Falling in love... Finally, you have met the very man you dreamed of. You met quite recently and still cannot understand whether problems can arise between you. serious relationship, or is it just a passerby who will leave only light memories. Is it possible to determine for sure how interested he is in continuing a relationship with you? Perhaps he fell in love with you at first sight, or perhaps he just decided to pass the time next to a pretty girl, and will leave your life without regrets? I would like to know... not just I would like, but it is very important to know this!
After all, you don’t want to end up with a broken trough, or rather, with a broken heart, when you open up to a man, like morning flower, he breaks you off and... immediately forgets. In order not to tear the hair on our chests out of despair later, let’s not be fools, first we’ll make sure that he’s in love, and then we’ll see how much we can open up to him and whether it’s even worth giving in to his hands ahead of time.
By the way, in addition to love and lust, there is another level of relationship between a man and a woman - friendship. Maybe you interested your new acquaintance, but not as a woman, but as an interesting person. This is not the worst option, but quite acceptable, since unions in which there are common interests produce quite strong families. It’s just that in this case you will have to try a little for friendship to grow into love. But this is no more complicated than a banal physiological passion, which quickly arises in a man and passes just as quickly if the girl was unable to awaken in him an interest of a higher order. Although here we must also take into account that love for a man does not mean the same thing as for a girl.
12 signs that a man is in love
1. When he sees you he smiles. In general, a man may be embarrassed to openly express his feelings, especially in front of strangers. Therefore, it may not be an open wide smile, but a “smile with the eyes”, when when you appear, the expression on his face changes - it becomes kinder, and a sparkle appears in his eyes.
2. You constantly catch his eye on you. A man in love cannot look enough at his beloved, “he eats her with his eyes.” He wants to admire every feature of his beloved face, every curve of the body. He may pretend to look away, but his gaze returns to you again and again, as if you are a magnet and he is a compass needle.
3. He listens to you as if the fate of all humanity depends on your every word.. By the way, don’t flatter yourself, it’s quite possible that he ignores your words, enjoying your voice.
4. Instead of the words “I” and “you”, he often uses “we”. For example, he asks not “When will I see you?”, but “When will we meet again?” Not “I want to watch this movie,” but “Let’s watch this movie.”
5. He doesn't see you the way you see yourself in the mirror.. You've probably heard the expression that lovers wear “rose-colored glasses.” This is true. Let's say you didn't get enough sleep and say, “I have dark circles under the eyes”, if he is in love, he may well be surprised, because he really doesn’t see them! As well as the shortcomings of your figure, and some skin problems, if any.
6. He is delicate in his statements and is afraid of offending you. For example, if you have a problem with weight, he will never say “you’re fat” or “you need to lose weight.” Most likely, he will begin to discreetly slip you books about healthy way life, articles on how to lose weight, or suggest going to the gym together.
Although there are men who, in principle, do not know what delicacy is. In this case, he may be sincerely surprised that you were offended. But if he is in love, he will try in every possible way to smooth out his mistake, for example, he will say that you are the most beautiful for him.
7. He misses you when you're apart. Maybe he tells you this every time you talk on the phone, or maybe he doesn’t. In any case, a man in love gets bored if he doesn’t see his beloved for a long time. Some will call every day, others several times a day. He will send meaningless SMS messages just to somehow maintain contact. He will count down the days and hours until you meet.
8. He worries when you feel bad. Loving man perceives the pain of his beloved woman as his own, and tries to do everything so that his beloved always feels good. If you have any troubles or are sick, the man will make every effort and find ways to fix it. He will protect you from any threat, he will help you deal with the problem and he will try to console you.
9. He's worried about you. If your date ends late in the evening, a man in love will try to take you home, and if for some reason this is impossible, he will call you a taxi and pay for your fare. If it’s frosty outside, he’ll ask: “Are you warm, girl?”
10. He brightens your life. Some cute trinkets, chocolates, flowers, air balloons, cute cards. Although, to be honest, most men don’t understand why a girl needs this and they themselves rarely realize that a man shouldn’t come to a date empty-handed. In this case, the girl should hint about it, or even say it directly, since men usually do not understand hints. If he is in love, he will draw the right conclusion and come to every date with some kind of gift.
