This article will discuss how you, dear girls, influence your men. After all, you influence - no doubt, because they are endowed with very strong energy, the value of which is often underestimated.
Have you ever wondered why with one girl / woman a man ceases to earn money, becomes non-initiative, does not take care of himself, becomes rude, and when he finds a new relationship with another girl, he becomes somewhat successful, helpful, caring and energetic? What is happening that changes it radically?
For a long time, a woman knew that she could empower a man: it was no coincidence that she accompanied her husband on a campaign, presented him with a handmade amulet, prayed for his well-being, and believed in his return. This is her powerful energy, which built a favorable course of events.
So, all women can be divided into three groups: plus woman and.
Woman zero neutral in its influence. She just is. Nothing changes with her in a man’s life: neither worse nor better. Everything goes quite smoothly, and many men are satisfied with such a relationship.
Such a woman is like an observer from afar. She is just a listener in the life of a man - no advice, no sympathy, no words of support. She presents her behavior as if it makes it possible to understand everything on her own.
Only a man feels cold in the company of such a woman. He knows that he will not take inspiration from her, she will not give him energy in order to “run uphill”. Most often, a woman-zero attracts men swimming with the flow. They do not need mega-victories, therefore they are satisfied with such a woman.
Plus woman. First of all, this is a feminine woman. She is strong in a feminine way: friendly, smiling, with a developed sense of gratitude to a man who knows how to notice his efforts and bestows compliments. 
Such a girl never takes on male functions, but knows how to ask a man for help. In addition, she singles out his peculiarity in a man, his advantages among others, and voices this to him. With such a girl, a man wants to be strong and omnipotent. From her love of life, from the ability to admire and give love, a man receives the energy that he needs to move forward.
Naturally, this girl takes care of herself, she always looks great, resolves any conflict situation in a calm tone and with love, she accepts the man as he is, does not try to remake him for herself, she allows him to make decisions and make mistakes.
In case of failure, she knows how to choose words that inspire and inspire a man so that he is ready to challenge any circumstances and go to win.
Next to such a girl, a man goes up, next to her his affairs go uphill, with her he becomes stronger in spirit and more successful. It is clear that in such a girl is excellent, she knows how to relax a man.
Thanks to the above, a man is getting better. And why? It's all about hormones. A woman knows how to influence the level of the male hormone testosterone in the blood. It is the plus woman that provokes a surge in this hormone, and therefore the power appears to move and win.
As one popular psychologist says, testosterone is a hormone of kings. This is the hormone of leaders and winners. The more he is in the blood of a man, the more successful he becomes. Everything is simple.
If you often scold a man for his mistakes, if you meet him upon returning home with a sour face or hand him a garbage bag to take it out (he is shod anyway), if you do not believe in his abilities and do not trust, you make decisions and execute male work (moving furniture at home, hammering nails), taking care of yourself poorly - you thereby deprive a man of his strength, testosterone levels from this drop, as a result - failures and financial difficulties are attracted to him. Both you and your man suffer from this.
It’s much easier to change your habits - not to get annoyed, but to be flexible and bring any situation in a positive direction. Both will benefit from this. This is called spirituality.
Try to develop this skill - the result will please you, and the relationship will become stronger: you are late, and he has passed the turn - say that you spoke him, and you had to turn earlier; instead of a certain washing powder, he bought a powder of another brand - do not get annoyed, but say that this is an occasion to try something new. It’s not difficult! The world will not collapse from this! On the contrary, it will be filled with happy people.
You can’t imagine how important it is for a man to know what is believed in him, how important it is to see your joy and appreciation when he reaches certain heights and gives you gifts, how expensive it is for a man when you can motivate him. Who says words of gratitude to him? Nobody, only you! So give him this “oxygen”!
