All husbands are like husbands, but you have a misunderstanding. Admit it, at least once, you caught yourself thinking like this, and if not, you heard it from your mother... especially conscientious husbands can also pass this test, putting themselves in the place of their spouse. If you are dissatisfied with the result, do not be upset - the tests do not make a diagnosis, but only make you think about the problem. For each positive answer, give yourself one point.
1. Does your husband think that his mother cooks better than you?
2. Does he like to listen to loud music that you can’t stand?
3. Does your husband walk around the house in shorts?
4.Does he leave his dirty socks in inappropriate places?
5. Is it true that your husband forgot to congratulate you on your last wedding anniversary?
6. Did you hide from him how much your cosmetics cost?
7. Does he come home drunk on Friday night?
8. Is it true that he rarely spends Saturdays with his family?
9. Is it true that he doesn’t know how much a kilogram of potatoes costs in the store?
10. Was your mother against this marriage?
11. Is it true that your husband allows himself to use obscene language around his family?
12.Can he disappear without explanation for several days?
13. Has he ever raised his hand to you?
14. If you want to go to the theater or an exhibition, will it be difficult for you to persuade your husband to join you?
15. Does he tell you about his exes?
16. Do you have any suspicions that he is hiding part of his income from you?
17. Is it true that if you get sick, he will not be able to perform your duties?
18. Do you often catch yourself thinking that work or friends are more important to him than family?
19. Is it true that when you learn about his betrayal, you won’t be very surprised?
Now let’s sum up the points received and get acquainted with the results:
0-5 points - Henpeck. Your modest and non-conflict husband certainly does not pretend to be the head of the family. You were the initiator of starting a relationship and creating a family, and he role-role slave. It’s convenient for him to put responsibility on you and live under your command.. Like in the army, you don’t need to think, life is on schedule, melancholy has overcome you, you can drink vodka, only secretly or go AWOL... If you are satisfied with this state of affairs, then you can say, that your union is happy.
6-10 points - Ideal husband. Apparently in your marriage you managed to find the ideal middle ground. Your chosen one is aware of all the responsibility for his family and does everything possible to make his family and friends feel good. However, he has small flaws, which are features of his character - it is from them that his personality is formed. Sometimes it seems to you that you could find a brighter and more successful man, but brighter and more successful men tend to change women like gloves. Your bird in hand will not throw you into Hard time, you will live happily ever after.
11-15 points. - Loafing. Your spouse is most likely accustomed to solving problems as they arise. Before the wedding, he had little idea how he would build family life. You have a lot of contradictions, a wave of dissatisfaction with each other sometimes covers you headlong... Your husband is not bad at all, he’s just not ready to exchange his youthful dreams for the measured life of an ordinary person. Only through joint efforts will you experience all the beauty of things that family life gives.
16-19 points - A fiend from hell. You got married either very naive or you are prone to masochism. Living with your husband is dangerous for your health, both mental and physical. He deliberately humiliates you, imposing the laws of the jungle in the family. Seriously think about whether it is worth living with such a person... After all, he asserts himself at your expense, plus tyrants, as a rule, do not make a career and do not achieve success in life. All their energy is spent on hating their loved ones....
You come home from work and see dirty dishes in the sink, and dinner has long been cold. What will you do?
Possible answers:
- I’ll tell my wife that it’s actually her responsibility to keep things clean and feed her husband.
- I'll wash the dishes and warm up dinner for myself and her, she's probably tired too
- I'll make myself a sandwich and play an online game. My wife will probably heat up dinner and clean up soon
Possible answers:
- I'll go to sleep in another room. I need to get some sleep before work
- I'll try not to disturb her. She knows better how to rock screaming babies
- I'll take the child and send my wife to bed, she's very tired.
Possible answers:
- I’ll gather my family and take them to the forest for a barbecue. Or go with my wife to a restaurant
- Garage, beer, haven't seen friends for a long time
- Usually my wife plans our weekends
Possible answers:
- I'll scold you. We need to be more economical
- I’ll ask how much children’s clothes cost now. Perhaps I will take their purchase into my own hands or take an active part
- I don't even know what she dresses our children in.
