Be observant and follow our advice.

1. You laugh at the same nonsense

It may seem strange to you, but it is laughter that should always be present in a healthy relationship. This is an indicator that you can easily bring bad emotions back to normal, which is very important in life.

2. You finish sentences one after another

An interesting way that partners literally look in one direction. What could be more romantic if it complements you and makes you much better? Everything can be in love.

3. You perceive each other's problems as your own

This point is a clear sign of trust and that the partner will come to the rescue at any time. Relationships should be not only beautiful, gentle, light, but also reliable.

4. He makes you better

Six months ago, you had no desire to do anything, apathy? And now, you are traveling together, playing sports, having fun. This is a sign that mutual understanding reigns between you, which definitely makes you much better.

Scientists say that a couple who have been married for many years complement each other, partners even become similar in appearance. At the beginning of a relationship, pay attention to how easy it is for you two. You watch the same films, listen to the same music performers, and have a similar outlook on life. A clear sign that you are made for each other.

6. His weaknesses are your strength

There are no ideals, people tend to make mistakes, follow failures, and be disappointed. The only important thing is how seriously you take everything and whether you know how to notice the dignity of your partner. He may be weak in some way, but you always back up, because you know how to be in different situations. Understand, that is why couples were created to overcome difficulties together.

7. You are doing your best for the good of your relationship.

Even during fights, find compromises and the right words to keep the feelings and what you have for each other. It is important to always understand what is most valuable.

8. You have learned to accept each other as they are

Even with flaws and bad habits. Why? Because you love each other.

9. You feel easy around him

Anxiety, stupid thoughts, everything fades into the background, because with him you feel safe.

10. He is your true friend

You understand that you can rely in any situation and he will understand you correctly, help and prompt. It is important that partners are not only partners, but also friends. Remember this.

11. You talk openly about everything

In simple words - you are not afraid to seem stupid in his eyes.

12. Without him, life would be empty

Even when you are fighting, you do not want to leave, but you cope with difficulties. This once again confirms that you want to be together.

Of course, there is a general clear instruction on how to build relationships correctly, how to understand that the very same person next to you does not exist. However, there are still some signs by which we can conclude that you are the perfect couple. Here they are.

You have common views on almost everything

You have to think the same in some fundamental points, not necessarily in all. For example, you both think you can wait with the wedding. Or, let's say that in life you need to achieve everything on your own. Or, for example, you lead a healthy lifestyle.

You motivate each other

You want to learn a lot and do it together. Together you set goals, and if they are not common, then consult with each other. You develop in relationships and improve yourself.

Are you comfortable being silent with each other

You have something to talk about, but there is also something to be silent about. And this silence does not bother, but is quite natural.

Sometimes it happens that people who are similar together are ideal for each other and in character. So if this is about you and if you often hear in your address “What a beautiful couple!”, You can take it as a good sign.

You can talk nonsense with each other

And be who you really are. Without feeling shame, embarrassment, or anything else.

Some things are just made for each other: birds and the sky, shoes and socks, peanut butter and jelly. When it comes to human relationships, everything is much more complicated and confusing. Some people have been unsuccessfully looking for a suitable life partner for many years, but when they find it, they simply cannot believe it. In fact, this is not a dream or a fairy tale on Christmas night, but the ideal partner will be found for every person, you just need to open your eyes. Do you think it's too good to be true? Then take a look at our list of 12 positions that will indicate if you and your partner are the right fit.

Both of you find stupid things funny

If you've started to forget what your own laughter sounds like, because it drowns in her laughter, you are incredibly lucky. Agree, it would be sad if the girl did not understand even a tenth of your jokes. But if she is amused by your every statement, you have found a soul mate. It doesn't matter if you are watching a comedy or discussing funny situations in life. You feel like you are on the same wavelength.

You end each other's sentences

Lovers are incredibly lucky if their thoughts converge. The man has just begun to say the phrase, and the woman already knows how this statement should end. Perhaps it will seem too boring to some. However, the lovers themselves have a different opinion. For them, it is akin to a loop of air aces. Aerobatics is when you start to say the same phrase at the same time. Can you really read each other's minds?

Her problems are instantly yours

Relationships cannot be happy if the girl is constantly sad. She's worried about something, maybe she's in trouble. But you won't leave it that way. You are driven by empathy. You don't understand how you can leave a loved one in trouble. Moreover, it is much easier to overcome difficulties together. Up or down, it doesn't matter! The main thing is that together.

Relentless self-improvement

Some people confuse cultivation for the sake of a loved one and selfishness in a partner. When you decide to be the best man on earth for your beloved, she does not ask you about it. You just want to please her. Let her be proud of her chosen one.

Some happy couples look alike even in appearance. There is nothing surprising. Moreover, there is nothing accidental in the fact that your interests are inexplicably intertwined. It seems that initially you chose each other according to some criteria. And now everything has come together: you like the same music, movies, football team and even ice cream. You read the same books and share the same beliefs. Even your dreams and aspirations coincide.

You see advantages in disadvantages

Now let's talk about the differences. People can have completely different temperaments or different skills. Happy couples do not see anything wrong with the fact that the husband does not know how to cook, and the wife does not drive well. When a girl acts on emotions, and a young man is absolutely calm, calmness is transmitted to her. They complement each other, so they have the opportunity to improve their skills or character. In any case, there is nothing that could not be done together.