We all influence each other, and if we inflicted mental pain on someone, this person will unconsciously go to avenge, inflicting pain on another, and so on in the chain. It’s better to make people happier - let them continue to give happiness. And for men, dear girls, give a sense of significance and importance in your life. Give him recognition (gratitude), acceptance (he is what he is, and you don’t remodel him), complicity (everything that matters to him about your life is important to you) and empathy (you share his victories and defeats, you are always there).
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Are you an extravagant adventurer, ready at any moment to break in search of adventure? Or, on the contrary, are you a loving, subtle and dreamy nature?
Or maybe you are a real fatal woman, from which men lose their heads? Who you are at heart and who you are in life will help determine a simple test.
Take this interesting test by answering 10 simple questions and find out what type of women you belong to.
Question number 1:
Are you in love with someone (passionate about someone)?
A- No, but I have a boyfriend;
B- Rather, no;
C-Not at the moment;
D- Yes, definitely.
Points:
Question number 2:
How would you describe yourself?
A- Definitely, naughty and a little spoiled;
B- A bit harsh and extravagant, adventurous;
C- Absolutely normal;
D- Elegant and feminine.
Points:
Question number 3:
Have you ever been arrested or detained?
A- A couple of times, rarely;
B- constantly;
C- No, or for a minor violation;
D- Never! I am a good girl!
Points:
Question number 4:
Do you have a lot of friends?
A- Yes, I have many friends and girlfriends;
B- I have several friends;
C- I have a couple of friends with difficulty;
D- I have no friends at all.
Points:
Question number 5:
What kind of music do you like?
A- Pop / Jazz;
B- Classical / country style;
C- Rock / metal;
D- Hip Hop / Rap.
Points:
Question number 6:
How much makeup do you usually use?
A- Just enough to easily emphasize their merits;
B- I almost do not use cosmetics;
C- I have a clean face without makeup;
D- I apply a lot of makeup in a thick layer.
Points:
Question number 7:
If you are very upset, your actions?
A- I will try to disappear from the field of view of the offended person;
B- I will apologize again and again;
C- I will try to laugh it off and cheer up the person whom I offended;
D- I will try to put myself in the place of the offended person and look at the situation through his eyes.
Points:
Question number 8:
What do you prefer?
A- School, university, courses;
B- Shops, shopping;
C- Sports, training;
D- Soft toys.
Points:
Question number 9:
What do you buy with great pleasure?
C- Toys;
D- Cosmetics.
Points:
Question number 10:
What do you most often feel?
A- Happiness, satisfaction;
B- Loneliness, depression;
C- Anxiety, fear, anger;
D- Confidence, excitement, excitement.
Points:
Now summarize your points and read what matches your score.
From 100 to 170 points:
Type: PRINCESS
More than anything, you are worried about how you look. You like to always do your own thing. It takes you forever to attend the training camp, because you will never leave the house without makeup, combed and dressed hastily.
Your shoes should strictly fit the chosen image of clothes, and handbags should be at least 10 pieces.
You hate sports and any kind of physical activity, so always find excuses not to go to gyms.
From 180 to 250 points:
Type- CHARMING LADY
You are an average girl who likes what most normal girls, women of your age, love.
Sometimes you don’t mind to shame, fool around and even smear in the mud, but when you need to, you put on your most beautiful dress, shoe luxurious stilettos, tint eyelashes and turn into a beautiful lady.
From 260 to 320 points:
Type- BUNTARKA
You always act in your own way, only the way you want, even if your actions threaten you with serious problems.
Among your friends and girlfriends you definitely stand out. Others know you as a naughty and mischievous rebel. However, you are who you are, and you like your lifestyle. Nothing can stop you from being yourself. After all, you are so comfortable in your image.
From 330 to 400 points:
Type- VARIOUS
You are completely crazy nature. The madness is in your blood. Often you like to do crazy things. You probably belong to the type of women who simply hate the color pink.
Cute dresses with ruffles and lace are not yours at all. You prefer to spend your free time actively, you like sports.