Possible answers:
- I will get involved in the process of calming the children, I will protect my wife from the dissatisfied remarks of other passengers
- I don't know what to do in this situation. My wife always managed on her own
- I’ll move to another seat, I don’t want the screams of children to spoil my rest
Possible answers:
- I'll tell my mom to help her with the kids.
- I will be against it. Now her business is family, not all sorts of universities
- I will weigh my strengths and we will come up with a solution together. Education is very important
Possible answers:
- I love my mother very much, but, nevertheless, I will ask her to come less often and not criticize my wife, because this is my family and my choice
- I’ll put my wife in her place, she should respect my mother and listen to her experience!
- I am very happy when my mother comes, she cooks my favorite pancakes
Possible answers:
- I'll definitely point this out to her. Let him get in shape, I married a beautiful woman
- I’ll think about why this happened, maybe I’ll talk to her and we’ll go in for sports together. My figure is also not the limit of dreams
- There are many other beautiful women around
A friend of the editors, Alexander Tsypkin, found out what men really want.
Alexander Tsypkin
At the end of December, tired of the information wars for bourgeois assets, I decided to think about the eternal. It didn't work out. Then I thought about what I usually think about, and just Cosmo (this time my native St. Petersburg) with the sacramental question “Why are there so many single girls?”
I sat down in a rocking chair, poured kefir and insisted that girls don’t know how to properly operate such a simple mechanism as a man. As a result, the mechanism becomes unusable, and it has to be taken to the trash heap. As expected, I received the question: “What’s the right way?”
I suggested asking my friends. It is clear that only a friend or at least a comrade in his right mind would agree to such a “leaking” of valuable information. I chose completely different occupations, but most importantly - those who are smarter and more charismatic than me. This turned out to be a complete notebook. Cosmo cut it a little and it turned out to be 12.
I’ve known some for 20 years, some for 1 year, but everyone answered frankly, cheerfully and intelligibly. Each has its own theme. Twelve short interviews. Not a Newton binomial, but there are some useful tips
Giuliano Di Capua
director, actor
If a man has an important performance ahead of him, how exactly should he wish him good luck?
In my case, I need to take a rag, help wash the stage, put up posters and charm officials from the Ministry of Culture before the start of the performance.
Should a woman come to her man's performance?
Necessarily! Moreover, she must look the most beautiful of all and be sure to cause some kind of scandal in the buffet, or better yet at the entrance, in order to attract the attention of the entire street.
If a man succeeds, how to congratulate him correctly?
Drink with him in tears of emotion on the bridge in the rain.
If nothing works out, how to properly support?
Drown in tears of emotion on the bridge in the rain.
Can good sex ease the pain of defeat?
What happens to bad sex?
If a man doesn't pay attention to a girl a week before an important day at work, does that mean that work is the most important thing to him?
This is already a question of her creative approach to attracting attention to her person.
Should men be allowed not to answer calls during times of difficulty at work?
A man has the right not to answer the call at any time, but the main thing is that a woman is strictly forbidden to pick up our phone and rummage through it.
If a man says that his manager is an idiot, should he immediately agree?
No, not necessarily. I like it when the opposing fans cheer me on. It even turns me on.
Why is it important for a man to win? The meaning of life is development, and development is always
victory over the past, old and outdated.
What should you never say in case of failure?
At this moment, the main thing is not to bother you with other small claims. For the question “Why didn’t you clean your shoes,” we can throw you off the bridge, despite the tears of tenderness.
If a girl sees that a man is about to make what she thinks is a big professional mistake, how can she tell us about it?
So that we do not notice, but hear.
Victor Shkipin
Marketing Director, Alfa Bank; Director of the Alfa Future People Festival
Is it good when a girl earns money? What if more than a man?
This is just wonderful! Firstly, a man stops constantly bothering himself with “is she with me, because I’m going in this configuration or maybe I’m still a good person?” Secondly, it’s easier for a woman: when she is independent, she reveals herself differently in relationships. Thirdly, a man can relax and not work “with his back against the wall” in order to feed his family, but find something he likes. True, it’s a test when a woman earns twice as much more than a man, - here a woman somehow needs to behave carefully and wisely. Otherwise, you can scare everyone away.
Is the question “Where did you put your salary?” annoying?
I don't know, I've never heard of it. How-how does that sound?
If you find a wallet on the street together, whose money is it?
