There is an opinion that men remain children for the rest of their lives, only their toys become more expensive. Maybe this is why kids love spending time with their dads so much - they just speak the same language. Dad will teach, and tell, and fix, and break again to see “where this extra part came from.”
The son imitates his father and wants (or categorically does not want) to be like him. And for a daughter, a father is an example of what he should be a real man and what is his role in the family. But dads are different. What type is your baby's father?
1. Dad is a friend. He communicates with the child on an equal basis, takes part in his games with pleasure, is always ready to listen to him, explains his prohibitions with reason and is determined to resolve conflicts peacefully.
2. Dad is a judge.Any mistake will be noticed and publicly condemned. Notations, instructions, and sometimes scolding are the main form of communication with a child.
3. Father-breadwinner. His main concern is his daily bread. It is very important for him that the house is “full.” But he completely delegates playing with the child, raising and household chores to his wife.
4. Father is a psychotherapist. He always tries to be objective. He is distinguished by restraint, a sober view of the situation and rational judgment. The main method of education is conversation with the child. Usually gives practical advice, which the child is inclined to listen to.
5. Mom and Dad.Takes care of the child with pleasure: gets up at night, changes diapers, bathes and cooks porridge. His main concern is that the child is happy, so the children of such fathers often have problems with discipline.
6. Karabas-Barabas. The only form of education available to such a father is pressure on the child and aggression. They usually scare dads like this: “If you behave badly, I’ll tell your father.”
7. Jumping dragonfly. He really misses his former free life. His family weighs him down, his children stress him out. He got married, most likely, “on the fly.” He doesn’t want to be responsible for his wife or children. Emotional attachment does not feel towards them.
8. Shirt guy. Another child in the family. Relations with children are going well, as he is always ready to fool around with them, play football and fly a helicopter. He rather functions as a friend or older brother than as a father. Conflicts often arise with my wife due to discipline and lack of responsibility.
9. A tough nut to crack. He believes that his opinion is the only correct one. He does not accept compromises and the last word should always remain with him, for the simple reason that he is a man.
10. Neither fish nor meat. This is a dad who doesn’t decide anything in the family. The wife treats him without respect, and the same form of communication is instilled in the children from the very beginning. Relationships with children usually do not work out, since such a dad is not able to provide them with a basic sense of security either in the family or in society.
Oksana Soblukova
To the sound of J. Strauss's march, the children enter the hall.
Dear guys, guests! Today we have gathered in this hall to celebrate a special holiday Defender of the Fatherland Day On February 23, all of Russia will congratulate men - fathers, brothers, grandfathers on the birthday of our army.
Our Army Day today
There is no one stronger than her in the world.
Hello defenders of the people!
Russian Army.
Children (in unison).
the same child.
Ships are sailing into space.
Our Army -
same child child.
There is peace and work on the planet.
Our Army -
same child child.
We are still a few years old
But we are all great.
And we keep pace
Like soldiers in the Army.
Song "It's fun to walk together".
Leading:
And now, I’ll ask you guys questions, and you try right on them answer:
Is our army strong? (Yes)
Does she protect the world? (Yes)
Will the boys join the army? (Yes)
Will they take the girls with them? (No)
Are there tankers in the army? (Yes)
Are there any miners in the army? (No)
Today we celebrate the holiday? (Yes)
Congratulations to mothers and girls? (No)
World more important than anything in the world? (Yes)
Do even children know this? (Yes)
Leading:
But we know very well that defenders are not only those who serve or work in the army. Of course, for women, for families, these are, first of all, men, dads. And now we invite dads to come out here to check how well they know their children. Competition "Find your child"
Dads are different:
He is silent, and he screams,
He sometimes hums,
The one sticking out by the TV
He sometimes hugs
The warmth of strong hands,
He sometimes forgets
That he is his son's best friend.
Dads are different...
And as the days pass,
Their sons grow up
Point to point, just like them.
Dramatization of poem B. Rudenko
"Most the right dad» .
(Children take the necessary attributes, costume elements and show skit.)
Under a big, big chestnut tree,
In the very depths of the yard,
The boys gathered in a crowd -
A heated argument has been going on since the morning.
My friend Sergei says:
My dad is the most important person here.
He is now the director of the company
Selling vegetables!
But when your dad
Will fly on an airplane
The pilot will guide him,
And the pilot is my dad. Here! –
This was stated by Valerka,
But Gleb answered him:
What are you guys arguing about?
My dad bakes bread for everyone!
Here Irishka approaches them:
And you are completely wrong!