Instead of shopping, you always choose an extreme walk somewhere in the mountains or go for an adventure somewhere with the same crazy friends. You can be found climbing over rocks rather than choosing high heel shoes or ruffled dresses in the store.
David Kibby's character test can be found on many sites. However, in some places it is supplemented by translators' comments in such a way that they cannot be distinguished from the text of Kibby himself. I am still for the original. Therefore, the text written by David Kibby (complete and without gag) is in regular type, and my own comments are in italics.
And, of course, the photographs were chosen by me, therefore they are not the ultimate truth. But still, with difficulties with typing, I recommend taking a photo (it is always more reliable to see yourself from the outside) and compare them with the proposed samples.
Bone structure
Vertical line (not height, but how tall you seem surrounding):
a.Elongated (people constantly think that I'm higher than actually).
The height of Angelina Jolie is only 169 cm, but it seems that she is much taller.
b. Relatively elongated (sometimes people think that I'm taller, but only slightly).
c.Medium (usually people correctly determine my height or are not surprised when I call it).
d. Shortish (usually it seems to people that I am a little lower than in reality, but the curves of my figure are more noticeable than growth).
Attention! It’s more important how your growth seems from the side, since in our country always pay more attention to the bends (if they are, of course) :)
e.Miniature (it is obvious to everyone that I am not tall).
It seems that Selena Gomez is lower than Lindsay Lohan, but in fact, the growth of these actresses is the same - 165 cm.
Shoulder Shape:
a.Narrow and sharp.
b. Broad and blunt.
c. Symmetrical and even. Think twice!
d. Sloping and pointed.
e. Sloping and rounded.
1 – a (Winona Ryder); 2 -b (El MacPherson); 3 -c (Grace Kelly); 4 -d (Natalya Vodyanova); 5 -e (Salma Hayek)
Arms and legs:
a.Elongated and narrow.
b.Elongated and wide.
1-2 - a (Amal Alamuddin); 3-4 -b (Cindy Crawford)
c. Medium length, proportional to height and upper body. Think twice!
d.Small and short.
e. Small, very short in relation to growth and upper body.
1 - s (Brigitte Bardot); 2 -d (Kim Kardashian); 3 -e (Hayden Panettiere)
Hands and feet:
a.Long and narrow.
b. Large and wide.
1 – a (Amal Alamuddin); 2 -b (Maria Sharapova)
c.Medium: neither long nor short, nor large nor small. Think twice!
d.Small, narrow, elegant.
e. Small and slightly wide.
1 – c (Catherine Deneuve); 2 -d (Jada Pinkett Smith); 3 -e (Kim Kardashian)
Type of figure (soft tissue)
Figure:
a. Elongated, thin, sinewy.
b.Broad, muscular tendency.
c.Symmetric, proportional. Have you selected this item? And again: think twice. A typical mistake is to consider yourself symmetrical. But, in fact, this is quite rare. And the type of Pure Classic and in general can be considered, if not extinct, then listed in the Red Book.
d.Proportional, hint at the hourglass.
e. Very soft, with lush bends, a real hourglass.
1- a (Anya Rubik); 2 -b(Maria Sharapova); 3 -c (Marion Cotillard); 4-d (Halle Berry); 5 -e (Kelly Brook)
Chest / Upper Body:
a. Flat, toned (it seems that I never get fat in this part of the body, even when I have a serious excess weight).
b.Broad (I get slightly fuller in this part of the body when I am overweight).
c.Medium proportional to waist and hips.
1 - a (Keira Knightley); 2 -b (Maria Sharapova); 3 -c (Grace Kelly)
d. Roundish, good shape, standing out against the background of the waist (my upper body is somewhat short and when I gain excess weight, it is deposited in this area).
e. Very noticeable, lush (it doesn’t matter, I’m slim or full, the chest is always noticeable).
1- d (Scarlett Johansson), 2 -e (Kim Kardashian)
Waist:
a. Elongated, boyishly conical (the situation does not change even with excess weight).
b.Elongated, but in the absence of excess weight, straight, and if it is present, it is lost.
c.Moderate, not very pronounced.