Naturally, the owner of the wallet. Find and please. If your lady invites you to appropriate them, this is a reason to think hard about her moral and volitional qualities. Do you need this?
Is it immoral and inhumane for a girl to cheat on a man with a richer male?
If it’s with the poor, then everything is clear - charity. Not subject to tax. But if with a rich man... and how much “richer”? Kidding. Only stupid men think that a woman cheated on you “with a rich man.” To create a family with someone who is richer is, yes, an instinct. And about the betrayal... Most likely, she was attracted by something else - charisma, confidence, lightness. Actually, the same thing that attracted money to him. Cultivate these qualities in yourself, and your lady will remain yours. And then, you see, money will follow.
Is it true that libido and the amount of money are inversely proportional?
Just not “backwards”, but “directly”, and here we return to the first question again! Of course, when your girlfriend (and especially your wife) makes good money, she becomes more attractive!
Do men love it when a woman gives them expensive gifts?
It depends on whose expense the banquet is. It doesn’t take much intelligence to go out and buy an expensive gift with your own money. In general, it's the other way around. Smart men love expensive, in the sense of “personal” gifts. So that with soul. And if a man is wealthy, then you definitely won’t surprise him with money. And it's not worth trying.
Should a woman know exactly how much a man earns?
It depends. If the wife is an experienced wife, most likely yes, this will help her look at things more realistically, both at her own needs and at her husband’s fantasies. Two heads are better. In the meantime, it’s not a wife, it’s better not to worry about it, there must remain some kind of mystery in a man!
Why do we earn money? What's in it for us?
Wow. A good question to clarify for your man. It’s clear that if you ask him directly, he will fuss and get off with general phrases. Don't listen, try to understand by his actions. Look at what’s in the medical history too. How he disposed of what he had already earned or stolen. Kidding. Of course it's earned. And you will understand everything yourself.
Konstantin Krutilnikov
lawyer, senior partner of the law firm "S&K Vertical"
If a man doesn’t propose to a woman, then he’s just very busy and needs to wait ten years? Or if he hasn’t done it in a year, it means he’ll never do it? Perhaps he is waiting for a woman to propose to him?
Lately, I have increasingly heard stories of women starting families. But seriously, then, of course, men understand that marriage is serious and long-lasting, where the family begins, that is where it ends, which is then so pleasant to remember in male company.
Many men get married because it’s just time?
The true reasons for marriage may be different, but in a sober mind and rationality you do it because you either love a person, or you have come to understand your main male mission.
What does a stamp in a passport mean for a man? How much does our attitude towards a woman change after the speeches of the aunt from the registry office?
Everything finally changes after the aunt’s speeches from the Baby Palace; after the registry office there are still some chances that in the near future everything will be the same. It is the birth of a child that makes a family real with all that it entails.
If a woman has had more than three husbands, does this cause some concern in a man?
We need to gather more information and take a look at these men. If they are alive, of course. It is also important to know how you went divorce proceedings and who ended up with nothing in the end.
If a woman offers to sign a marriage contract for a man, do we consider her cynical, calculating and inhuman?
I have a different attitude to this as a lawyer and as a man. In the first case, I will be pleasantly surprised by the woman’s advancement and, moreover, I will support such an initiative; in the second, our relationship is unlikely to continue.
For woman The best way getting a stamp in her passport - constantly saying that she doesn’t want this?
I agree. It is the girls who have chosen such tactics who achieve their cherished goal. We are attracted to what is not visible or inaccessible, this is true in everything, and in relationships first of all.
Vyacheslav Malafeev
Goalkeeper of FC Zenit, owner of the M16 Real Estate company
Please explain to the woman why we are interested in watching the entire match, and not just finding out the result?
Because you can discuss with your friends why this “crooked-armed” one didn’t catch or this “one-legged” one didn’t score.
How should a woman behave if her husband’s favorite team loses?
Humbly, as if she herself had messed up that day.
Should a woman go to football if a man goes there with friends?
Well, if a woman wants to see her man on this day, it’s better to go.
Does a woman have the right to support Brazil if her man supports Germany?
Yes, because disputes and showdowns always lead to pleasant reconciliation.
Is admiring the beautiful figures of football players adultery on the part of a woman?
