words, but, believe me, I am absolutely sure that they are the most amazingly beautiful eyes in the world.

My dear dear, I want to admit, not melting away - that I know no one better, more beautiful and smarter than you!

You, like a fairy fairy, you are worthy of admiration!

Let the day bring the radiance of success, fill it all the time with the murmur of laughter, and let it lead you gently to the evening, to plunge into passion boundlessly! Beautiful words girl greetings.

I can’t imagine my day without you, it’s empty without you, it makes no sense. With you, I only understand how wonderful life is!

It’s good and easy with you, as if I were alone with myself.

You know, I don’t have enough life to compliment you, because every day you become more beautiful and more beautiful!

Cute girls know their worth, so they like to be won. What begins the conquest of a simpotic female? From dating! If on the street a guy approaches a girl he likes and asks uncertainly or confidently:
  "Girl! May I meet you!" What does he most often hear in response? - Not! Because this answer from a beautiful and proud girl begs for itself.
  In order for you not to be sent off right away, the girl (woman) needs to be intrigued or laugh with a cool phrase. This is the beginning of what is now called the very fashionable word PICKUP (Removal rules or getting to know seduction)

So the original phrases for dating:

You could not smile, otherwise the street is dark. (Any girl will melt)

How do you do it? .. Looks so good. (one hundred percent option)

How lovely! Are these your legs?

Why did you stop smiling, I just started falling in love ?!

Have you ever had young people crawling at your feet?

May I look at you? ..

You are so beautiful that I forgot the phrase with which I wanted to come up to you. (Disarms the girl definitely)

Has she already sent off many today? I'm only three so far. Well, the arrogant girls went.

You probably turned on. At the very least, you start me terribly.

Do you need a husband? (“No!” - “Oh, then it’s for me to you!”)

You are so cool that I’m ready to drink water from the bathroom after you!

Hi, do you think we will look like a young dynamic couple?

Are you interested in pretty unmarried guys? No, I'm not talking to myself, I'm talking about a friend. His girlfriend is a bitch and dumped him. And you - not a bitch?

Walk past her, then turn around sharply and ask: "Isn’t you just pinched my ass? .. No? .. Damn! Sorry ...”

Do you look at all like that or only at those you like?

Why are you looking at me as if your parents had left for the country?

Who do you think is the best one: do you like me or do you like me? (Presumptuous, so look at the girl)

Help me go left! (Rough, but it can ride)

Nothing, what am I to you with such a smart look?

Wait! We were so staring at each other that we forgot to meet. Let's try again. (This is if the girl is really staring)

Your dress looks cool on you, but it will look better on the floor of my bedroom. (Only suitable for real womanizer)

Could you wake me up tomorrow morning with a call to your cell phone, otherwise I’m afraid to oversleep.

You have the most beautiful place dirty. (Very intriguing)

Girl, can you tell me how to get to your heart?

I looked in the dictionary a synonym for the word "beautiful" - your name was there too ...

Girl, I’m looking for a dancing partner. Let me examine you more closely.

And you, by chance, is not my book? .. No? Yes, he gave it to someone to read, but to someone ... I only remember that someone is very cute!

And what will you do tonight after we meet you?

Talk, or will we continue to wink?

You didn’t see it by chance - here five minutes ago my white horse did not run?

You smiled so beautifully that I forgot where I was going.

You are so sad ... May I take your sadness away? I need it for experiments.

Unfortunately, now I don’t have time to melt your cold look, but I can call you in the evening.

What is your shoe size? .. I have the 45th. Well, we met!

Girl, what do you think, what time is it decent to be late?

Hello! Today we are lucky ...

Girl, please call an ambulance! Cupid just shot me!

Hello! Did you recognize? .. So I didn’t recognize you at once.

Let me take you home. At least a look.

I have an unusual question for you - what should I say to a girl to get a slap in the face? ..

Girl, I'm sorry, but your legs aren’t tired? .. You do not always leave my head.

Girl, do you believe in love from the seventh glance?

Girl, I liked you so much that I have been following you for three stops ... Do you mind if we sit down and take a rest?