1 - a (Keira Knightley); 2 -b (Gisele Bundchen); 3-c (Kate Moss)
d.Very thin compared to the chest and hips.
e.Gently outlined, but somewhat wide.
1 – d (Kim Kardashian); 2-e (Vanessa Hudgens)
Hip line:
a.Conical, straight, boyishly narrow (however, I noticeably grow fat in this area when I am overweight).
b.Straight, slightly conical and slightly wide (it seems that extra weight is always deposited on my hips).
c.Medium, proportional to the chest and waist.
d. Rounded, expressed against the background of the waist.
e.Extremely soft and rounded, whatever my weight.
1 – a (Evangeline Lilly); 2 -b (Reese Witherspoon); 3 -c (Marion Cotillard); 4 -d (Beyonce); 5th (Princess Beatrice)
Arms (from elbow to shoulder) and legs (from knee to hip):
In the title of the subsection, Kibby clearly indicates that we are talking about soft tissues, but if you look at the points, it is clear that they are not about them alone.
a.Long, fit and sinewy.
b.Elongated, with a tendency to muscularity.
c. Moderate, not too soft, but not too sinewy / muscular.
d.Soft, slightly short.
e. Very soft, broad and fleshy, slightly short.
1 – a (Amal Alamuddin); 2 -b (Kate Middleton); 3 -c (Jennifer Lawrence); 4 -d (Salma Hayek); 5 -e (America Ferrera)
Facial bone structure
The chin:
a.Sharp: either very sharp, very prominent, or very square.
b. Wide or rounded, slightly too big.
c. Medium in size, symmetrical: not wide, not sharp, not rounded. Be careful not to overestimate your symmetry.
1 - a (Amal Alamuddin); 2- b (Maria Sharapova); 3 - c (Grace Kelly)
d.Elegant, slightly pointed or slightly narrow.
e. Rounded or slightly wide.
1- d (Jennifer Lopez); 2 – e (Marilyn Monroe)
a. Sharp or protruding.
b.Wide or dull.
c.Medium in size, symmetrical, not too big and not too round.
1 - a (Tilda Swinton); 2 - b (Jennifer Aniston); 3 - c (Grace Kelly)
d.Graceful, narrow, pointed.
e.Rounded: expands gently but does not become large.
1 – d (Sharon Stone); 2 -e (Marilyn Monroe)
Cheekbones:
a.Tall, protruding.
b.Wide.
c.Symmetrical, medium sized.
1 - a (Tilda Swinton); 2 - b (Maria Sharapova); 3 - c (Catherine Deneuve)
d.Graceful, narrow, slightly rounded.
e.Rounded, gently expanding "apple cheeks."
1 – d (Rihanna); 2 -e (Hayden Panettiere)
Facial features
Eye shape:
a.Narrow, closely set, straight or almond-shaped.
b.Narrow, straight, wide set. Few people are ready to admit their eyes are narrow and during typing, many are terribly offended by such an assumption. But still it is better to face the truth, especially since narrow eyes can also be beautiful in the same way.
c.Evenly spaced, symmetrical, medium sized.
1 - a (Lauren Vickers); 2 - b (Kate Moss); 3 - c (Marion Cotillard)
d.Rounded, set relatively close, a slightly almond-shaped shape is possible or the outer corners of the eyes may be slightly raised.
e.Very round and very large.
1 – d (Audrey Hepburn), 2 – e (Christina Ricci)
Lip shape:
a. Straight, narrow, sometimes these women are called "thin-lipped."
b. Straight, solid, slightly wide, but not complete.
c.Medium in size, uniform in shape, not very straight and not very full.
1 - a (Tilda Swinton); 2 - b (Cate Blanchett); 3 - c (Marion Cotillard)
d. Full and round.
e.Very full, very round and very juicy. Of course, lips like Jolie's are rare, but they should definitely be larger than those of Selena Gomez.