Men have their own views on such issues: if he watches films for adults, this is normal. But wives admiring the figures of football players is practically treason.
Is it possible to ask to buy a new fur coat after the victory of your home team? If so, for how long after the final whistle?
Yes, if only he is a player of the national team that won the World Cup. Then you can ask for more than just a fur coat.
If the World Cup final and the first episode of the new season of Sex and the City are on the same day, where should a woman watch the series - at her mother’s or at her friend’s?
My husband should buy a second TV!
Is it worth giving a man a scarf of his favorite team for the New Year?
Yes, but only together with a gift certificate for visiting the sauna with friends.
What if a man doesn’t like football? Should we think about his sexuality?
Then he must love hockey!
Alexey Romeo
one of the best DJs in Russia
Is it true that for a man, sex for love is not much different from just sex?
This may be true for some, but definitely not for me. Sex with the person you love is not even close to regular sex.
What to do if a man does not want to use a condom? How to convince him?
It’s colorful to describe to him all your seven beautiful children shouting “Daddy!”
What do we think of a woman who says she won't perform oral sex on us?
Option 1. For now, we occupy a very insignificant place in this woman’s life, and she does not take seriously what is happening between you at the moment.
Option 2. The woman is not a fan of this process at all, and this is even worse than option number 1...
How to explain to a man that he does everything wrong in bed?
To say that he is magnificent and original in bed. And that he is the best thing that has ever happened to you sexually, but you want to try something different with him.
What should you not say to a man if he “failed”?
What you definitely shouldn’t say at this moment is “Are you all in agreement today?” But “Baby, you need to rest a little, let me give you a light relaxing massage” - on the contrary, the ideal words in a situation if your chosen one received serious stress at work or he liked you so much that he could not cope with his excitement and malfunctioned during sex.
Can a man have a “headache”?
Certainly! Contrary to stereotypes, men, just like women, may sometimes not want sex. But, if your man loves you, then the probability of this tends to zero.
Is two terabytes of porn on a man's computer a sign of his deep inner world or is this normal?
There is, of course, nothing scary about this. But, it seems to me, this suggests that he lacks something in sex with you, and you should carefully bring him into an honest and open conversation.
How to explain to a man that a threesome violates your personal space?
Offer a threesome, but with another man, and at the same time check how your chosen one treats you. If he doesn't care, he'll happily invite a friend.
Mikhail Petrov
Vice President of the Group of Companies and public organizations veterans of the Airborne Forces and special forces "Association named after Margelov"; member of the board of directors of a construction company
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Is it true that men have no fear of loneliness, and we can easily live alone?
You can live alone without any problems, but a man is a man because a woman exists.
Is it true that even the most strong men don’t like it when their women get into conflict out of nowhere and then the man has to sort it out?
That's for sure. The best fight is the one that didn’t happen, so a man should think about the safety of his loved ones, and not about who told him what somewhere. The safety of your loved ones is the only thing that matters.
What do you think is the biggest myth about men's fears among women?
That all men are afraid of embarrassing themselves in bed.
Isn't this a man's biggest fear?
What kind of fear is this if basically everyone thinks that they are the best in bed, and all the problems are in a woman who supposedly did not arouse her as expected. Self-confident and narcissistic idiots. They're really afraid. A normal person certainly thinks about this issue, but is not afraid.
Is it true that many men are afraid to enter into relationships because they are simply afraid of long and difficult separations later?
No... Rather, they are afraid of long and difficult relationships.
They say there is no greater fear for a man than the dentist. Should a wife hold her husband's hand when he goes to the dentist or is it better to have a topless nurse?
Better yet, two more injections of novocaine, and let the dentist do his job.
What do you think men fear most when they get old?
Awareness of a meaninglessly wasted life, and, more down to earth, being poor and sick.
Is it possible to say something about a man's character if he has not undergone serious life tests?
Trials make a man better, but more difficult. But it happens that they can make a bastard out of a man. Nevertheless, not everyone faces trials, and we need to look for someone who behaves with dignity in everyday life, and not wait until the test overtakes us.
Alexey Yagudin
Olympic champion in figure skating
Who chooses which country to go on vacation?
It should always be a compromise. For example, we recently decided where to go: I wanted to go to Thailand, and my wife wanted to go to France, so we came to a compromise and chose France.
