Avoid obsessive thoughts and thoughts.  Of course, both men and women are subject to unrest. The difference is that a woman will think for a long time about the source of excitement, and a man will soon forget about the problem. This behavior applies to romantic relationships, family problems, and turmoil at work. Only worry about what you are responsible for and can control. If you cannot take action in the allotted time, postpone the problem until better times. Avoid unnecessary thought.

Show independence. Most men like to be cared for, but they want to be sure that their woman can stand up for herself if necessary. Men are not such sentimental creatures and are not able to provide proper emotional support. This can only be done by women. Show independence. Show that you can solve problems at work and in communication. You can understand a man’s notion of freedom only when you demonstrate to surrounding men that you value your freedom highly.

Show physical interest.  Touching is the surest way to show a man his intentions. No matter how contradictory it may seem, a normal man is equally interested in the emotional side of physical contact and directly in physical contact. It is easier for men to distribute the physical and emotional aspect of the relationship, but at the same time they tend to demonstrate their affection through physical intimacy. If you show interest in the same way, the man will perceive it as a signal to physical contact.

• Not every man responds to touch, so before you touch a man, you need to watch his reaction. In addition, your touch should not go beyond your relationship. If you are just friends with this person and do not have romantic feelings for him, it is better to avoid hugs and kisses.

Pay less attention to appearance.  Some men care about their appearance. Even they can have their own ideal of beauty. But at the same time, it’s not their nature to spin in front of a mirror and worry about every little thing. That is why it is difficult for men to understand a woman when she does so. To think in masculine principles, try not to think about your appearance every time you notice minor imperfections in your body.

Less worry about everyday relationships.  Men appreciate normal relations with people who are close in spirit to them. In a work environment or everyday situation, men are not so worried about the problem of mutual understanding. In women, the opposite is true. The next time you notice that a waiter in a cafe or an employee is staring at you, turn your back and leave with your head held high. Try not to think about the cause of the conflict and not take what is happening too close to your heart. Do not let negative emotions influence events in your life.

How you want to fall in love with yourself and fall in love. Is there anything in a woman’s behavior that makes men fall in love with her and think about the woman constantly.  How does a man fall in love with a woman? Will he fall in love with the one he remembers once a week or less? Not. For a man to fall in love, he must constantly think about the woman. All his thoughts are focused on her. Even if he is busy with something important, thoughts still flow smoothly to the woman.

How to achieve this? To call, write, constantly flicker in his field of vision? Such behavior will cause irritation rather than romantic feelings. It is necessary to create a special atmosphere in which a man constantly dreams of a woman.

Women's secrets

To make a man puzzle, you need to create an intrigue. This is the cornerstone. Without this, nothing will work. Intrigue is a powerful means of “falling in love” with a man, tested by years of experience of past generations. Any format is suitable: in correspondence, in plans for the next weekend or for a year. You can even tell him something like: “I got you through! You really are not who you claim to be! ” Naturally, two questions immediately arise in his head for whom I impersonate and who I really am, which he will certainly voice. At this point, you need to gently get away from the answer. To say that now she’s very busy and will tell you everything at the next meeting.

A man has a mini-explosion in his head at this moment. He does not know what to think. And begins to think about a woman. What did she understand when, why, and what will happen now.

They say that a woman must have a riddle. This is actually so. You do not need to open your soul to a man from the first minutes. Leave hidden, dark corners. And if it so happened that from the very beginning it was not possible to maintain the intrigue, then "hide" and move away to a respectful distance. Play with him like a cat with a mouse, now approaching, then moving away.

The second point is not to let the man get fed up. A woman should be a little missed. When a woman devotes all her time to a man, gives out maximum information about herself, her family and her pet, a man eats it with pleasure if he is in love. But after a very short period of time, he is fed up. Yes, he enjoyed communication, examined and tried the woman from different angles, satisfied his curiosity. And that is all. He does not need more.

And if there are small portions, then I want more and more. After a small piece, there remains a feeling of hunger, slight dissatisfaction. And the man reaches for the supplement. One must learn to slip away in time, to disappear from his field of vision. To make him hungry a little and miss you.

For example, we simulate such a situation. A date, not the first, but one of the first. Perhaps the third or fourth. At the height of the evening, you are interesting, fun with each other, do not want to interrupt communication and end the meeting. And suddenly the woman says: “Dear, I'm sorry, I need to leave. Urgent affairs ... Everything was wonderful! Thank you for a gorgeous evening! ” And the woman leaves. What does the man feel at this moment? He is bewildered, he does not know what to think, how to react. Again, the “Cinderella effect” works. And in the end, he spends the rest of the evening alone, scrolling through the events of the date in his head, and constantly thinks about the woman.

