All girls and women love compliments. They need to be expressed subtly and not intrusively. Otherwise, you risk being caught for flattery. And oh, how they don’t like flattery. So, what can you write to a girl to make her smile, give her joy and pleasant feelings.

The main rule! Don't try to think of anything when you're tired or in a bad mood. Better stop and get a good night's sleep.

Breaking the ice is always hard when you're first dating. Sometimes it seems unreal. Most often, you have so little in common - just a few photos, you know each other so little.

Therefore, it is always difficult to come up with something worthwhile. Secondly, it can be difficult to imagine yourself with positive side. Therefore, we have put together a collection of messages for VKontakte, Facebook, Instagram, viber, telegram, skype - in a word, so that you will be delighted with the correspondence with your loved one!

From simple greetings to interesting questions, flirting. More than 100 message examples to make your conversation flow easily and effortlessly.

What to write to a girl instead of hello?

• Hello! How was your weekend?
• How's your week been?
• Hello. What are you doing, what are you working on?
• Hello, how are you doing today?
• Hey, what fun things are you thinking of doing this weekend?
• Hello, I hope you are doing well this week.
• Hi, how are you?
• Hello to you. How will you treat us today? (jokingly, sarcasm)
• Hello, what's new up to today?
• Just stopped to shake your hand. Hello!
• I just couldn't greet you. Hello!
• What's up? How are you?
• How is your day going?
• Hope you had a better day.
• Hello, how are you doing?
• Just wanted to say hi!
• Hi all! And you)
• Hello, I hope you have a wonderful day.
• Saw your photo and just had to say hi!
• Hello, what are you doing?

What to write to a girl to make her melt? Examples

• I can't think of anything better than getting a response from you.
• I wish this message would bring a smile to your face on my screen.
• Have you ever felt that something wonderful was happening? It feels like it's happening now.
• If you only respond to 1 message today, let it be mine.
• I'm kind of like, well... well, I think you look great. Do you want to go for a walk sometime?
• If you decide to chat, it will brighten my day. Or maybe this whole year.
• Hello. And one more thing - you are amazing.
• Could you reply to this message and make me feel the happiest in the world?
• You have no idea how much happiness it gives me to talk to you.
• So hooked me. That's the number.
• Hello, bonjour, aloha, salut! – my phone went crazy.
• Grrravar is how dinosaurs say hello.
• That awkward moment when you write a message to a girl and all that comes to mind is hello. Hello.
• Hello! Just decided to annoy you a little.
• I like your cute nose. It's really cute.
• I like hugs.
• I will always tell you if something goes wrong with my hair, clothes, or gets stuck in my teeth. I always do this...
• I'd like to talk to you. Seriously. No kidding.
• I think you like me.
• Double like for you)
• Everyone can be awesome, but your awesomeness comes from experience.
• You. Yes, exactly you. I wanted to talk to you.
• I'm looking for someone with whom I can remain a complete idiot. It's not you?
• I'm a good example of a weirdo. What about you?
• What's the truth? I really like you. And I don't even know you.
• I passed by your photo several times, and now I decided to say hello.
• My atoms are drawn to your atoms - this is chemistry.
• Hello awesomeness.
• You made me smile. All.
• I would like to be the reason you smile when you read this.
• I liked looking at your photos more than the pizza. Although I really like pizza.
• I bet my dog ​​would like you.
• I bet my cat would like you.

Examples of messages to a girl for flirting

• I only send messages to those who are close to me, whom I love and care about. I am writing to you because you are everything!
• Today is not a special day. There is nothing to write about. But I am sending a message because I always remember and think about you!
• Even if there is no call or message from you... I always remember and love you!
• I want to be your favorite hello, and your hardest so far.
• If you ask me why I love you so much, then I have no reason. But then love does not require a reason. It just happens.
• I don’t think much, I don’t think often, but when I think, I think about you!
• If the only place I can meet you is in my dreams, I don't want to wake up anymore.
• If I had one wish, I would give you a long and tender kiss, and if I had two wishes, I would decide to do it again.