If a man wants to sleep and a woman wants to go on an excursion, how to solve the problem?
I don’t know how it is in other families, neither my wife nor I are interested in museums on vacation - and this is the key to a good vacation. Unfortunately, museums require a vertical position for visitors, while we prefer a horizontal position.
Is there a force that can force a man not to look at topless vacationers?
No, there was not and there will not be.
Can our companion walk on the beach without the top of her swimsuit?
We are the owners, so we will most likely object.
Why does a man even go on vacation?
Personally, I'm only going because my wife is tired and wants to go on vacation.
Should a man sometimes be left alone on vacation?
If you remove the word vacation from this question, then this question turns into a statement.
If a man spends his entire vacation reading a book, does this mean that he is not interested in the girl?
This question alarmed me! Because my wife spends her entire vacation reading. I'll have to ask her.
Is it true that all men dream of sex on the beach?
On the beach in the Maldives - perhaps, not sure about the beaches of the Rybinsk Reservoir.
Do men want thousands of vacation photos?
It seems to me that it is better to take several good photographs, and then their value will immediately increase.
Who should monitor whether the passport, tickets, etc. are taken?
A woman, of course!
What irritates you on vacation?
1. Not exactly cultured compatriots.
2. Their number.
3. Meeting them again on the way home.
How many days of a five-day vacation can a woman spend on shopping?
With me - an hour. Without me as long as you like.
What is the best thing for a woman not to take with her on vacation, so as not to ruin it for a man?
Large quantity suitcases.
Artem Balaev
general producer of the International Fashion Week in St. Petersburg AURORA FASHION WEEK Russia and the largest gastronomic festival in Russia “ODA!” FOOD!"
Who decides whether a woman is well dressed, her man or herself?
I think that other women decide whether a woman is well dressed, so it’s better for us men not to get involved in this issue.
The woman “all in leopard” is...
This is part of my life. A simple everyday scene in the kitchen.
Why can underwear with fluff or gold leaf lead to divorce or decreased libido?
Fluff and gilding and other vicious wardrobe items are no longer in trend.
Should you take a man with you to a fashion show?
You just need to, before inviting a man to a fashion show, clarify whether it is a men's or women's clothing show.
Is it true that skinny models are not a sex symbol for 90 percent of men?
It’s hard to say, I’ve never been interested in models in this sense, perhaps because they were always around...
Do men understand why two pairs of shoes are not enough?
Shoes are the sexiest item in a woman's wardrobe. Of course not enough!
Why is it a bad idea to ask if a dress fits after you've already bought it?
At least in some ways, a man always wants to be honest and sincere, so we often answer the question “does the dress suit” not the way a woman would like.
How important is a woman's taste in clothing to a man?
For me, a woman’s taste in clothes is even more important than her appearance, because sometimes a good frame saves a not-so-outstanding picture in the interior.
Why are rhinestones on nails a crime?
Rhinestones are a crime on any part female body!
Do men like to give women clothes?
I have a note with my girlfriend’s measurements collecting dust on my iPhone, but I don’t risk using it. Because it's better not to.
How exactly should a woman explain that she doesn’t like the way a man is dressed?
There are issues that men would be happy to get away with, such as the way they dress. So don't hesitate to give recommendations.
Vladimir Morev
urologist-andrologist of the highest category, chief physician of the International Center for Reproductive Medicine
Is it true that if a man’s temperature rises to 36.9, everyone in the household should mourn and prepare for the worst?
If the “patient” is not a complete hypochondriac, he most likely will not notice such a temperature. And in the case when the mercury rose above 37, those around you should be understanding.
How should a woman behave so that a man recovers faster?
There is no other way than to surround a man with care and affection. And it is also necessary to provide the patient with delicious meals, plenty of fluids and a warm bed.
If the illness is really serious, how can you force a man to go to the doctor, follow his instructions and take everything prescribed?
If the patient has already realized that the matter is serious, he will run like a sweetheart: he will hand over everything that is needed, he will measure everything that is needed, he will accept everything that is needed.
What is more harmful - lack of sleep or over-drinking?
Lack of sleep from binge drinking is probably the worst thing.
Is it true that to be healthy, a man should have sex at least two to three times a week?