1 – d (Selena Gomez); 2 -e (Angelina Jolie)
Cheeks:
a. Taut and non-necklace even with excess weight.
b. Pretty fit, but getting chubby when gaining weight.
c. Medium, soft but not puffy.
1 - a (Amal Alamuddin); 2 - b (Jennifer Aniston); 3 - c (Rachel Weisz)
d. Soft and full, can become extremely thick with excess weight.
e.Very soft, very full, very round even with minimal weight.
1 – d (Hayden Panettiere during weight gain); 2 -e (Marilyn Monroe in normal weight)
Hair :
a.With an extremely fine texture (soft silky), both straight and slightly curly.
b.With a strong texture (rough, heavy, thick and straight or wavy / curly).
1 – a (Kristen Stewart); 2 -b (Sarah Jessica Parker)
c.With a medium texture, slightly wavy or with a very slight hint of a wave.
d. Moderately thick, with a light wave, wavy or curly.
e. Extremely thick, very wavy or curly (with a soft surface).
1 - c (Katie Holmes), 2 - d (Hayden Panettiere); 3rd (Shakira)
Your type:
paragraph a, then your appearance is controlled by extreme, sharp Yang. You are a Dramatic.
If the most answers are in paragraph e, then your appearance is controlled by extreme, soft Yin. You are a romantic person.
If the most answers are in paragraph withthen Yin and Yang are balanced in your appearance. You are a Classic.
If the most answers are in paragraph b, then your appearance is controlled by soft Yang. You are Natural.
If the answers are divided between paragraphs a and e, then your appearance is a combination of opposites. You are the gamin.
If the most answers are in paragraph a(bone structure), plus some responses from paragraph e(soft tissue and / or facial features), then your appearance is controlled by a strong Yang with a pronounced hint of Yin. You are the Soft Dramatic.
If the most answers are in paragraph e and / or paragraphd(soft tissue and facial features), plus some responses from paragraph a(bone structure), then your appearance is controlled by soft Yin with a slight hint of Yang. You are a Theater Romantic.
If the most answers are in paragraph c (soft tissue and facial features), plus a few answers from paragraph a and / or b(bone structure), then your appearance is balanced, with a slight advantage Yang. You are a Dramatic Classic.
If the most answers are in paragraph c paragraph d and / or e(soft tissue and facial features), then your appearance is balanced, with a slight margin of yin. You are the Soft Classic.
If the most answers are in point b, plus a few answers from paragraph a, then your appearance is controlled by a strong Yang (but at the same time bones with blunt edges). You are Bright Natural.
Bear in mind that the bone structure must be subject to an extremely strong influence of yang, while soft tissues and facial features will be subject to moderate influence of yang.
If the most answers are in paragraphb(bone structure), plus several answers from paragraph d and / or e(soft tissues and facial features), then your appearance is controlled by soft Yang with a hint of Yin. You are Soft Natural.
paragraphsa and e paragraph b, then your appearance is a combination of opposites plus with a slight advantage Yang. You are the Bright Gamin.
Bear in mind that the bone structure of the body and face, as well as the soft tissues, must be influenced by Yang, while facial features and growth should be influenced by Yin.
If your answers are almost equally divided between paragraphsa and eand also you have some answers from paragraph d, then your appearance is a combination of opposites with a slight advantage of Yin. You are the Soft Gamin.
Bear in mind that the bone structure should be influenced by yang, while soft tissue should be influenced by yin. Moreover, facial features - under the extreme influence of Yin.
What woman does not want to learn the secrets of a happy relationship with a man and live in harmony with her chosen one, herself and the world? Do they exist?
Psychologist from St. Petersburg Vadim Kurkin is sure that there are secrets, and everyone can master the art of happy relationships. To do this, you need to learn about some of the laws of psychology.