What questions should you ask a girl to break the ice? Or keep the conversation going

• What could you talk about for hours?
• What do you like to do on the weekend?
• What brings you joy? what occupation?
• What is the most banal, typical day in your life?
• If you had to choose where to live, where?
• How do you behave when you're angry?
• What do you do in your free time?
• If you could be a hero in any movie, who would you be?
• Which actor/actress could play you best?
• What is your favorite book?
• What should I know about you, and not about your profile on VK (Facebook, Instagram)?
• What is your favorite sport?
• Why do you have such a strange login?
• Do you have a tattoo? If not, which one would you like?
• Are you close with your family?
• If you had a superpower, what would it be?
• What is the worst thing that you are willing to admit about yourself?
• What are you willing to talk about all night and not go to bed?
• I like to hear other people's stories. Do you have such a story?
• What is the most ideal day in your opinion?
• When you were a child, what did you want to become?
• Which city would you like to visit?
• What's your favorite band?
• What's your favorite movie?
• What's your favorite song?
• What was the last book you read? If it's not a secret)
• What is your favorite drink?
• Which cafe, cafeteria, pizzeria did you like the most?
• Would you describe yourself as a romantic person?
• Yes or no. You are romantic?
• Do you have a pet? Mom and dad don't count)
• Have you ever been given a nickname?
• Where did you grow up?
• Are you an open person or a shy one?
• Do you like to invent something, create something?
• What's your favorite TV show?
• What do you do in your free time?
• Do you play any kind of sport?
• What would you take with you to a desert island?
• What is your favorite memory?
• Tell me one random fact about yourself?
• If you could make 3 wishes, what would they be?
• If you could live one year again, what year would it be?

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Name: Beautiful words greetings to the girl. I wonder where is the paradise from which you came to this earth?

You impress, amaze, surprise. It’s comfortable, calm and infinitely good with you.

I absolutely love your slightly upturned nose and bow-shaped lips!

It’s great that I have you, and with you love, laughter, joy, and meaning came into my life.

Please tell me that I can admire your beauty forever!

You are beautiful like a goddess! Love you!

Eh, I would fly to the ends of the earth with such a girl right now!

Even the most powerful warriors are powerless before your beauty!

I dreamed about you all last night. Love you!

Your eyes are full of the coldness of ice and the flame of passion at the same time.

The famous northern lights cannot compare with the radiance of your beauty!

I need you like air, my love always follows you like a shadow. Honey, you found the key to my heart, you gave me happiness.

Undoubtedly, you were born only to give beauty to this world!

I sent an angel to watch over you at night. The angel returned a minute later. I asked the angel why he returned. He told me: Angels don't look at other angels.

Honey, may your morning be good and your day clear and successful!

You are incredibly good, pure! Just an angel!

You are able to support Hard time, and, of course, come to the rescue. It’s comfortable, good, cozy with you.

If your heart suddenly fills with sadness, sadness stirs in your chest - remember, I am close, I am next to you. We have a meeting ahead!

People like you are a real treasure in today's cruel world.

I wish you a good, wonderful, successful day so that every moment can be had! You are my beauty, accept the compliment!

Do not change anything about yourself under any circumstances, you are simply divine!

There are no more beautiful moments than the minutes spent with you!

I have been incredibly lucky in my life, because for me you are the most beautiful of all! You are worthy of admiration and the most wonderful compliments!

Spring and summer bring joy to many! And it makes me happy when I see you and your charming beauty!

You have a very beautiful smile! I feel happy when I see her.

You have an amazing look: when you look, it feels like I feel your touch.

You know, even if you take all the cosmetics in the world, they won’t be able to hide your true beauty!

You are my scarlet flower, my guardian angel. Let the constellation of love shine brightly above our heads, I love you with all my soul, my sun.

I loved you from the first second of meeting and will always love you, my joy!

You are an amazing goddess! Just a gift from above!

Every day I love you more.

You always know how to surprise me and please me. You just read in my heart, like in a book.

I have never seen such beautiful ones in my life long hair, clear glowing skin and fine facial features!

I wish you a lot of positivity, may good luck happen to you today, and may everything go smoothly, like in a movie!

I know for sure that I couldn’t find you dearer on the entire planet!

You are so refined, so refined and beautiful, I can’t help but admire you!

How do you manage to put so much meaning into your little greetings?

Hello my dear, know that I love you! I can’t live even a single day without you!

What's wrong with your phone? I’m calling you, they tell me - the subscriber is currently making love, wait for your turn!

There are people whose absence resembles the absence of oxygen. You are exactly that kind of person.

No, you're not fat at all. You are perfect - just the build I like. There is something to take on, it’s nice to hold on to.