11. He likes to spend money on you. Of course, not right away, but as your relationship develops, gifts will become more and more expensive, from to jewelry. The price of the gift depends only on his financial situation. But the point is not the price, but whether he feels pleasure when he gives you gifts, or does it in order to get your body for temporary use. Firstly, you can see it in the eyes, and secondly, if it’s not love, but lust, the man will drag you into bed immediately after you receive an expensive gift.
12. He trusts you. “Being jealous means loving”? This is only partly true. True love without trust is impossible. But there are men who have it “in their blood.” In such cases, the man suffers greatly, and yet believes your explanations. At least, he tries his best to believe.
It was a barrel of honey if your chosen one meets all these signs of a man in love. And now - a fly in the ointment.
With the development of the Internet, the man became very literate. If earlier, based on these signs, it was possible to determine for sure that a man loves, today anyone who wants to please a woman for selfish reasons can read a similar article, or even to pretend to be in love.
Therefore, girls, be careful! If a man is too perfect, do not rush to jump into bed with him. When he really loves, he will marry you first.
Men are accustomed to hiding their true feelings, so the fair sex has to wonder how their loved one treats them. A girl in love shines and blossoms, and a man tries in every way to hide his love out of fear that his feelings will be rejected. There are signs by which you can determine how a man really feels about a woman.
Signs of falling in love in men
Men show warm, tender feelings in a completely different way than women do. To recognize a man in love, you need to listen carefully to him and monitor his behavior.
He agrees with the woman
A man in love listens especially carefully to women's opinions, agrees with the woman, supports her. He is interested in everything connected with the woman he loves, including even the most insignificant moments. He is worried about every little thing concerning the object of his love. A man in love is extremely caring and sensitive. He will not ignore a single word spoken by the woman he loves. If a woman complains of a headache during a telephone conversation, a man in love can be found on her doorstep 20 minutes later with headache pills and healthy fruits.
wants to touch
A man who has special feelings for a woman is attracted to the object of love like a magnet. He is unable to cope with his uncontrollable desire to touch the woman he loves, so he tries in every possible way to “accidentally” touch the woman’s skin during a conversation or any actions performed. Most often these are innocent touches on the shoulders and wrist.
Sudden changes in mood
If a woman notices that a man often smiles in her presence, is in high spirits, jokes a lot, but as soon as she leaves for a while, everyone around her notices that he has become silent, withdrawn, even irritable, this is a sure sign that that the man is in love.
Looks intently
A man in love looks at the object of his love with a special tender gaze, full of adoration. Sometimes his eyes are full of genuine melancholy and sadness, and sometimes mischief. The pupils of a man in love dilate when he looks at the woman he loves. A woman feels the gaze directed at her even when standing with her back to the man. The man in love immediately tries to look away when she turns to him and looks into his eyes.
Carefully monitors appearance
A man in love tries to look his best and make a lasting impression on the object of his love. He is more careful, buys new, stylish things, goes to the gym, buys expensive perfume.
Starts conversations about family and children, talks about himself
A man experiencing tender feelings allows the woman he loves to violate the boundaries of his personal space and gladly lets the object of love into his life. He touches on topics with the woman he loves. Introduces family and friends.
Behavior of a man in love
Find a man in love You can tell by his behavior and gestures. A guy in love gets lost in the company of the object of his love, confuses his words, mumbles something inaudibly, becomes clumsy, or, conversely, tries to show the girl his best qualities and virtues. He strives to prove that he deserves the trust and attention of the woman he loves. A man in love is usually very generous and gives expensive gifts, buys gorgeous flowers, and takes him to good restaurants.
A woman often hears compliments addressed to her from the lips of a man in love. Identify a man in love It’s not that difficult, you just need to know the above signs.
Despite progressive feminization, the majority of the fair sex dream of love, family, children, so women often try to understand how a man in love behaves.
How does an adult loving man behave in a relationship?
Women tend to invent non-existent signs of falling in love. Many of the ladies believe that if a man loves, he behaves like a boy or a shy teenager. However, this is true only in very rare cases, since the stronger sex is more characterized by restraint and moderation in the expression of emotions. Moreover, a man’s excessive expansiveness speaks of his personal immaturity, which leads to inconstancy - today such an individual “loves” one, tomorrow – another.