Vadim Kurkin sees his mission in increasing the psychological literacy of women and making them happy.
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His course on happy relationships has become the most popular - for simplicity and benefit.
Vadim Kurkin also maintains a magazine on relationships and life. On his blog, he generously shares his knowledge as a successful man who knows what he is talking about.
“As a psychologist, I do not just work in my specialty, but I have taken part in the profession. The topics of self-esteem and the secrets of a happy relationship are my main areas, ”says Vadim Kurkin.
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The psychology of relationships is often of interest to women, therefore, the Growth Phase recorded his special lecture.
In the given female types, everyone will be able to recognize themselves and try to answer the question: do I like my life and what to do about it?
The tale of a girl living later
Vadim Kurkin first tells his listeners of the course “Secrets of Happy Relationships” a motivating tale. True, is this a story familiar to everyone?
Once upon a time there was a girl who dreamed of a good life. She knew that happiness would come someday later. And now she needs to go to school and do homework.
Then later, when I enter the institute, I will have the most wonderful life in the world! But now I need to prepare for the exams, the girl thought.
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She entered the university and she was overwhelmed by routine and all sorts of disappointments. And what was she thinking? I’ll get a job, and how I’ll live! Then, when I make a career ... I will have a lot of happiness!
Well, now I will do routine and non-fun activities.
The girl began to work, got married, gave birth to two children ... Then it will become easier for me, the woman mused. Then, when the husband begins to earn more, we can go on a trip ...
The pension has come. In front of the TV, a woman dreamed that someday later ... The end of a fairy tale.
5 levels of relationships
According to Vadim Kurkin, our relationship with and the world is a five-story house. And the quality of our life depends on whether order is established on each of them.
1. Security Level
The first floor includes the satisfaction of our basic needs. This includes not only the physical needs of food and sleep. This is a roof over your head, and money for education for children.
“Ideally, a man provides safety to a woman. The normal female position is to live for pleasure, ”says the author of the marathon.
With harmonious relations in a pair, a woman does not think about the base. She wakes up in the morning with a smile and thinks: wow, what new will this day bring me? She thinks about the future and the future, but with joy, absolutely without tension.
What if there is no man yet? If a woman knows how to live a relaxed, stress-free life, the role of a man is assumed by the world around him. The world feels your state, and he wants to make you happy!
2. The level of desires, sex and pleasure
If the first level - the "center" is closed, the woman gets access to her desires. Otherwise, all the energy will go to safety, the tension in the "base" will not allow the manifestation of new energy.
With a closed level of security, desires appear freely and spontaneously.
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Here it is important to learn to distinguish your true "desires" from the imposed ones. It also matters whether a woman can translate her desires into the world without shame and false modesty.
“A man can feel like a hero who is pleased to satisfy her. If you don’t have a partner, but you know how to freely want, connected to your desires, the world itself will begin to cast up opportunities, ”continues Vadim Kurkin.
3. Money level
The flow of money into our lives is growing in proportion to our needs. With the pumped third level, the necessary finances come either before the desire-need arises, or at the same time.
But never after! With a closed level of money, you do not have to frantically seek finance.
Kurkin argues that our welfare does not depend on either the political situation or the evil authorities.
What does this level mean in the context of male-female relations? A woman who knows the secrets of dealing with finances knows how to influence her husband’s income and motivate him.
He must want to become a getter and a hero, grow up the career ladder in order to set himself ambitious financial goals!
According to Kurkin, it happens that one man is “rushing”, while others are unlucky. And the only difference is in what state these people, their women are.
4. The level of love and emotional involvement
Vadim Kurkin believes that love should only be mutual. She must make our chosen ones strong.
It happens that a woman loves a man, but he only becomes weaker with her. “You already loved him so much, he received so much from you that he does not need to become a hero,” the presenter says.
It is important for such women to learn not only to give, but also to accept. The coach believes that the love between a man and a woman is like a child. It is born, grows, evolves and eventually only gets deeper.