The man is even more intrigued and completely confused in the networks of a woman.

It is clear that I want to stay with him, to spend more time. But you need to overpower yourself. Running away from him, a woman provokes a chase, a hunt. A man, as you know, is a hunter by nature. And easy prey is not interesting to him. The more he runs after a woman, the more he will appreciate her. And in the power of every woman to provoke this pursuit.

The problem of many women

One of the most common problems is this. A woman is completely dissolved in the chosen one, gives him all of herself, her energy. The man at this moment is good and comfortable, but bored. Hence the lack of initiative. Gifts, courtship. Why would he strain if a woman already belongs to him.

You can not concentrate on a man completely and completely. There should be a place in life for other things: friends, work, hobbies and so on. All these things are a rescue cable from a whirlpool. It is holding onto them that a woman has a chance not to drown in love and not to drown. There are many wonderful things in life besides relationships. And for them you need to hold on by all means. Love sucks, but life should not revolve exclusively around this feeling.

We learn not to stick on a man and not to become addicted to him.

Always happy to help you become happier.

With love,

Irina Gavrilova Dempsey

Women are beautiful creatures without which the Universe would not be possible. Then why are men generally more successful? Why are there so many of them in politics, business and other areas? Why are even the most attractive and smart women who are often lonely and can not find a common language with any fan? Everything is simple - they do not know how to think like a man.

To begin to think like men, it is necessary to begin to find out what they are thinking about and at least remotely understand their logic and psychology. To do this, we will understand the most frequent female stereotypes.

Stereotypes

• Insensitive men - do you think so too? Well, of course, this is not him, but a girlfriend can still notice from afar that you feel sad at heart, that something happened. Moreover, until you tell your own husband about it, he will not even notice. Maybe this is so, but this does not mean that he is insensitive. Remember, men do not respond to facial expressions, do not try to read your thoughts, and their intuition is much less developed. He needs to say directly about what exactly is happening in your head, why you are worried. Then only he will understand everything.
• Men do not listen - do you want to think like a real man? Then understand one thing for yourself - women speak simply in order to chat and, knowing this, they often do not listen carefully to us. The purpose of a conversation between men is to solve problems. You have no problem? Then after 3 minutes, your beloved will stop listening to you.
• Men do not notice anything - yes, men are not as good as we notice small details. It is unlikely that he will ever say to you: “Oh, pale pink lipstick fits your shoes more than pale lilac!” If he noticed your new hairstyle - you already have a reason for joy.
• Men are very slow - you think: “I am torn into hundreds of parts, but I manage to do everything, and he is not able to nail one regiment in half a day!” Want to understand how to think like a man, come to terms with the fact that a woman’s brain is programmed to do several things at once. Among men, you will not meet such an ability. The one exception was Julius Caesar. You can make a cake and at the same time help your child do his homework. If you approach your beloved when he shaves and asks any question, then most likely he will either not hear you, focusing on his lesson, or cut himself.
• Men are too silent - men cannot instantly find new topics for conversation. This may be due to the fact that parents usually talk with girls more and more often.
• Men are unemotional - believe me, this is not so. Each representative of the stronger sex wants to seem strong and confident, to feel like a master of the situation. To do this, he puts on a mask of indifference and dispassion. At the same time, such storms can rage in his soul that you cannot even imagine. How to think like a man? If you begin to hide all your emotions, you will be very similar to him.

Male thinking

• Women are no less talented than men. Then why are they more likely to succeed than us? Because they are committed to success, they always think about achieving high social status, power and promotion on the career ladder.
• In each of them is a small child. It is hidden under the mask of a stoic. In order not to lose money, pamper him at least occasionally and encourage him. Think like him. Do not think all day just about household chores and problems at work. Remember that you need to relax from time to time.
• Approve your man, always thank him for the gifts. Do not take the services that he provides you for granted.
• If a man finds himself on an unfamiliar street, he will not be too lazy to go the extra distance to find the right house, but the woman in his place will immediately ask passers-by how to get to the right place.
• A man is afraid of losing his own dignity, so never hit him in his self-esteem.
• You always come up with several options with which you can solve the problem. He believes that your several options make his personal decision wrong.
• He does not know how to think in several directions at the same time. He is more straightforward. Do not jump sharply from one topic to another, otherwise it will be completely confused. The stronger sex reflects silently about one thing.

And the last piece of advice: be a woman, think like a man and you will have no equal!