At least my dad is not a director,
But everyone definitely needs it!
He's right on the border
He performs a difficult service.
He protects the whole country
And protects our peace!
All children.
Different dads are important,
All sorts of dads are needed
Leading:
Guys, remind me who we are congratulating today? (answers children)
That's right, all men (fathers, grandfathers, brothers).
My dad is handsome
And strong as an elephant.
Beloved, attentive,
He's affectionate.
I look forward to
Dad from work.
Always in my pocket
He brings something.
My dad is resourceful
Smart and brave.
He can handle even difficult things.
He is also a naughty, mischievous and prankster.
With him every day
Turns into holiday.
Olya performs a song "Dad"
Leading: And now I invite two married couples to compete in their ability to negotiate in the “Collect clothespins” competition
My dad is a wizard.
He's the nicest.
He instantly turns
Whatever you ask.
He can become a clown
Tiger, giraffe.
But best of all
He knows how to be a dad.
I will hug him and quietly I'll whisper:
My daddy, I love you
I love you so much!
You are the most caring
The most native,
You are kind, you are the best
And you are only mine!
My dad has gone far away.
I don't need dads, to be honest, it's not easy.
Dad, if he wants, can sing a song,
If it's cold, warm it up with your warmth.
I don't need dads have a hard time falling asleep.
I'll get up and quietly stand at the door,
Dear dad, come back soon.
My dad is the strongest
He can fold the table.
And I want, like dad,
Be just as strong.
My dad wears glasses
Like all professors.
Which means dad is smart
Which means I'm smart!
My dad loves my mom
Kiss all the time
And I want the same
Become loving!
Don't believe me? Check it out!
Dad and I are friends.
And I look like my dad
And dad is on me!
U dad has no son, y fathers two daughters,
Two girls, me and my sister.
We play with dolls, wash handkerchiefs
And we whisper with her until the morning...
U dad has no son, but how I would like
He needs to kick a ball with someone,
Build a rocket, go fishing,
Understanding men's problems...
U dad has no son, well, what can you do,
Two girls came out in a row.
And dad sighs and stealthily catches
The neighbor's sympathetic look.
U dad has no son, well, no and no need...
Please accept congratulations from us,
Can't be dads are the happiest in the world,
Than a dad with two daughters.
Our boys are still in kindergarten, but years will pass, and each of them will choose for himself speciality: someone will become a pilot, sailor, tank driver, policeman, fireman. But for this need to learn to be resilient and courageous.
And now we will hold a competition and see how dexterous you all are.
Let's play?
Suddenly Antoshka enters the hall with a large spoon. (dances to the song "Antoshka")
Leading:
And who came to us?
Antoshka:
Antoshka has come to visit you!
Here's my big spoon!
I like to have fun
Especially to eat
Roll on the grass
And watch the cartoon!
What the the holiday is here for you,
Songs and excitement?
Where are the cookies, where is the cake?
Where is the treat?
Leading:
Actually, this is where we gathered
Don't drink tea with jam,
And show off your prowess!
To grow strong!
To join the army.
Antoshka:
Prowess? What is this? Tasty?
Pies with cabbage?
Compote or jelly?
I love everything, believe me!
Leading:
Not really! Get back in line quickly!
We'll take care of you now!
A game “Who can spin the hoop the longest?”
Guys, you are great!
Antoshka:
Wow! Kneaded my sides! This work is not easy!
(Spreads out the rug and lays it down).
Well, now I’d better lie down!
I value my own health!
Leading:
You are a future soldier!
How do you hold the machine gun?
Muscles are strong needed,
Hands are strong important.
Hurry up and join the guys
Hold on tight to the rope!
A game "Tug of War" with Antoshka.
Antoshka:
My arms ache, my legs ache,
I'm worried about my health!
It’s okay, this always happens if you don’t exercise for a long time.
And now we invite dads to compete. A game "Fast Horse"
Leading:
Now let's do an object lesson.
Which one of you is the most accurate shooter?
A game "Hit the target"
After children Antoshka makes the hit).
Antoshka:
But I didn’t miss, and also hit the target!
Leading:
Well done, Antoshka!
You are worthy of praise!
Here are our "girls" (boys in disguise) they want to congratulate all the defenders, including you, Antoshka, and sing ditties about sports.
We are sports guys
We live together happily
And sports ditties
We'll sing for you today!
If you want to be healthy,
Don't get sick and don't be sad,
Then think about sports again,
You have to love him!