Girl, you don’t know how to get to the Eiffel Tower?

Girl, do you know how good Tefal cookware is? The fact that you can warm her on the head of someone who is very tired, and since you do not have this valuable dishes now, I decided to find out your name and ask for a telephone.

Do you play drums? .. No ... Me too! See how much we have in common, let's

Sorry, I forgot my phone number. Can’t you lend yours?

You know, after a long search, I still found a cafe where you and I can have a wonderful time.

You don’t have any strings to establish our relations right here?

Girl, you don’t have a compass? And the hourglass? I think it’s not worth asking about the barometer.

Girl, your help is urgently needed! .. The fact is that I'm going to drown. And your eyes are the best fit for this.

The only thing your eyes have not told me is your name.

I am a newcomer. Can you tell me how to get to your house?

I noticed that you noticed me, and I would like to notice that I noticed you too.

Girl, don’t you know why the lens is round and square photos are obtained? (Before that, you can ask you to take a picture)

Giving the girl a flower: "I really wanted to show this rose how beautiful you are ..."

Do you know how this street (station, square, car) is different from all the others? .. Here I met you ...

If you think that I am going to meet you, then you are mistaken - I also want to invite you on a date!

Girl, you don’t know, will the New Year be this year or next?

Girl, do you see that young man? So he still does not know, does not know yet ... And what is your name? .. And me - Misha. So, that young man doesn’t yet know that we just met.

You know, I have absolutely no idea what I have to say to get to know you, but, let's better imagine that I already said all this.

Girl, did you sleep well yesterday? And did not even toss and turn? But I couldn’t sleep all night waiting for our meeting.

Girl, do you have plush toys at home? Me too! Let's introduce them.

I bet you are stubborn in nature ... I read in one magazine that girls who wear round earrings / red pants / green bags / whatever else are very stubborn personalities. (Most people find themselves stubborn, so talking is very easy.)

Do not tell me which way you need to go to get acquainted with a SIMULTANEOUS ATTRACTIVE AND SMART girl? There? (point one way) There? (pointing the other way) Or stay here (smile)?

Hey. I agree...

And you do not remember me, I lived next door? Not? And no wonder - after all, I never lived near you. Maybe we have everything ahead?

Hi, I'm your dream.

Having come close enough to the girl, you can stand for a minute or two with the appearance of a man thinking about something of his own, and then shock the unhappy innocent question: -Girl! May I hold on to you, otherwise your legs give way to your beauty

When I get old, I will remember the brightest moments of my life: about the day when my children were born, about the day of my wedding, and about the day when I met you.

Please remind me what I was wearing when you and I last saw each other?

Can you tell me the time? .. And free?

Girl, do you meet young and pretty people?

Hello Vera! (You come up and hug tightly). How long have I not seen you! (Kissing her) Wow, how have you changed! (She, understanding nothing, answers: “I am not Faith.”) What? Oh my god, you even changed your name!

Girl wait! You seem to have lost something! .. I can’t see your smile anywhere !! Oh no! Here I found !!

Girl, kiss me if I'm wrong, but it seems your name is Evdokia?

Girl, you know what I just saw? I saw a young man just meet a girl. And literally after five minutes of conversation, they talked as if they had known each other for 100 years. By the way, you know how a young man started a conversation. He said: "Do you know what I just saw? .."

Girl, excuse me, didn’t you hurt by the fragment? .. You just, passing, broke my heart. I thought, suddenly I hooked you?

You approach the girl with a smile: "Girl lend a hand, I will say what you have on her." If he holds out, you take her hand, you actively touch it with huge eyes and a surprised voice: "Amazing! .. She is all in the fingers!"

Such a beautiful girl should have a beautiful phone number!

After long attempts to catch his eye, smiling: "Why are you looking at me so closely?" She: "I do not look at you." "Well, why don't you look at me? .."

There is a girl with her back to you. You take a piece of thread 30 centimeters long from your pocket and pretend that you are taking it off the girl’s shoulder. Here you can say the phrase: "And how long does it hang on you?"