But there are still signs that indicate deep feelings. First of all, these are manifestations of caring for a woman. A man in love tries with all his might to make his beloved’s life more pleasant, easier, and calmer. He may rarely give flowers and not take a lady to the movies (although these are the gestures that are most highly valued by women), but he often makes quite pragmatic gifts - he buys a food processor, washing machine, pays for car or computer repairs. A man in love - a work colleague - behaves as a mentor and assistant: he helps with mastering technology, gives advice and guides.
Of course, romantic men who shower their loved ones with roses exist, but this is such a rare phenomenon that it is not advisable to wait for which all your life, rejecting a more down-to-earth, but quite reliable gentleman. Again, it’s worth making a reservation - you shouldn’t take seriously young people in love, burning with passion. Receive from them love confessions, endless SMS and calls may be nice, but these feelings are superficial and fleeting.
An adult man behaves in a relationship as a serious and attentive person. He studies the woman he loves, her needs, and often makes plans for their future life together for many months in advance. loving person treats the whims and requests of the lady of his heart condescendingly. To please her, a fan of action films can once again watch his beloved’s favorite melodrama or bring her strawberries from a 24-hour supermarket in the middle of the night.
Sexual relationships are also a clear indicator of a man’s feelings. A loving person does not put intimacy first and does not strive to get to know his beloved faster in bed; he is able to wait and put his partner’s sexual needs above his own.
Sexual attraction can be recognized by the following signs:
all a man’s actions are aimed only at getting “compensation” in bed; a man does not hesitate to compare a woman with others, advise her to lose weight or go to a beauty salon; a person experiencing only attraction is not inclined to have long conversations, especially after sex - having received what he wants, he suddenly “remembers” about business.
Other signs indicate a man’s serious feelings:
a loving man values relationships and does not even allow the thought of affairs that could offend and alienate his beloved; a lover trusts the lady of his heart, so he is inclined to share news with her and consult; a man experiencing deep feelings wants to know more about the affairs of his beloved; The lover’s generosity extends to both the material and spiritual spheres - he spares no gifts, no time, no effort.
Sometimes women have a question: can a man in love behave aggressively? “Hits means he loves” - this attitude has been popular for many years, and even today there are both men and women who consider assault and aggression in relationships to be completely acceptable. However, aggressiveness in a loving man is permissible only when protecting his beloved from dangerous individuals.
There is a misconception that only a woman in love can be recognized. In fact, men, just like the fair sex, tend to give themselves away by behavior. Of course, the strong half of humanity tries to control themselves without showing off their true feelings. But there are a number of signs by which one can understand a man’s intentions.
1 How a man in love behaves - signs
When a man is in love, he, like women, experiences strong emotional excitement. According to psychologists, men many times stronger than women afraid of being rejected. For the stronger sex, refusal is always humiliating. Therefore, sometimes behind a mask of indifference, they hide their true feelings. Basically, only strong and self-confident men are able to quickly and decisively court the object of their love, without fear of rejection. If the man you like is not like that, you should make the first move, giving him a hint that you are ready to accept his advances. This will give him strength and confidence.
Usually a man in love tries to be visible to the object of his love, fixing his gaze on her for a long time. They try to draw attention to themselves from the woman of their dreams as often as possible. For example, they give compliments about appearance, ask questions on general topics, help her carry heavy bags or take her home. Despite the fact that the naughty hormones in the blood do not give them peace, men in the company of the girl they like feel constrained and insecure. Often this behavior leads to the woman rejecting her boyfriend. Therefore, if a man wants to be in demand among women, he should relax and begin to behave naturally in any situation. Even in a conversation with the object of his love, a man may begin to stutter and speak out of place. He may begin to nervously fiddle with the buttons on his shirt or twirl the pen in his hands. He can also suddenly fall silent during a lively conversation, when the object of his love appears. Outwardly, a man in love tries to stand out from those around him. He proudly straightens his shoulders so that his beloved can appreciate his height and strength. Even in a conversation with the object of his love, the stronger half always turns in her direction. For example, if a man was sitting sideways to a woman, he will definitely turn his body so that their eyes meet. If he does not take part in a conversation with her, he will silently look at her face, waiting for her to speak to him. A man in love always gives a lot of compliments to the object of his love. And it doesn’t matter if she has chickenpox or gets caught in the rain, he will literally praise her. However, not all men should expect an abundance of compliments. The main factor here is the upbringing of a man.