If a boy kicks a ball
In the morning in a clean field,
This boy, we know for sure,
He will become a football player!
The wind swirls around the birches,
And I'm tempering myself:
I run barefoot in the cold -
I do sports.
Two flowers bloom
Silver color,
Oh, don't become such a sprout
I'm a basketball player!
If you play sports,
You will become slim and tall
And swing on the horizontal bar
You won't be like a sack!
Antoshka:
I am attentive and learn very quickly.
Thank you guys for the science and the game.
Being resilient and agile doesn’t hurt anyone.
Well, now I have to go, see you soon kids!
Leading. A lot of good words sounded today in honor of our army, military personnel, dads, brothers. And in conclusion our children will sing a song "About Dad"
And for the dads, the children drew their portraits
For every child, the presence of both parents is very important. And the role of dad is no less important in the family theater of life.
Dads are different. Their behavior depends on the temperament given by nature. Having determined temperament, we can characterize each of them. So, you need to imagine a situation where dad is given a child and cereal, and there is a pan on the stove. So, the father's behavior...
Dad is choleric. There is chaos in the kitchen. The porridge leaks out, dad tries to make sure that the child doesn’t get dirty, but in the end, everything is in the porridge.
Dad is sanguine. Dad plays with a laughing child, talks on the phone at the same time, a good mood reigns throughout the apartment. But the smell of burnt porridge still reigns.
Phlegmatic person. A child chews a shoe in the hallway. The porridge boils over. Dad sits at the computer and says: “Now, I’ll cook now.”
Dad is melancholic. Dad says that he knew how to cook, but for some reason he doubted it. And the baby already missed his mother. And he’s kind of calm - maybe he’s sick?
So, in what situation is dad most recognizable, this type of temperament is worth considering in more detail.
Dad is phlegmatic. The nervous system is in perfect order. He can be called balanced. However, he is endowed with a certain slowness. Actions and thoughts are sluggish. You can never tell from the face of such a dad the emotions - joy or sadness in his soul. He moves slowly, royally. Always walks the same route with the stroller. Talks a little. In a conversation with a child, he is unlikely to find a topic quickly and will worry about it. He may seem lazy from the outside, but in reality he does not consider it necessary to waste energy on unimportant activities. Such a man switches from one thing to another for a long time. This requires him some time. But such dads do things perfectly. He does not welcome new theories in raising his child, but prefers to use his grandmother’s methods. He loves order and routine, which he tries to accustom the baby to from childhood.
Dad is choleric. The nervous system can be described as unbalanced. Such a dad acts quickly, sharply, changeable and quick-witted. His conversation is accompanied by gestural movements. After emotional outbursts, he is very worried if he has offended someone and swears that he will try to keep the emotions to himself. Of course, until next time. Doesn't accept criticism. And he sincerely believes that he is the best dad.
Dad is sanguine. This one is proud of his balance. Cheerful and most often in good mood. He does everything at the same time. Easily picks up new views in education and tries to implement them. But he lacks organization and persistence. This dad is very sociable. While walking, he will become acquainted with everyone he meets. Can't stand monotonous tasks. And he tries to approach everything creatively.
Dad is melancholic. Such a dad is vulnerable and impressionable. His movements are constrained and his facial expressions are poor. The voice is quiet with occasional stuttering. This is because he always doubts. When going for a walk with your child, you will spend at least an hour getting ready. Such a dad will never miss a single spot on the baby’s body. Afterwards he will study all the books and diagnose the manifestations. He seems more knowledgeable than the pediatrician. He is a very devoted family man. He won't make a leader, but he is a perfect performer. To cope with any task, he needs clear instructions.
To summarize, we can say that for any child both mom and dad are equally important - there is no degree of more or less importance. Therefore, dear women, be wise and flexible. Based on these sample descriptions, know what you can expect from husbands and adjust accordingly. This does not mean that you need to bend and suffer, it means that you need to be able to flow from one state to another, like a river, and at the same time maintain family life. This is possible and will be easy if love and respect reign in your family, and this is initially the work of a woman!
"Kindergarten No. 7 "Cherry"
Project on:
“We need different dads”
Completed by: Educators
2 junior group №5
Kataeva M.S., Mamaeva T.E.