Darling, you deserve the most wonderful compliments and admiration. I fell in love with you the first time.

I feel so good with you, know that I adore you and always miss you!

You are the one for whom I began to live and breathe. I love you and will always love you!

It's a terrible thing. I was diagnosed and found you in my heart!

All girls are angels. But you are a special angel! You are my guardian angel!

You are dear to me and love endlessly! No stranger in heart and soul. I want to always caress and undead you, adoring you!

Your lips are worthy of admiration!

Even the angels enviously look at you from heaven, admiring your unearthly beauty!

You are a charm! Your eyes, smile, sweet kisses make my heart beat faster.

I love how cute you purse your lips before giving the world your unique smile!

Love you! Your beauty makes my eyes darken!

You are adorable! What eyes! They catch you so much that it gives you goosebumps. They just don't let go!

When you look at me, I become happier!

You are like the morning sun, driving away the night!

I love you, tender darling, I think about you, I suffer, I can’t live without you, I’m dying, I want to kiss you, I adore you!

Hello my dear, know that I love you! I can’t live even a single day without you!

The geometry of your figure is amazing!

May your day go well in the morning. And everything will get better! Let the sun smile on you, my beauty!

Great minds are full of ideas, scientific minds think about formulas and numbers; in my thoughts now only you, my beloved!

When I look at you, I just lose reality!

Let this day fly by like a holiday, and let my kiss be in a hurry to come to you!

When I see you, I forget to breathe. Love you!

A new day has come again to give us the joy of life! Darling, it's time to get up!

I think you deserve the title of the dazzling beauty of the city!

I wonder how many men have already drowned in your bottomless, beautiful eyes? I'm next!

The depth of your two dark blue pools cannot be described in words, but believe me, I am absolutely sure that they are the most amazing beautiful eyes in the world.

My dear dear, I want to confess, frankly, that I don’t know anyone better, more beautiful and smarter than you!

You are like a fairy fairy, you are worthy of admiration!

Let the day bring the radiance of success, fill all your time with the murmur of laughter, and let it lead you gently to the evening to plunge into boundless passion! Beautiful words of greeting to a girl.

I can’t imagine my day without you, it’s empty without you, it makes no sense. With you I only understand how wonderful life is!

It’s good and easy with you, as if I’m alone with myself.

You know, my life will not be enough to give you a suitable compliment, because every day you become more and more beautiful!

Pretty girls know their worth, so they like to be conquered. Where does the conquest of a pretty female begin? Since meeting! If a guy approaches a girl he likes on the street and asks, hesitantly or confidently:
"Girl! I can meet you!" What does he hear most often in response? - No! Because this answer comes naturally to a beautiful and proud girl.
To avoid being rejected right away, the girl (woman) needs to be intrigued or make her laugh cool phrase. This is the beginning of what is now called the very fashionable word PICKUP (Pickup rules or acquaintance for the purpose of seduction)

So original phrases for acquaintance:

You couldn't smile, it's dark outside. (Any girl will melt)

How do you manage to do this?.. Look so good. (100% option)

How lovely! Are these your legs?

Why did you stop smiling, I just started falling in love?!

Have you ever had young people crawl at your feet before?

Can I look at you?..

You are so beautiful that I forgot the phrase with which I wanted to approach you. (Definitely disarms the girl)

Have you already turned off many people today? I only have three so far. Well, the arrogant girls have gone.

You must have been the ringleader. At least you turn me on terribly.

Do you need a husband? (“No!” - “Oh, then I should come to you!”)

You're so cool that I'm ready to drink bath water after you!

Hi, do you think we'll be like a young dynamic couple?

Girl, are you interested in cute unmarried guys? No, I'm not talking about myself, I'm talking about a friend. His girlfriend is a bitch and left him. Aren't you a bitch?

Walk past her, then turn around sharply and ask: “Didn’t you just pinch my butt?.. No?.. Damn! It’s a pity...”

Do you look at everyone like that or only at those you like?

Why are you looking at me as if your parents had gone to the dacha?

Who do you think likes whom more: you or me? (Presumptuous, so look at the girl)

Help me go left! (Rough, but it might work)

Is it okay that I come to you with such a smart look?