2 How does a man in love behave?
The behavior of a man in love is always characterized by increased attention to the woman of his dreams. You can understand whether a man is in love with you by paying attention to his actions and deeds.
The main signs of behavior of a man in love with you:
Desire to please - male psychology it is designed in such a way that they are ready to move mountains for the sake of the girl they like. It is noteworthy that as long as the feelings are “fresh” between the couple, the man will never feed the girl empty promises or enter into polemics with her. He will unquestioningly fulfill her wishes so as not to cause grief. The desire to be a support - a man in love will always come to the aid of the one he is in love with. For example, he will help with work, provide financial assistance or talk to neighbors who are too noisy. He is patient - men do not like women's chatter. But at first, he is ready to endure any stories about pedicures and manicures, just to have the opportunity to be nearby. Even if you are capricious in front of him, without humiliating his manhood, he will endure everything steadfastly. He is attentive - a man in love will find out your date of birth by any means and, of course, will be almost the first to congratulate you. He will like a woman in any mood - even if you are in a bad mood, he will definitely make every effort to dispel it. He is interested in the life of his chosen one - he is always aware of what is happening in her life. He closely observes the life of his beloved in order to know her tastes, preferences, character, etc. He will find her phone number and will definitely add her as a friend on social networks. Perhaps at first he will not actively communicate with her. But after a while, he will start leaving comments under her photos and sending personal messages.
In very rare cases, men begin to actively court the object of their love. At first, they prefer to take a closer look at her, to make sure whether she corresponds to his ideals. A man who takes a break usually experiences more prosaic feelings for a woman, not intending to build a relationship with her. Therefore, do not rush to blame men for being slow and lacking courage. They are people just like you and me, afraid of being rejected.
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When love penetrates the heart, the main thing for any person is the desire for the object of his love to reciprocate. Until they are together, thoughts about what he feels for her will become the most important, unfortunately, preventing him from living fully. Representatives of the fair sex, who do not want to suffer for too long, being in the dark, can use information about how men in love behave in order to use these signs to understand what he feels for her.
When a person is in love, he experiences incomparable euphoria. The whole world seems wonderful to him, he is happy about the new day, looking forward to meeting the one who made his heart beat faster. But if they're not together yet, main idea, which excites, will become “How does he feel about me?” After all, you really want the feelings to be mutual, for them to be together, but until he dares to admit it, the girl will more than once feel doubt, irritation, disappointment, timid hope and despair, that she can’t figure out what he feels for her . Although no matter how secretly a young man or a man behaves, his actions and behavior can tell a lot about him. Even words do not always accurately reflect the true attitude towards a person, like his facial expressions, movements and actions, which, unlike words, are almost impossible to control unless you are a career intelligence officer. The main thing is to know where to look.
Signs of a man in love
First of all, it is worth remembering that men, when they are in love, also experience the same strong emotions as girls, worrying about how their attempts at courtship and, even more so, an invitation to meet will be perceived. Therefore, they are able to remain silent for a very long time, hiding their feelings, so as not to be rejected if they are not sure that the girl is interested in them. If you don’t want to wait a long time for him to finally dare to approach, take a closer look at him, and, making sure that he feels far from friendly interest in you or even indifference, unobtrusively demonstrate that you are interested in him as a man. This will give him strength and confidence.
Everyone is afraid of rejection. And for the stronger sex, this is generally humiliating. That's why they try to hide their feelings until the last moment, so as not to find themselves in a stupid and awkward situation that can deal a strong blow to their self-esteem. But the feelings never go away, no matter how hard they try to keep them in check. And they manifest themselves in the way he looks at the girl he likes, how often he finds himself in her field of vision, whether he tries to be as close to her as possible, whether he crosses her path too often for it to really be called an accident.
When he is around, he will do anything without even thinking about it specifically to be in her field of vision. He wants her to pay attention to him, to understand what feelings she has for him and whether he has a chance for reciprocity. Therefore, as soon as she is in his field of vision, he will appear nearby.