Settlement of conflicts

No marriage is complete without quarrels and conflicts. The difference between ideal partners and everyone else is that they quickly try to resolve the conflict and together find a way out of this situation. It is not customary to bring a quarrel to the point of absurdity, just as it is not customary to declare a three-week boycott or open war. Each of the partners contributes to the settlement of the conflict.

Adore everything in each other

If for some girls the amusing habits of a young man become an annoying factor, for others these same habits may seem very nice. Do you feel the difference? In perfect couples, people adore each other down to the last detail.

You can feel comfortable with each other and without words.

You are so easy and comfortable with each other that you can afford to be silent. Silent silence will never cut your ear. You can allow yourself anything in the presence of each other, even aimlessly sliding your finger across the table. You feel good from the mere presence of your soul mate.

You talk openly with each other about everything.

Ideal couples have no secrets from each other. There is no such thing as a mystery at all. You will definitely talk about how the day went, talk about the problems and achievements. Who, if not beloved, should you tell about the darkest sides of your life? In any case, he will understand and will not judge. In this way, you both cultivate a strong sense of trust and respect. Both of you are confident that all your thoughts and concerns will be heard and never leave the family nest. Each of you is confident that in the future, in the event of force majeure, he will have support, support and a strong shoulder.

Your partner is your best friend

If you share your experiences first of all with your old friends, then your couple is still far from ideal. Agree, everything we talked about above already makes your partner a best friend.

Life loses meaning without each other

You are filled with rest, exciting trips, going to a restaurant, only if your soul mate is next to you. Now doing all the same without him seems empty and meaningless to you. You understand that it contains the meaning of your existence: pain and pleasure, heart and mind, happiness and the whole universe.

The most important choice in a woman's life is the choice of a man. Although today we are marching in step with the stronger sex: we are building a career, satisfying ambitions, pleasing our pride, but still you will not go against nature. The guarantee of the happiness of every woman is still her realization in the family. If you have succeeded as a wife and mother, then secondary goals will be easily attainable. But first you need to make the same choice, which is not so easy. The problem is that women often take the wrong position of expectation when the fairy-tale prince gallops on his white horse and takes him to his kingdom of unconditional happiness. It doesn't work that way.

For some women, marriage is such a goal that needs to be achieved faster than Masha and Lenka. After all, then the privilege of looking at unhappy friends with sad eyes and patting on the shoulder with words of sympathy will be with them. But you should not gloat ahead of time, because the pursuit of an early marriage deprives of an adequate and sober analysis of everything that is happening, in particular of your chosen one.

Is this man even suitable to be the father of a family? Will he protect, provide for his family? Here are the questions you need to ask yourself before you say yes, put on your wedding dress and hurry to the registry office.

In addition, only a few think about psychological compatibility, especially if you are blinded by love. Delving deeper into this issue, it becomes clear: it is a mistake to believe that the presence of strong feelings, emotions, intimate desire will lead to a happy marriage. All these emotional experiences, thanks to the jumping hormonal background, make you not only think that the person next to you is the best, but also awaken in you an ingenuity that you yourself did not suspect.

In general, the highest level of compatibility can be called such a value-orientational unity, when partners do not just agree with each other's opinions, but share a jointly made decision and make responsible for it not only the other, but also themselves. The psychological compatibility of spouses is largely determined by how similar the conditions for raising people, their social status, social circle were. This is the emerging level of culture, development and striving to broaden horizons, especially communicating with people, building connections, interacting with money. The stories where the princess escapes with a rural guy are fabulous, because in real life at dawn he will send her to the garden when she has no idea what to do there.

Our expert Maria Wyss believes that the guarantee of family happiness lies in a clear distribution of roles. If a man and a woman are in their places, it means that they will have many years of love and mutual understanding in 90% of cases.

“According to the ideal scheme, a man protects and provides for his family, and a woman creates all the conditions in which he and your children will exist in harmony and happiness. If you even strive for such a picture, then the chances of betting on the right man increase significantly. Indeed, in this case, you approach the choice reasonably and soberly and do not just take the position “oh, just to get married”, but you make this very choice yourself. It is very important.

Today, the family equality movement is very popular. Well, if this makes the relationship of partners harmonious, then everything is fine. But we're talking about the majority. Still, a man must provide for his family, just as a woman must create comfort, give love and affection. "

Here's what Maria advises to pay attention to when choosing a partner:

Look at his attitude towards money, as well as his attitude towards who will be the main earner in the family. How does he behave in general at the stage of acquaintance? How generous is he, how does he feel about his work, about making money, and so on? If you do not want to carry the whole family on you in the future, it is better to pay attention to the financial issue right away. Otherwise, you will run out of the decree after a month in order to earn money, and at the same time listen to endless claims due to the hurt pride of your partner.

Pay attention to his decency, to moral and ethical foundations, to the attitude towards parents.

Take a closer look at his habits and addictions. If he is a gambling person or has addictions - run! You don't need to turn on Mother Teresa and try to save a lost soul. It may happen that in the end you will have to be saved.

Be sure to check how jealous the man is. If this trait is pronounced - my condolences. Negativeness awaits you in everything, so get ready to mark the days on the calendar when you were in a good mood, and at any opportunity, raise his low self-esteem.

So how should you choose a life partner - with your heart or mind? From the point of view of psychology, when a woman chooses with her heart, in 95% of cases there will be relationship problems. Let's just say: 70% of the brain, 30% of the heart - the ideal proportion when choosing a partner. Only then will you be able to make a truly conscious, competent, correct choice and marry a man who can show his masculine qualities in the family.