Solikamsk 2016
PROJECT “DIFFERENT DADS NEEDED”
Relevance of the project
Recently, children, as well as adults, have been so captivated by television and computer games that they forget about joint games and hobbies, about the necessary communication with each other. The children's games in kindergarten and their conversations with each other helped to see a big problem: all children's issues are most often solved by the mother, the mother satisfies both the cognitive interests of the children and the lack of emotional communication. It has become fashionable to scold today's men. They are brought up in an atmosphere of loss of paternal authority; their infantilism leads to the fact that children grow up practically without a father. The lack of participation of the father in upbringing is a big problem of our time, because mothers are unable to take on the fatherly role. For a child, the feeling of the closeness of a father (or another close man) is a feeling of strength, which, while protecting, gives a feeling of invulnerability. If the mother is the source of life, then the father is the source of strength, the first elder friend. For a long time, children cannot distinguish between physical and mental strength, but they sense the latter very well and are drawn to it. It is necessary to develop in children love and respect for both parents, to promote the development of harmony in the relationship between children and parents.
Objective of the project
Project objectives
Project type: educational - creative
By subject area
"Artistic and aesthetic development" " Cognitive development» « Speech development» « Physical development»
By composition- group
By duration
Project participants- junior pupils preschool age, teachers of the institution, parents.
Pupils:
Parents:
Teachers:
Form final event
Project implementation stages
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Preparatory |
Selecting a project topic Awareness of the problem situation. Project development, planning educational activities. Selection of material (visual - didactic, fiction) |
Project theme. Goals, tasks. Consultation for parents “The role of the father in raising a child” Perspective - thematic plan. |
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Basic |
Project implementation. |
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Final |
Final event. |
Project implementation plan.
Stage 1 Preparatory
Stage 2 Main
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Speech development Cognitive development |
Conversation on issues. “We need different dads” Reading poetry: “Like Dad” |
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Physical development |
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Artistic and aesthetic development |
Stage 3 Final
CONCLUSION:
Appendix No. 1.
Memo for parents
“HOW TO GROW A DEFENDER?”
Dear dads, remember!
The boy wants to be good, but does not like to be punished directly; words irritate him! Educate by action and personal example!
If the father is always unhappy, impatient and irritable with his son, the boy will feel insecure and awkward not only in his company, but also among men and boys.
The boy needs experience of success. He can buy it with your help. Create, invent situations for your son where he will undoubtedly achieve success. Notice your son's success and praise him.
If you want to achieve something from your son, you need to instill it in him, which means it’s best to “infect” him with your business. You can only achieve what you do yourself.
Boys don't fewer girls need parental affection and physical contact with them. The father can pat the teenager on the shoulder, bump into him, wrestle with him. Children who have regularly seen expressions of love and affection from their parents have a more developed sense of inner security. Father and son must have their own manly secrets. Walking together, hobbies, fishing, etc. They make their son feel that he is “their guy.”
Appendix 2
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“Project “We need different dads!””
Department of Education of the Solikamsk City Administration
Municipal autonomous preschool educational institution
"Kindergarten No. 7 "Cherry"
Project on:
“We need different dads”
Completed by: Educators
2 junior groups No. 5
Kataeva M.S., Mamaeva T.E.
Solikamsk 2016
PROJECT “DIFFERENT DADS NEEDED”
Relevance of the project
Recently, children, as well as adults, have been so captivated by television and computer games that they forget about joint games and hobbies, about the necessary communication with each other. The children's games in kindergarten and their conversations with each other helped to see a big problem: all children's issues are most often solved by the mother, the mother satisfies both the cognitive interests of the children and the lack of emotional communication. It has become fashionable to scold today's men. They are brought up in an atmosphere of loss of paternal authority; their infantilism leads to the fact that children grow up practically without a father. The lack of participation of the father in upbringing is a big problem of our time, because mothers are unable to take on the fatherly role. For a child, the feeling of the closeness of a father (or another close man) is a feeling of strength, which, while protecting, gives a feeling of invulnerability. If the mother is the source of life, then the father is the source of strength, the first elder friend. For a long time, children cannot distinguish between physical and mental strength, but they sense the latter very well and are drawn to it. It is necessary to develop in children love and respect for both parents, to promote the development of harmony in the relationship between children and parents.
Objective of the project
Creating conditions and a work system to maintain traditions of respectful attitude towards the father, consolidating traditional family foundations.
Project objectives
Formation of a positive emotional attitude of children towards their father;
Increase the activity and interest of parents in organizing games and communication with children of different ages, and gender.
Fostering love and respect for your family members.
Promote the formation of partnerships and cooperation between father and child in the family.
To make children want to defend their family and their homeland.
Expand children's knowledge about defenders of the fatherland.