If the girl is in sunglasses with mirror lenses, then you can ask to use them as mirrors (comb your hair, for example).

If a girl is reading a book, then give her a beautiful bookmark with a picture of a nice animal or flower, at worst, a leaf from a tree will come up with the words: "I noticed that there is no bookmark in your book, so I decided to give it to you. It seems to me that this bookmark in your book really goes. " If she has a bookmark, you just need to offer a more beautiful option.

How did you know that I am here?

It was very interesting which of us smiles wider.

Can I look at you in profile? Thanks. You have one of the most beautiful profiles that I have seen in my life.

Can you forgive yourself ... if I do not meet you?

If you are afraid of being sent when trying to get to know each other, then go to twenty girls with the goal of being sent and try hard! What are you afraid of - that they will send you or that you will not be able to be sent? If the girls ask, just say: “My friend said that it’s very difficult to be a girl. I argued with him for 20 rubles, so you can help me make money for beer. But I ask you - the message must be of high quality, I have it I’ll write to the recorder. "

Being near the girl, inflate a balloon, write or draw with a marker what you want, and solemnly present.

Shake off her shoulder, sleeve, back (but not the back) and say: “Now you look even better. I am Alexander.”

Pass the girl a leaflet with the words "Please read, otherwise I can’t see well." On the sheet is the text "I really like you, and I suggest we meet you. My name is ..."

You appear in front of a seated girl, saying: "I will come now." And you disappear, after which you appear again, but already as her old friend.

You look at the girl and smile, trying to provoke a response. If she does not smile, you show your tongue and smile again.

You buy soap bubbles, and start them in the direction of the girl, not forgetting to smile. Then you can come and give them to her with the words: "Now it's your turn."

You ask a question: "Girl, what is the matter with you?" After her surprise: “Now, here ...” You take out your mobile phone, take a picture of her and show her a picture. "See?" She will be even more surprised. You answered, smiling: "HOW ??! ?? There is no smile on your face!? !!"

You take out a simple flower WITH ROOT, go up to a girl or a group of girls and say: "This is a flower, and I’m Sergey."

In transport

Didn't you just pinch me?

Girl: are you coming out?
  You: If you invite, then yes.

I can’t get to the handrail - can I hold on to you?

I saw such a crowd three times in my life: at a carnival in Rio de Janeiro, during student unrest in Cambridge and in Bondarchuk's film "War and Peace."

They don’t put much pressure on you? .. Do you know why? Because I hold them all back. Now I know how the fish feel in a tin can.

Please forgive my brains with your name and phone.

Girl, you know today is a great holiday, just the same anniversary! The holiday is that I have the pleasure of traveling with you on the same tram, and the anniversary - for the tenth time. How about celebrating this thing, going to the "..."? (take a walk ...)

I was now thinking that if it were not for your smiling face, which I see every morning, I would probably quit my job and stay at home.

Is it okay if I stare at you from near, and not through the entire bus?

See how well we manage to fight for our balance.

At the stop

Girl, can you tell me how long the desired bus left?

Girl, in your opinion, which door of the trolleybus is better to go into (in which tram car to go)?

Sorry, you won’t tell me which bus is better to ride? "

No, I suggest not to miss such a wonderful moment and get to know you right now! "

In the underground

Why do you always get off at the same stop as me?

Have you ever met an interesting young man in?

Do you want me to pump you with the breeze on the escalator?

Excuse me, if I get on the first car, will I get to the Borovitsky Gate station? And if I sit in the last? And if together with you?

Can you tell me where the restaurant car is here?

You probably know. I bought pasta, but I can’t imagine what to do with them ... And can I, I will always consult with you?

Can you tell me where men's tights with hair holes are sold here?

  - (In line) Does it bother you that a pretty single guy is behind you?

  - [Recounting a trifle] Girl, how much is your smile?

In the cafe

Sorry, I have a little problem here. See that table over there? .. There are too many lonely chairs around it. How about keeping me company?

Girl, you want, I will treat you to a cake in French or coffee in Turkish.