5. The level of intuition and sensitivity
At this level, a woman connects with her inner nature. If there is tension at the basic level of survival, intuition is not available.
The ideal picture is this: you become a thinly feeling woman who is able to feel herself and the world, opportunities and prospects for a couple, a family.
“Then you are a special woman. Intuition seems to move you forward, and consciousness and mind help. This is the top floor of the relationship, a cherry on the cake, ”the coach summarizes.
5 female scripts
Why does our house with five floors not stand firmly on the ground, but regularly staggers and overflows with tension at one level or another? Vadim Kurkin believes that the whole point is in our life scenario. What it is?
This is an unconscious life plan - a decision that a child makes unconsciously in childhood under the influence of parents.
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How does this happen? For example, a girl sees that dad is talking aggressively with her mother. And she makes an unconscious decision - all men are evil. What will be the scenario of the girl? Do not trust men!
Moreover, in her life she will attract just angry and aggressive men.
Even if trials appear on our path, fate prepares us a reward for them.
The script is another matter. Its only function is to preserve ourselves and make us function at the level of survival. If we live according to the scenario, we cannot gain access to our true destiny.
The psychologist identifies five female scenario types, to which certain male types are drawn.
1. Thoughtful woman
She is strong-willed and internally very strong. This is a woman-locomotive, loves to go in the forefront. This woman is prone to analysis, she is careful, slow and loves to adhere to the usual way.
She always brings things to the end, but it’s hard for her to make decisions. Because of this, such a woman is extremely difficult to change anything in her life, for example, to leave her unloved job, which for 10 years has not brought any joy.
It is important for her to get to the end in everything, so she is emotionally stuck at the stage of the struggle of motives, as if sitting on two chairs. She quickly gets tired of people.
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But when approaching someone, they quickly become addicted - people begin to use it.
In a relationship with a man, she can be described as a soft, understanding woman. She will not force her partner to do something - all by herself! And the man next to her ceases to be active.
This woman attracts weak men. And the strong one becomes weak next to her. Her screenwriting function is to grow a partner. But as soon as he gets to his feet, she parted with him. Her scenario is not to accept the results.
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She knows how to promote, but does not know how to accept and take. In the script of this woman there is no permission to live in luxury and pleasure.
As soon as a relaxed and secure period looms in her world, she will feel shame and fear. She is embarrassed to live better than others! And she unconsciously merges her successes so as not to experience these feelings.
2. The female lighter
It seems strong to others, but it is an appearance. Inside, she barely holds on to the accumulated fears, pains and disappointments.
This is an incredibly emotional woman! She is cheerful, bright, jokes a lot, easily adapts to the new and suffers from constant mood swings.
Decisions are made quickly and on emotions. Do you like the team? I got a job. Do you like it? Two months later, fell out of love and left. There is constant news around this woman.
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In her scenario, there is no way to finish the job, and because of this, she does not get the desired result. But others enjoy the fruits of her labors!
She endures loneliness hard. In relations with men, it feeds, there are many fans around her, but relations with one and only one do not add up. It happens that she attracts strong men, with character.
But what is going on? She resists restrictions, resists his strength. She constantly needs emotions, and she gets them through conflict.
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The partner feels “unbalanced”, and a successful man leaves her.
In a relationship, she is quickly tired of the routine, she wants an eternal celebration and news. It throws from side to side. And by the age of 35 she is finally exhausted.
3. Leader woman
Such a woman in everything loves order, justice, and is incredibly demanding both to herself and to others. She controls others. And then he wonders - why do they resist her “doing good?”
Recognition and respect are important to her, but she forcibly intrudes into the life of others, therefore she does not get what she wants. She does not feel her borders, respectively, other people also do not feel them.
She is inanimate, in conflict. It is important for her to always remain right! And in a relationship with a man, this is a dead end. Her way of expressing love is criticism. She constantly re-educates loved ones, gives unsolicited advice.