If a magazine clipping with my answer is hung over the family bed as an argument against headaches, then yes, three times at least, more often is better. But seriously, if a man has sex “for health”, I can’t help him, other specialists do this.
If a man was about to conquer Everest without being prepared to climb to the fifth floor, how exactly should he be dissuaded?
There is no need to dissuade us, the main thing for us is to see the goal. And there resources will be found, a second wind will open, and any peaks will be conquered.
Which doctors do men fear the most?
As both a man and a doctor, I am wary of the incompetent. And the rating, according to my observations, is something like this: dentist, urologist, obstetrician in the maternity ward at the very moment when the wife gives birth.
Is it true that almost any problem with potency is curable and you shouldn’t abandon a man after the first failure?
I will answer seriously: modern medicine can solve almost any problem with potency.
Does a nurse suit work better than Viagra?
But this question is worthy of clinical research!
Alexander Belkovich
brand chef Ginza Project
Is it true that men look for a cook first of all in a woman, and only then a mistress?
Of course yes, especially some time after the relationship. But in my case it's the other way around!
Can men eat the same thing for a whole year if they like it?
They can! But it’s better to sometimes alternate potatoes with pasta.
How to get a man to wash the dishes?
Say that after washing the dishes there will be dessert, or even better, sex.
If you send a man to the grocery store, will he definitely buy the wrong thing?
I don't agree. The main thing is to provide the correct input data.
The best lover is a hungry lover. So?
Absolutely not. But still, it’s better not to overeat.
Is it true that if a man doesn't like fried potatoes, he's either a serial killer or a wimp?
That's for sure! A normal guy should love fried potatoes. If he doesn’t love you, he’s either a bore or crazy!
What is the right way to ask him not to cook this favorite salad of his anymore, because even the dog refuses to eat it?
I'm cynical about this. We must say it straight.
If a man gave you a frying pan, does this mean that he has a mistress?
This is a good sign. This means that he is counting on something more than sex, and it certainly does not mean that he has taken a mistress.
Should a woman drinking beer from a bottle on the street be burned at the stake?
If it’s near a metro station, it’s not pretty, and it’s unlikely to look attractive to people like me. And if she drinks wine from a bottle in beautiful dress and wearing heels is cool.
Is watching cooking shows the same as visiting your mother-in-law?
In my case this is great! I love watching cooking shows, and my mother-in-law is awesome.
Alexander Malich
TV presenter, radio host, journalist, TEFI laureate
Should a woman love a man's mother more than all her relatives combined?
Of course not, but: if the husband’s family has a big business built on the principle of matriarchy, then it should. There is definitely nothing for the faithful in this structure, but she is investing in her own leadership position!
If a man's mother behaves in a young couple's apartment like Obama did in Libya, how should a woman protect her rights?
Consider an alliance with other "oppressed" leaders (for example, the wife of her husband's brother). It is possible to involve lobbyists in the form of a husband, as well as the organization of a “fifth column”. The father-in-law is recruited as a leader. Depending on the specific conditions, the father-in-law and husband may change roles. It is important not to lead to sanctions.
Should a woman complain to a man’s mother about a man and report all his misdeeds?
This tactic may lead to short-term gains, but there is bound to be a sudden and dramatic rebound.
Does knowing your mother mean a woman’s right to jointly acquired property?
No for property, but there is a chance that after meeting my mother she will never see either property or her fiancé again.
How to tell a man that meeting his mother is not the limit of a woman’s dreams?
It's better than nothing at all. Unless you already have plans to meet another man’s mother that evening.
What should a woman do if the man’s mother doesn’t love her very much?
Be glad that a man loves her. Now, if he doesn’t really love you, then you can start asking yourself the question: “Why am I such a fool, I got the wrong one again?”
If a man doesn’t want to introduce a woman to her mother, who is he most likely afraid of upsetting—the woman or the mother?
He is afraid of upsetting himself. Their friendship could end both football and the bathhouse.
If a man's mother asks him to correct something about that same man, should he listen to her?
Listen - yes, correct - no. It may turn out to be ideal, but it is difficult to make claims against it.
The phrase “he makes a lousy husband,” said by a man’s mother, always means “I think you make a lousy wife for my son”?
No, it means “Let's have a drink.”