In the museum

Would you hang this picture in your house?

If I had a million dollars, I would buy you this painting.

In my opinion this is a portrait of your great-great-great-grandmother.

In the elevator

Aren't you afraid to stay in a stuck elevator with a maniac like me?

You don’t know, is this elevator going to heaven?

In room

It seems to me that you are a creative person ...

Do you believe in love at first sight or should I come in again?

In the dark

Do you meet in the dark? And under the lantern?
  - You are beautiful?

On the beach

- Girl, help me squeeze the swimming trunks, please ...

Girl, I watch, you swim so cool, could you watch me, otherwise I don’t know how to swim. In thanks, ice cream and coffee.

Please give me your glasses, otherwise my swimming trunks drowned.

In flippers and in a mask you look very sexy!

Please keep an eye on my things while I bathe.

Girl, teach me to eat watermelon, huh? And then I do not know how. I eat the crust - and have already eaten.

Girl! Be so kind as to no longer walk, wagging your hips, past that old man. He already had two heart attacks! Better walk past me, I have a strong heart.

  “Girl, do you want me to guess what’s under your swimsuit?” (Risky!)

Girl, can I sleep on your sunbed? Yes, you do not get up, do not get up! .. (Still risky)

  “Girl, where is the sand that you walked on?” I run away, kiss him. If you want, I’ll kiss this asphalt for you! I’ll kiss any rubbish for your sake, even your girlfriend and your husband! (it’s a laugh a hundred pounds to the girl, and that’s half the battle)

In a place not suitable for acquaintance, for example, in a queue for a paid dry closet:
  - Girl you never met in the toilet?

Generations succeed each other, and the difficulties of young people do not change. If before the guys did not know how to say “hello” to the young lady on the street, today they are embarrassed to start communication on the network.

Thus, new technologies did not in the least ease the problem of acquaintance, but, on the contrary, added another burning question: how to start correspondence with a girl. Maybe dedicate touching poems to her to make a blissful impression?

We give specific examples of proper communication with the fairer sex on social networks.

Communication in real life is significantly different from dating in Vkontakte. At a personal meeting, a young man is able to impress a young lady with a worthy appearance, charm her with exquisite manners.

The conversation is in the social. networks depends, first of all, on the guy’s ability to interest a potential interlocutor with information on his profile, the ability to communicate and look after beautifully (in the virtual world).

The first most important thing is to correctly design the page on the site so that it does not appear empty. A prerequisite is the downloading of high-quality photographs, eg:

1. Personal photo portrait made in high-quality resolution, with a minimum of Photoshop effects.
2. The captured moments of your life - playing sports, viewing sights in various places of the country and the planet.
3. Pictures with various girls so that after the first message you have a reason to tell who these young people are for you.

Do not forget to join various VK groups and indicate various hobbies. However, do not start a conversation, being in such ambiguous communities, as, for example, “Features of a pickup truck”, “Pickup truck for macho”, “We breed girls for sex.

Before you start a conversation in VK, quietly “scroll through” her page in order to get some information that makes it easier to get to know each other. This will help you avoid errors in the first message and find different points of contact. On the site you can find out:

• how often a potential interlocutor sits on the network and Vkontakte;
• in which communities is it registered;
• how many network fans she has;
• alleged hobbies.

So, how to get acquainted on the Internet?