Stop! We stared at each other so much that we forgot to introduce ourselves. Let's try again. (This is if the girl really stares)

Your dress looks great on you, but it would look better on my bedroom floor. (Only suitable for real womanizers)

Could you please wake me up tomorrow morning by calling cellular telephone, otherwise I'm afraid to oversleep.

You have the most a nice place got dirty. (Very intriguing)

Girl, can you tell me how to get to your heart?

I looked in the dictionary for a synonym for the word “beautiful” - your name was there too...

Girl, I'm looking for a dance partner... Allow me to study you more carefully.

By any chance, do you have my book?.. No? Yes, I gave it to someone to read, and to someone else... I only remember that someone was very nice!

What will you do this evening after we meet you?

Shall we talk, or will we continue to wink at each other?

Did you happen to see my white horse running here five minutes ago?

You smiled so beautifully that I forgot where I was going.

You are so sad... Can I take away your sadness? I need it for experiments.

Unfortunately, now I don’t have time to melt your cold gaze, but I can call you in the evening.

What is your shoe size?.. I have 45. Well, we met!

Girl, what time do you think is appropriate to be late?

Hello! Today we are lucky...

Girl, please call an ambulance! Cupid just shot me!

Hello! Did you recognize?.. I didn’t recognize you right away either.

Let me walk you home. At least with a glance.

I have an unusual question for you - what should you say to a girl to get a slap in the face?..

Girl, excuse me, but aren’t your legs tired?.. You can’t get out of my head all the time.

Girl, do you believe in love at seventh sight?

Girl, I liked you so much that I’ve been following you for three stops already... Do you mind if we sit down and rest a little?

Girl, you don't know how to get to the Eiffel Tower?

Girl, do you know why Tefal cookware is good? Because it can hit someone on the head who is very tired of it, and since you don’t have this valuable utensils now, I decided to find out your name and ask for your phone number.

Do you play drums?.. No... Me too! Look how much we have in common, let's

Sorry, I forgot my phone number. Can you lend me yours?

You know, after a long search, I finally found a cafe where you and I can have a wonderful time.

Do you have a thread to start our relationship right here?

Girl, do you have a compass? What about the hourglass? I don't think it's worth asking about the barometer.

Girl, your help is urgently needed!.. The fact is that I am going to drown. And your eyes are perfect for this.

The only thing your eyes didn't tell me was your name.

I'm a newcomer. Can you tell me how to get to your house?

I noticed that you noticed me, and I would like to notice that I noticed you too.

Girl, do you know why the lens is round but the photos come out square? (I can ask you to take a photo before doing this)

Giving a girl a flower: “I really wanted to show this rose how beautiful you are...”

Do you know how this street (station, square, carriage) differs from all others?.. Here I met you...

If you think that I am going to get to know you, then you are mistaken - I also want to invite you on a date!

Girl, you don't know New Year will it be this year or next?

Girl, you see that one young man? So he doesn’t know yet, doesn’t know yet... What’s your name?.. And mine is Misha. So, that young man still doesn’t know that we just met.

You know, I have absolutely no idea what I should say to get to know you, but let’s better imagine that I’ve already said all this.

Girl, did you sleep well last night? And didn’t even toss and turn? But I couldn’t sleep all night waiting for our meeting.

Girl, do you have a home? Plush Toys? Me too! Let's introduce them.

I bet you are a stubborn person... I read in a magazine that girls who wear round earrings/red pants/green bags/whatever are very stubborn people. (Most people consider themselves stubborn, so it's very easy to start a conversation.)

Could you tell me which direction I should go to meet a girl who is ATTRACTIVE AND SMART AT THE SAME TIME? There? (pointing in one direction) There? (pointing in the other direction) Or stay here (smile)?

Hello. I agree...

Don't you remember me, I lived next door? No? And it’s not surprising - after all, I never lived next to you. Maybe we have everything ahead?

Hello, I'm your dream.

Having come close enough to the girl, you can stand for a minute or two with the air of a person thinking about something of his own, and then stun the unfortunate girl with an innocent question: “Girl!” Can I hold on to you, otherwise your beauty makes my legs give way?

When I get old, I will remember the most bright moments of my life: about the day my children were born, about my wedding day, and about the day I met you.

Please remind me what I was wearing the last time I saw you?

Can you tell me the time?.. How about free time?

Girl, do you meet young and attractive people?