Project type: cognitive - creative
By subject area
"Social and communicative development"
"Artistic and aesthetic development"
"Cognitive Development"
"Speech development"
"Physical development"
By composition– group
By duration fleeting (02/15/16-02/26/16)
Project participants– pupils of primary preschool age, teachers of the institution, parents.
Expected outcome of the project
Pupils:
1.Increasing interest in joint games and hobbies of children and their parents.
2. Formation of an idea about the branches of the Russian army, about those who guard and defend our Motherland.
Parents:
1. Active and interested participants in the project are focused on developing the child’s need for knowledge, communication with adults, through cooperative games.
Teachers:
Increased professional level.
Final event form
Sports festival"Future Defenders"
Intended product of the project Exhibition of creative works by children (portraits of dads, stories about their dads “My dad is the most, the most...”); greeting cards for dads, portfolio page.
Project implementation stages
| STAGE | RESULT |
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| Preparatory | Selecting a project topic Awareness of the problem situation. Project development, planning of educational events. Selection of material (visual - didactic, fiction) | Project theme. Goals, tasks. Consultation for parents “The role of the father in raising a child” Perspective - thematic plan. |
| Basic | Project implementation. | Implementation of planned activities. |
| Final | Presentation of the joint activity product | Final event. |
Project implementation plan.
Stage 1 Preparatory
| Social and communicative development Speech development Cognitive development | Development of an entertainment scenario for children. Planning activities with children: cognitive - speech; artistically - creative; gaming; joint activities of parents and children. Selection of material for productive activities. | Select materials, toys, attributes for play activity, didactic games. | Folder “The role of the father in raising a child” Goal: To draw attention to the importance of the father’s role in raising a child. |
Stage 2 Main
| Social and communicative development Speech development Cognitive development Artistic and aesthetic development | Conversation on issues. “We need different dads” Making riddles. Exercises for activation of the dictionary and development of coherent speech: “Call it affectionately”, “Daddy’s things”, “What kind of dad?”, “Daddy’s interests”. Didactic games: “All work is good”, “Who needs what for work?” Who is the odd one out”, “What does a soldier, sailor, pilot need”, Reading poetry: “Like Dad” Dad's fairy tale," "Dads are different." Reading: “My Family”, V. Dragunsky “The Cunning Way”, V. Davydov “Army of Peace”, S. Marshak “February”. Examination of the illustrations “Defenders of the Fatherland”, depicting branches of the military and various military equipment. Role-playing games: “Building a rocket”, “Helping dad”, “Repair shop”, “Family”, “Factory”, “Garage”, “Construction site”, “Office”. Observations of adult labor (snowplow driver) | Illustrated material on the topic “Defenders of Peaceful Skies” Set of pictures “Branch of the Armed Forces” Different kinds military equipment Album Family album “My Dad” | Memo for parents “How to raise a defender...” |
| Physical development | Outdoor games: “Minefield”, “Snipers”, “Helicopters” Finger games: “What will we go on?”, “Our friendly family.” | ||
| Artistic and aesthetic development | Drawing "Portrait of Dad." Manual labor « greeting card» Listening: “Daddy can.” Music game: "Planes" Listening to the sounds of military equipment, marching. |
Stage 3 Final
CONCLUSION: The set of actions organized by teachers to implement the project (raising the status of the father in the family, expanding children’s knowledge about the defenders of the fatherland) has a positive result. Children have formed a system of knowledge about the family, family values, about those who guard and defend our Motherland, about ways of showing their feelings to others. The interaction between parents and children contributed to emotional rapprochement, and parents and children gained experience of partnerships through joint activities.
Appendix No. 1.
Memo for parents
“HOW TO GROW A DEFENDER?”
Dear dads, remember!
The boy wants to be good, but does not like to be punished directly, words irritate him! Educate by action and personal example!
If the father is always unhappy, impatient and irritable with his son, the boy will feel insecure and awkward not only in his company but also among men and boys.
The boy needs experience of success. He can buy it with your help. Create, invent situations for your son where he will undoubtedly achieve success. Notice your son's success and praise him.
If you want to achieve something from your son, you need to instill it in him, which means it’s best to “infect” him with your business. You can only achieve what you do yourself.
Boys, no less than girls, need parental affection and physical contact with them. The father can pat the teenager on the shoulder, bump into him, wrestle with him. Children who have regularly seen expressions of love and affection from their parents have a more developed sense of inner security. Father and son must have their own manly secrets. Walking together, hobbies, fishing, etc. They make their son feel that he is “their guy.”
Appendix 2
Creative works children "Portrait of Dad"