1. Radiate positive.  Communicate with a woman with humor, but do not use sarcasm in relation to the interlocutor. More often joke, use the emoticons in the message to the best of your abilities, do not load the girl at the beginning of your acquaintance with sad stories.
2. Write correctly.  The absence of errors is perhaps the first thing that many representatives of the weaker sex turn to during correspondence. Before sending a message, check it for literacy through various services that can be found on the network.
3. Be polite. Do not forget to say hello. Greeting is an indispensable element of the message, as well as the absence of a mat, swearing and vulgar words. Tip of the pickup truck masters: Do not forget to call a young lady by name, as the name is the most beloved word for every person.
4. Intrigue the interlocutor.  Followers of the pickup recommend changing the tactics of communication. For example, making sure that the girl is interested, try to disappear from Vkontakte for a few days, stopping the conversation at the most interesting place.
5. Be different.  If your first words were extremely brutal, in the process of communication surprise the young lady, for example, by sending her romantic poems. Or inadvertently indicate in the message that you used to do dancing.
6. Take an interest in the girl.  Communicating with a stranger is quite difficult, but pickup artists recommend asking the young lady more about her hobbies, taking an interest in her desires and plans for the future. Talking about an interlocutor is a coup.
7. Communicate via SMS.  Communication in VK is, of course, wonderful, but if you want to meet in real life, after some time go to SMS. In a telephone message, you can send poems and greetings in the morning, and generally stay in touch. Of course, you do not need to insist on switching to SMS.

How to start correspondence?

Find a pretty companion in the social. Networks and specifically in VK is quite simple. However, the following problems immediately appear: what to write to the girl in contact in the first message, how to start a conversation, what should be avoided in communication, and how to translate the dialogue into a real meeting.

The first rule of pickup - no platitudes! Forever get out of your head the standard messages “Hello, how's it going?”, “Get to know you?”, “Hello, beauty.”

Many guys begin to communicate online with girls with exactly these phrases. But if the young lady is pretty, such messages in VK come to her regularly.

The first message should be concise and concise. Pickup wizards recommend checking before sending a message whether it answers three important questions that arise in every pretty girl’s head after a young lady reads your capacious “hello”.

Here are the following questions for dating and socializing on the Internet:

1. Who are you? I mean your name.
2. Why did you start communication? Your tasks: just communicate, find out something from the girl, invite her on a date, etc.
3. Why did you choose her from a large female company in VK? You may have found common ground, noticed something on her page, etc.

The first messages and men's greetings should interest a potential interlocutor, make her start and continue communication.

Do I need to invent a complicated greeting or write a huge text? Another pickup rule - the first message may consist of two or three sentences, but they should be catchy.

Do not forget to say hello and insert your own name in the greeting - you need to introduce yourself even if you have personal data on the page. You want the interlocutor to make a positive opinion about you? Moreover, in decent societies, accept to voice your name when you meet.

If you do not know which pretext to indicate as a reason for communication, do not worry. Your desire to communicate, have a conversation and just get acquainted with a pretty young lady is already a sufficient excuse for sending a message. Of course, you should not indicate in the first sentences that you want to have children with her and go down the aisle next Sunday.

So, the first message should be original and creative. It is necessary to do without vulgarities and all sorts of sexual hints, so as not to get into the black list of unreliable users. Even if you are a supporter of pickup, you do not need to immediately demonstrate the true purpose of communication.

If your goal is real, pulling with a date and taking a phone number is not worth it. Pickup masters recommend immediately pulling someone from the network to a meeting, because you don’t need to delay communication.

Does the girl not agree to communicate via SMS and does not want to meet in real life? Do not immediately brush aside her, try to practice communication and tackle with the fairer sex. In addition, perhaps in one or two messages the young lady will still change her mind and go on a date with you.

If you really have serious intentions, and not just a pickup, then for dating and communicating on the Internet with a girl you like, there is no certain time frame.

Maintain a conversation, send verses and pictures to a pretty young lady, in general, show yourself as a good conversationalist. Then, when it opens, you can switch to SMS communication. And there is already not far and to a real meeting.

It is not so difficult to get to know a pretty young lady in VK, but only if you adhere to certain rules and are not afraid of numerous “pitfalls”.

It is important to understand that the first message is the main key for subsequent communication and further development of relations. Avoid platitudes, use original phrases and write compliments to girls. Perhaps just a regular conversation on the net will be the beginning of a passionate romance and love!

Hello, I am Nadezhda Plotnikova. Having successfully studied at SUSU as a special psychologist, she devoted several years to working with children with developmental problems and advising parents on raising children. I apply the gained experience, including in the creation of articles of a psychological orientation. Of course, by no means do I pretend to the ultimate truth, but I hope that my articles will help respected readers to deal with any difficulties.