A lover behaves in such a way that the girl of his dreams will definitely pay attention to him. Hormones are going through the roof, the blood is running faster, and now he already feels how he is drawn to her. At the same time, in the presence of someone they like, people behave tensely, they don’t want to look funny, naive, they want to impress, but since they are too worried about the result, they cannot relax and be themselves.
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If a man begins to stutter in your presence and becomes silent, although he had previously animatedly discussed some issues with someone, he has strong feelings for you.
From external manifestations One can also note the desire to straighten his shoulders, stretch out, and demonstrate how much he stands out among the men around him. He shows the girl that he is worthy of her attention. No matter how he stands in front of it, very soon he will be turned in her direction. And the toes of his feet will point in her direction. Psychologists say that when people feel sympathy for someone, their toes turn in their direction, as if they include them in their social circle.
Often men begin to give compliments and express admiration. A lover is not able to remain silent, he can speak out of place, but he will definitely try to compliment his hair, clothes, or something else. He wants to do something nice, please his beloved and bring a smile to her face. Even if the girl is wearing the same clothes or she doesn’t feel very well, he will still notice her blooming appearance and sense of style.
Over time, you may no longer hear such compliments from them, but in the first weeks of a relationship or just after meeting, they can pour in like from a cornucopia. Some men may not say them at all, so their absence is not an indicator of his indifference, it all depends on upbringing, habits and character. But something resembling a compliment will definitely sound, although it may even hurt a little. But let the whole stream of compliments addressed to you make you a little wary.
It is important from whom these compliments come. Experienced womanizers, gigolos, womanizers, are real masters in this matter. And they use these weapons to seduce a lady very skillfully. Only their compliments are too correct, as if taken from a book or manual by a pick-up artist. It’s better to hear an awkward compliment from the lips of a man who doesn’t have the “fame of a seducer” than to be showered with them, but turn out to be another victim of an unreliable man who only knows how to break hearts.
How does a man in love behave?
When a man is in love, he tries to please the woman in everything. He will not enter into polemics with her, but will try to either accept her point of view or explain, as gently as possible, why she is mistaken. But he won’t insist, so as not to upset his princess. You can rely on him. He will always come to the rescue, even if you have known each other for a week. In general, many representatives of the strong half of humanity, who are always nearby, you just have to call them, in fact, do not have friendly feelings for a woman at all, although they can be friends with them for years. This, of course, does not apply to any assistance that may be needed on the road with a car, as a neighbor, or at work. It is unlikely that anyone will refuse to help a person even without strong feelings to him if he asks. But still, a man who is nearby at any given time is clearly more than just a friend. A man in love has extraordinary patience. He is ready to listen to girls' conversations for hours just to be close. And as soon as the opportunity arises, he will definitely find a reason to lightly touch his chosen one. When you love, you want to touch your loved one as often as possible. And this desire is so strong that men cannot restrain it, so they involuntarily look for a reason to touch, at least her hand. He won't forget your birthday, will find time to choose good gift to please her. It is very important for him to see a smile and joy on his beloved’s face. He will try to dispel a bad mood if something happens to her. Offer help. He will be interested in everything that happens to her, everything she does, everything she dreams about. All her wishes will be taken into account to the best of our ability. Even if he doesn't have a phone number, he will try to get it. And he will try to add himself as a friend in order to view his girlfriend’s page, leave comments and enter into correspondence, since this is much easier to do than to approach a beauty without knowing how she feels for him and whether she is ready for close communication.
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Very rarely, men in love try to immediately win the girl they like. When a man has feelings, he will doubt and worry. The one who goes ahead is unlikely to experience them; he is interested in something else. Later he may begin to experience more serious emotions, but it depends. Therefore, overly confident men should not always be trusted very quickly.
Love can come at the most unexpected moment, take you by surprise and disrupt all plans. Thoughts about your loved one will not allow you to live as usual and you will want to know if there is hope that he is experiencing the same thing. You can find out about this only if he says so himself, or by carefully looking at his behavior. No one is able to hide 100% of the emotions that another person evokes in him, except for professional intelligence officers. And lovers always behave in a certain way, which helps you understand what he feels for you. And if you show interest in him and a readiness for closer communication, he will decide to take the first step without fear of refusal. And all he has to do is invite you on a date.