Hello Vera! (You come up and hug him tightly). It's been so long since I've seen you! (Kiss her) Wow, how you have changed! (She, not understanding anything, answers: “I’m not Vera.”) What? My God, you even changed your name!

Girl, wait! You seem to have lost something!.. I don’t see your smile anywhere!! Oh no! Here I have found it!!

Girl, kiss me if I'm wrong, but it seems your name is Evdokia?

Girl, do you know what I just saw? I saw one young man who had just met a girl. And literally after five minutes of conversation they communicated as if they had known each other for 100 years. By the way, you know how the young man started the conversation. He said: “Do you know what I just saw?..”

Girl, forgive me, weren’t you hit by a shrapnel?.. It’s just that you broke my heart as you passed by. I thought, what if I caught your attention?

You approach the girl with a smile: “Girl, lend your hand, I’ll tell you what you have on it.” If she reaches out, you take her hand, actively touch it, and with huge eyes and a surprised voice: “Amazing!.. She’s all in your fingers!”

This one has beautiful girl must have a nice phone number!

After trying for a long time to catch his eye, smiling: “Why are you looking at me so intently?” She: “I’m not looking at you.” “Okay, why don’t you look at me?..”

The girl is standing with her back to you. You take out a piece of thread about 30 centimeters long from your pocket and pretend that you are removing it from the girl’s shoulder. Here you can say the phrase: “How long has this been hanging on you?”

If a girl is in sunglasses with mirrored lenses, you can ask to use them as mirrors (to comb your hair, for example).

If a girl is reading a book, then give her a beautiful bookmark with a picture of a nice animal or flower; at worst, a leaf from a tree will do, with the words: “I noticed that your book doesn’t have a bookmark, so I decided to give it to you. It seems to me that This bookmark suits your book very well." If she has a bookmark, you just need to offer a more beautiful option.

How did you know I was here?

It was very interesting which of us would smile wider.

Can I look at your profile? Thank you. You have one of the most beautiful profiles I've ever seen in my life.

Can you forgive yourself... if I don't get to know you?

If you are afraid of being sent when trying to meet someone, then approach twenty girls with the goal of being sent and try really hard! What are you afraid of - that you will be sent or that you will not be able to be sent? If the girls ask, just say: “My friend said that it is very difficult to be sent by a girl. I bet with him for 20 rubles, so you will help me earn money for beer. But I ask you - the message must be of high quality, I will I'll record it on a tape recorder."

When you are near a girl, inflate balloon, write or draw with a marker what you want, and solemnly hand it over.

Shake off her shoulder, sleeve, back (but not butt) and say: “Now you look even better. I am Alexander.”

You hand the girl a piece of paper with the words “Please read it, otherwise I can’t see well.” On the piece of paper is the text “I really like you, and I suggest we get to know you. My name is...”

You appear in front of a sitting girl and say: “I’ll be right there.” And you disappear, after which you appear again, but as an old acquaintance of hers.

You look at the girl and smile, trying to provoke a response. If she doesn't smile, stick out your tongue and smile again.

You buy bubble, and you let them go towards the girl, not forgetting to smile. Then you can go up and give them to her with the words: “Now it’s your turn.”

You ask the question: “Girl, what’s wrong with you?” After her surprise: “Now, here...” You take out your mobile phone, take a picture of her and show her the picture. "See?" She will be even more surprised. You answer, smiling: “HOW?!?? There’s no smile on your face!?!”

You rip out a simple flower BY THE ROOT, go up to a girl or a group of girls and say: “This is a flower, and I am Sergei.”

In transport

Wasn't it you who just pinched me?

Girl: Are you going out?
You: If you invite, then yes.

I can’t reach the handrail - can I hold on to you?

I saw such a crowd of people three times in my life: at the carnival in Rio de Janeiro, during student unrest in Cambridge and in Bondarchuk’s film “War and Peace”.

They don't put much pressure on you?.. Do you know why? Because I'm holding them all back. Now I know how fish feel in a tin can.

Please stamp my brains with your name and phone number.

Girl you know today big celebration, it’s just an anniversary! A holiday means that I have the pleasure of riding on the same tram with you, and an anniversary means this is the tenth time. How about going to "..." to celebrate this cause? (go for a walk...)

I just thought that if it weren’t for your smiling face, which I see every morning, I would probably quit my job and stay at home.

Is it okay if I stare at you from up close and not from across the bus?