Dmitry Filatov
Founder and CEO of the international dating service TOPFACE
When meeting a man, what does he pay attention to first of all: how is she dressed, what is her breast size, has her nails been done, does she speak competently, how old is she?
In fact, it doesn’t matter what someone pays attention to when meeting you average man. One of my friends paid attention exclusively to the shape of his teeth, for example. It is important what those men who are interested in you need. If you need an intellectual, he will pay attention to intelligence.
If a man meets a woman at a club and doesn't call the next day, does that mean she's an ugly loser?
If this is a one-time story, then most likely you have come across an idiot who lost your (or his!) phone, forgot your name, etc.
At what second of an acquaintance should a woman announce that she is looking for a man for marriage and Serious relationships?
Purely from a resource-saving point of view, the best tactic is to state your intentions immediately after sharing basic information.
If a man calls you for coffee, do you need to go straight to his house?
A significant number of attractive men date solely for sex, and the easiest way to find out is to go to their home and have sex. But after that they will disappear.
Should a woman in a relationship be required to set the status to “in a relationship”?
Certainly! This is the same quick way convey to all the envious bitches that you have finally found a man! The highest achievement, of course, is for him to do it himself on his page.
How should a woman behave if she discovered her husband’s profile on a dating site for casual sex?
Create a profile for yourself with naughty photos from the Internet and chat with your husband. If you have enough patience and faith in his future correction, you can get a lot of pleasure and discourage your husband from looking for love on the side for many years.
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Having become acquainted with the characteristics of an ideal husband, it is not difficult to determine how much your husband meets your expectations. According to surveys conducted by sociologists among women 20-50 years old, an ideal husband should have the following character qualities:
Responsibility, if he promised something, he will definitely fulfill it;
- determination, he does not go with the flow, but always tries to achieve more than what he has;
- he is kind and caring, treats his wife with respect and never forgets to give her gifts for the holidays;
- knows how to control himself, does not get lost in the face of difficulties;
- he is not greedy, he does not ask his wife to account for where she spends the money;
He loves his children and believes in them, and is ready to invest in their hobbies with money;
- he is smart, knows the answers to all questions and gives the right advice;
- he does not cheat or upset his wife with bad behavior;
It’s always interesting to be with him, he knows how to defuse the situation with an appropriate joke;
- he avoids quarrels and scandals, does not shout to prove that he is right;
- he never refuses to help his wife if her requests are appropriate;
- he is able to cook, do laundry, wash dishes and keep the house in order on his own, but does not take on everything women's responsibilities around the house, but only helps her if necessary.
Having general idea of an ideal husband it is not difficult to determine what kind of husband you have and how much he corresponds to an ideal that does not exist, but which all women dream of. To determine whether your husband is a good husband or not, answer the questions below and count the number of points next to the answers you chose:
1. Your husband promised you that you will go on vacation with the whole family to Turkey., summer has come and soon you will have to go on vacation, and at this time:
- you have no doubt that you will go to Turkey - 3 points;
- you think that you will not go to Turkey, most likely you will have to relax where trips are cheaper - 2 points;
- you are sure that your husband will change his plans and you will not go anywhere - 0 points.
2. Your husband usually gives you:
- souvenirs, perfumes, manicure set and others pleasant trifles- 0 points;
- jewelry and clothes - 3 points;
- flowers - 1 point.
3. During a quarrel, the husband:
- threatens divorce - 1 point;
- reproaches you and calls you a lazy person, a spendthrift and a parasite - 0 points;
- silent or advised not to start again - 3 points.
4. When saying goodbye to you, before leaving for work or somewhere else, your husband:
- kisses you - 3 points;
- picks up the trash can - 0 points;
- reminds you what you need to do and says “Bye” - 2 points.
5. The screen saver on his phone is:
- nature landscape or beautiful drawing- 0 points;
- your photo or photo of your son (daughter) - 2 points;
- a photo of a cool car that he dreams of buying - 2 points.
6. You spent a large amount of money from the family budget without your husband’s permission, after your husband found out about it:
- will remain silent, pretending that nothing happened - 3 points;
- reminds you that you have agreed that you will not spend common money in secret from each other - 2 points;
- will make a scandal and take the common money away from you - 0 points.