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13 is an unlucky number, but not when it comes to male love. It is by 13 signs that you can find out whether the man you like has tender feelings.
Despite the fact that most representatives of the stronger sex prefer to hide their feelings, it is quite possible to find out a man’s attitude towards a woman. All you need is observation.
The first sign of a man falling in love is loss of control
A strong, confident guy gets lost when he sees a girl and behaves in the most stupid way. This behavior is characterized by stuttering, confusion in words, shyness, shyness, problems finding words, and physical awkwardness.
A person experiences a lot of emotions, naturally, the brain stops coping with the load and the above incidents happen. It is curious that the man tries to take the situation into his own hands, and before the meeting he promises himself to remain calm, but upon meeting he again becomes helpless.
The second sign of a man in love is a brave heart
Falling in love makes real heroes out of ordinary guys. It comes to crazy actions - driving fast or traveling along the ledge to the window of your beloved. Boasting is often encountered - in general, a man does everything to seem like a valiant knight.
The third sign is a romantic relationship
This includes any romantic deeds - serenades under the window, a chic bouquet of roses delivered by courier to the office or home, poems dedicated to the lady of the heart. This is one of the most striking signs of falling in love, indicating that a person is trying to please by any means.
The fourth sign that a man is in love is increased attention
Does the guy show a constant desire to be together? He's definitely in love! The chosen one of his heart expects invitations to go for a walk, to a cafe, to the theater, and even to trips to places he hates: art galleries, concerts of symphony orchestras, ballets. But he will endure, just to be near his beloved.
Many representatives of the stronger half of humanity do not decide to take such steps right away - they are afraid of rejection. But when he received consent, his joy knew no bounds - the world became brighter and kinder. While waiting for an appointment, the man constantly calls the girl and has long conversations. He will always find time to call, even if he is constantly busy.
In some cases, the manifestation of attention takes on other forms: the guy can mock, make offensive remarks, criticize. This sign confidently indicates existing feelings.
The fifth sign of a man in love is awareness
The point is manifested not only by stories about oneself in the present. This includes stories from childhood, plans for the future, meeting friends and parents. In the latter case, by the way, you will be presented as a girlfriend or future wife.
The sixth sign of falling in love is presence and help
A guy in love tries to help, even if the girl doesn’t ask him for it. He regrets wasted time, money and other resources. He always strives to be there to help at any time.
The most ardent ones refuse to spend time with friends, bad habits and activities that take up the lion's share of time - everything to spend leisure time with the lady of your heart.
Seventh - careful self-care
An early and obvious sign that someone dear to him has appeared in a person’s life. A man begins to monitor his weight, muscle condition, hairstyle and clothes. He wants to look perfect in the eyes of his passion so that she will pay attention to him.
The eighth sign of a man in love is material security
Many guys strive for material wealth. They want to appear self-sufficient and wealthy in front of their woman. The desire for security and steps to achieve it are a clear sign of a person’s serious intentions.
The ninth sign of falling in love is manifestations of jealousy
Jealousy is the most obvious sign of caring. The guy perceives any male persons as potential rivals and shows aggression towards them.
Experienced representatives of the stronger sex often hide manifestations of jealousy, so this criterion is more suitable for young people.
Tenth - avoiding contact
There is a category of males who avoid meeting their beloved. They treat her coldly, trying not to look into the girl’s eyes or direction. This happens for one reason - the guy is afraid to show his feelings, going to extremes that betray him.
A girl can start communicating with a person herself by carefully observing him. Is the man in love? His gaze and body language gestures will certainly give him away.
The eleventh sign of falling in love in men is body language
This is one of the most interesting areas in communication psychology. Clear signs of his interest:
· toes of shoes turned towards the girl. Moreover, when the lady moves, the socks, as a rule, move after her;
· hands that are constantly in motion, for example, adjusting a belt or other items of clothing. This means that the man is nervous and attracted to the lady;
· desire is closer, reducing the distance. This usually happens unconsciously;
· preening: the guy is constantly trying to remove non-existent trash cans from his clothes, straighten his hair or tie;
· a pose in which a man puts his hand behind the lady’s back, as if hugging her;
· repetition of the girl’s movements and gestures.
The twelfth sign of men falling in love is a look
Gaze can be classified as body language. The eyes reflect the whole gamut of emotions experienced by a lover. Usually, manifestations of tender feelings are determined by a glance wandering over a woman’s silhouette, even if this is a conversation on serious topics.
The thirteenth, important sign of falling in love is a declaration of feelings
The most important sign. There are no standards by which everything should happen - the time and words depend on the personality and character of the person. This doesn't have to happen in a romantic setting. The explanation may consist of three words. But even then it is a great stress for the lover. If the feelings are mutual, the girl will understand the meaning of the words spoken and will allow the guy to be himself.
If a woman notices most of the listed signs, and she likes the man, it is better to give him a chance. A smile and a tender look work wonders with representatives of the stronger half - he can decide to declare his love.
Timely noticed manifestations of love and steps towards can become the beginning of new ones, strong relationships, subsequently ending in the desired marriage.
How to understand that a man is in love - The main signs of falling in love
Why men hide their feelings: possible reasons
— Why men hide their feelings: possible reasons
— Is the guy in love or just infatuated?
— Six signs of a man in love
— How to understand that a man has fallen in love: relationship analysis
- Conclusion
Here are some of the most common reasons why men tend to hide their feelings:
1. He has a girlfriend or wife.
The most common and common reason. The guy already has someone and he doesn’t want to break off a comfortable relationship for another girl, even if he really loves her.
2. In a man's world, it is customary to be restrained, to be able to control yourself and your emotions.
Showing your interest or love means for young man show your weakness. He has no right to be weak under any circumstances. It's different for women. When a guy is interesting to us, we try to show it.
A man prefers to do everything consistently and does not waste his energy on stupid fantasies. Even if the relationship does not go beyond intimate, he will be restrained in showing his interest.
3. Bad experience.
Having experienced a difficult breakup, men do not seek to tie themselves in any way again. It is much easier for them to date without being constrained by any obligations. Some even become recluses.
4. A man lives alone for a very long time.
He is independent, his own boss. He’s so used to it, he’s so comfortable. Therefore, he begins to perceive a woman as something that can disrupt his established life. For her sake, the guy will have to change his foundations and habits, but he doesn’t want to do this.
5. He is not sure of his feelings.
Or maybe this is not love at all, but just fleeting sympathy? Then why discover it? It will pass and that will be the end of it. And we, women, suffer, suffer, think about what is going on in his head.
6. A man is subject to stereotypes.
For some reason, in their male world it is believed that the more restrained and colder a young man behaves, the more more woman will fall in love with him. This is actually a big mistake. You should not abuse indifference, no matter how strong your principles are.
7. The guy is afraid of being rejected.
The young man thinks, is it necessary to take the first step? What if he's not good? What if the sympathy is not mutual? Even self-confident men can turn out to be timid and shy at such a moment. In this case, they prefer to remain silent and pretend that the girl is indifferent.
Is the guy in love or just infatuated?
Sexual attraction is an integral part of love. This is the chemistry that arises between two people, the nature of which scientists are trying to figure out, but they cannot fully unravel it so that they can give a ready-made formula.
If you feel and notice that a man is attracted to you, it’s very good, because this purely physical feeling has every chance of developing into something more. Attraction is an excellent signal, because a man cannot love a woman he does not want, but wanting does not mean loving. There is no need to delude yourself too much.
A man's infatuation with you may be of purely sporting interest, and when the trophy is in the hands of the winner, all interest may come to naught. If a man to whom you are not indifferent wants to have intimacy with you, this is certainly a reason for joy. If you are desired, you are a happy woman, but if you are looking true love, not entertainment for a couple of nights, do not rush to rush into the flames of passion.
Six signs of a man in love
One of the most obvious signs that a man is in love is the style of his clothing.
If a guy's feelings are serious, he will begin to care about getting you to like him: he will quickly change his ordinary clothes, which is more simple and convenient than beautiful, to more stylish and fashionable.
He will always be tempted to sneak a glance at you.
He will admire you when he is sure that you are not watching him, and if you do catch his eye, he will look away and may even become embarrassed. This is a good sign, he really loves and constantly admires and admires you.
If you are trapped in any problem, emotional, physical, financial or any other way, he offers you his help.