7. You told your husband about your problems at work, to which he said:
- why are you telling me this, I still can’t help you - 0 points;
- don’t be upset, everything will be fine, you just need to pay less attention to the antics of some employees - 2 points;
- advises you to quit and offers help to find a quieter job - 3 points.
8. When you come to visit friends or relatives who have children, husband:
- always plays with them - 3 points;
- does not pay any attention to children - 0 points;
- says they are very cute - 1 point.
9. Imagine, your husband won one million rubles in the lottery, when he learned about it, he immediately calls:
- and invites you to think about where you will spend it - 2 points;
- mother, whom he always helps - 2 points;
- to a friend to show off - 1 point.
10. In your opinion, what your husband loves most is:
- play sports - 1 point;
- their children - 2 points;
- beautiful girls, he is a real womanizer - 0 points.
If your amount is equal to:
0 - 10 points, then you are lucky with your husband. He is a charming, purposeful and successful man. His only drawback is that he rarely helps you around the house, confident that a man should provide for his family, and cooking, washing and tidying up the house is not a man’s job.
11 - 18 points, then your husband is an ordinary family man. You can talk to him on any topic, he will always understand and support you. What is he like? good father, you can leave your children with him at any time and for any period of time. True, he doesn’t earn very much and gets offended when you complain about the lack of money.
19 - 30 points, then you and your husband are never bored or scared. Next to him you always feel weak and are confident that he will always protect you and will never leave you alone in trouble. There is only one thing that upsets you about him - he works hard to provide you with a luxurious life and is rarely at home, and you really want to watch TV with him or just lie down, feeling a strong shoulder next to you.
Husbands are truly great people. What a pity that good spouses don't grow on trees. If your significant other does these 13 things, then you can consider yourself the luckiest woman who got the best husband in the world.
He regularly wins your heart
Such a gentleman takes care of his wife: gives her flowers, invites her on dates, arranges romantic surprises. An ideal husband understands that it is not enough to win a woman once. And he shows her his love every day.
Spouses should be for each other not only cohabitants and lovers, but also faithful advisers. If the husband really trusts his wife’s opinion, then the choice in his favor was made correctly. No, we are not talking about keeping your lover “under your thumb.” But making important decisions together is a valuable opportunity in a family.
He praises you in front of his friends
Has your spouse ever told his friends how lucky he is to have his wife? Perhaps you just haven't heard it. After all, an ideal husband would not necessarily say such things in public. But you can be sure that something like this will come out of his mouth. 
He lowers the toilet lid
There is nothing worse than banal everyday problems. Therefore, it will not be difficult for a good spouse to remember some simple rules so as not to upset you. After all, it only takes a couple of seconds to lower the toilet lid.
He holds your hand
It doesn't matter where you're going - to visit your parents, to a restaurant, or just to the store, for real loving husband rank will squeeze your palm tightly. In this way he shows his concern. 
He's not into pornography
For best husband you will be the only one attractive woman. So forget about dreams of an ideal spouse if he regularly reviews erotic magazines.
He puts up with your temper once a month
Whatever you are loving wife, periodically you turn into an evil beast. After all, no one has canceled hormonal explosions. A good husband understands this.
He helps you with household chores
If a man values and respects his woman, then he will not make her a housekeeper. He realizes that you are also tired at work, and therefore he will always help with cleaning, laundry or other matters. Moreover, with a joint effort, homework will be completed faster, and perhaps there will even be time left for a romantic evening. 
He laughs with you
What could be better than having fun together? It's so great when you both laugh at the same things. This brings you closer and makes you appreciate your partner even more. And even if the whole world doesn’t understand you, the main thing is that you feel good together.
He is the support of his family
It is difficult for an ideal spouse to give his all at work, but he does it for the sake of those who are waiting for him at home. Such a man never stops putting maximum effort into any task.
He always eats what you cook
Even if you are far from a chef, a loving husband will eat the dinner offered to him with a smile on his face. He will never let on that the food was tasteless. 
He develops his relationship with God
No, you are not required to marry a priest. But for good husband It will only be a plus if he recognizes the power of the Almighty.
He's trying to be better for you.
Even if your husband is far from perfect, this is not a reason not to consider him the best in the world. If a man constantly works on himself to become better for his woman, then he deserves this title.