He likes to talk to you, likes to spend time together.
Guys love to chat with people they really like, especially if it's someone of the opposite sex. And if he loves you, then he will always want to discuss with you some event or news that worries him.
He enjoys appearing with you in front of friends or colleagues.
Definitely, if a man does not love a girl, then he will not “introduce” her into his social circle. He will prefer to meet her away from the eyes of his friends and relatives. If a man doesn’t want to appear with you in front of his friends, then he is most likely just using you to pass the time pleasantly once or twice.
A man in love does not insist on sex.
A man who has true feelings for a woman will always consider your emotions and feelings; besides, he will never insist on sex at the very beginning of the relationship and will patiently wait until you are ready for it.
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He wants to be with Her.
When a man is in love, he not only wants, but wants to just be close to the woman he loves as much and as often as possible, seeks contact with her, tries to catch her eye more often. For a loving man, not only physical, but also spiritual rapprochement with a woman is important.
A man in love wants to know as much as possible about his beloved: how she lives, how she breathes, what she loves. If a man seeks a woman's company not only for her body and physical intimacy, there is a high probability that this is really love.
A man in love is generous and caring.
This is not only about material generosity, although this, of course, should also be present, since we still live in the material world.
If a man is in love, and even more so if he loves, he spares neither affection, nor kisses, nor warm words, nor time, nor attention for his beloved.
Satisfy alone expensive gifts and material goods are only available to very mercantile and empty persons who are interested not so much in the man himself as in the thickness of his wallet.
No matter how busy and eventful his work schedule is, a man in love will certainly find a moment for his beloved, because there is no one dearer and dearer to him in the world.
If a man is ready to adapt to your mood, if he is sincerely happy when he manages to calm, surprise, console, delight or protect you, you can be calm and confident that you are loved.
A lover lets a woman into his life.
Representatives of the stronger sex value their independence very much, they are great individualists and react extremely sensitively to any restrictions and attempts to invade personal space. But if a man is really in love, he will easily let you into his life, you won’t have to take anything by storm, all doors will open for you.
If a man is willing to share his personal space with you, if he allows you to run his house and even encourages it, if he is not irritated by tampons stored next to his shaving cream, this says a lot.
A man in love is ready to let his beloved woman into his life much deeper than just letting her run a joint household: he introduces her to his parents and friends, he shares and makes plans with her, begins to think about starting a family and children.
If all this is present in your relationship, this is a clear sign of the seriousness of the man’s intentions.
A loving man is ready to make sacrifices.
Serious relationship and living together require certain sacrifices and concessions on both sides. The willingness to make concessions and sacrifice something for the sake of another person speaks of love. However, the sacrifices must be reasonable.
If a person begins to radically change his loved one, in fact he loves his own idea, which he is trying to mold from available material. When a person sincerely loves, he gives and gives himself without setting any conditions, without expecting praise and approval, and without demanding anything in return. The main thing is that your loved one feels good, that he is happy.
A loving man will never cause his beloved pain.
A man in love values his beloved and will never deliberately hurt her. Of course, anything can happen in life and we all different people, sometimes tactlessness, lack of delicacy or simple misunderstanding can hurt painfully, but in this case we are talking about pathological rudeness, deliberate cruelty, exerting psychological pressure, constant humiliation and even the use of force.
If a man loves, he strives in every possible way to protect and defend his beloved, and certainly not to hurt her. Violence and love are incompatible. If a man raised his hand to you at least once, you can be sure that sooner or later he will definitely do it again, so by turning a blind eye to such antics, you free his hands even more.
A man's willingness to take responsibility.
An indicator of not just falling in love, but the seriousness of his intentions is a man’s willingness to take responsibility for his beloved, the desire for this particular woman to become his wife, bear him children and be with him in joy and sorrow.
Conclusion
Unlike women, men are not as emotional and cannot always express their feelings in words. However, their actions speak louder than any words. It is by the actions of your loved one that you can determine the degree of his love for you.
If you want to find out if a man is in love with you, first of all, be objective. If you like this man, then you should hint to him about it. This will inspire even the most indecisive member of the opposite sex to take the next step. If he doesn’t understand the hints and still keeps his distance, you should talk about your feelings directly and find out whether they are mutual or not.
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