You see how good we are at fighting for our balance.

At the bus stop

Girl, can you tell me how long ago the required bus left?

Girl, what do you think is the best trolleybus door to enter (which tram car to go in)?

Excuse me, can you tell me which bus is better to take?"

No, I suggest not to miss such a wonderful moment and get to know each other right now!”

In the underground

Why do you always get off at the same stop as me?

Have you ever met an interesting young man in?

Would you like me to give you a ride on the escalator?

Excuse me, but if I take the first carriage, will I get to the Borovitskie Vorota station? What if I sit in the last one? What if together with you?

Can you tell me where the dining car is?

You probably know. I bought pasta, but I have no idea what to do with it... Is it possible for me to always consult with you?

Can you tell me where men's tights with holes for hair are sold here?

- (In line) Doesn’t it bother you that there’s a handsome single guy standing behind you?

- [Counting change] Girl, how much is your smile worth?

In the cafe

Sorry, I have a little problem here. See that table over there?.. There are too many lonely chairs around it. How about you join me?

Girl, would you like me to treat you to a French cake or Turkish coffee?

In the museum

Would you hang this painting in your home?

If I had a million dollars, I would buy you this painting.

I think this is a portrait of your great-great-great-grandmother.

In the elevator

Aren't you afraid of being stuck in an elevator with a maniac like me?

Do you know if this elevator goes to heaven?

In room

It seems to me that you are a creative person...

Do you believe in love at first sight or should I enter again?

In the dark

Do you meet in the dark? And under the lantern?
- You are beautiful?

On the beach

- Girl, help me squeeze out my swimming trunks, please...

Girl, I see you swim so well, could you watch me, otherwise I don’t know how to swim at all. Ice cream and coffee as a thank you.

Please give me your glasses, otherwise my swimming trunks have sunk.

You look very sexy in fins and a mask!

Please keep an eye on my things while I'm swimming.

Girl, teach me how to eat watermelon, will you? Otherwise I can’t. I eat the crust and I’m already full.

Young woman! Be so kind as to stop walking past that old man with your hips swaying. He's already had two heart attacks! Better walk past me, I have a strong heart.

- Girl, would you like me to guess what you have under your swimsuit? (Risky!)

Girl, can I sleep on your sunbed? Don’t get up, don’t get up!..(Even more risky)

- Girl, where is the sand you walked on? I'll run and kiss him. If you want, I’ll kiss this asphalt for you! I’ll kiss any trash for your sake, even your girlfriend and your husband! (this will make a girl laugh a hundred pounds, but that’s already half the battle)

In a place that is not very suitable for making acquaintances, for example, in a queue to a paid dry toilet:
- Have you ever met a girl in the toilet?

Generations replace each other, but the difficulties faced by young people do not change. If before guys didn’t know how to say “hello” to a young lady on the street, today they are embarrassed to start communicating online.

Thus, new technologies have not at all eased the problem of dating, but on the contrary, they have added another burning question: how to start a correspondence with a girl. Maybe dedicate touching poems to her to make a good impression?

Let us give specific examples of proper communication with representatives of the fairer sex on social networks.

Communication in real life differs significantly from dating on VKontakte. In a personal meeting, a young man is able to impress a young lady with a worthy appearance, charm her with refined manners.

Conversation on social media networks depends, first of all, on the guy’s ability to interest a potential interlocutor with the information on his profile, the ability to communicate and look after him beautifully (in the virtual world).

The first most important thing is to properly design the page on the site so that it does not seem empty. A prerequisite is to upload high-quality photographs, For example:

1. A personal photo portrait made in high-quality resolution, with a minimum amount of Photoshop effects.
2. Captured moments of your life - playing sports, sightseeing in various places around the country and the planet.
3. Pictures with different girls, so that after the first message you have a reason to tell who these young ladies are to you.

Don’t forget to join various VK groups and indicate a variety of hobbies. However, do not start a conversation if you are in such ambiguous communities as, for example, “Pickup Truck Features,” “Pickup Truck for Macho,” or “We Divorce Girls for Sex.”

Before you start communicating on VK, quietly “scroll through” her page to get certain information that will make getting to know each other easier. This will help you avoid mistakes in your first message and find different common ground. On the site you can find out:

• how often the potential interlocutor surfs the Internet and VKontakte;
• in which communities it is registered;
• how many online fans does she have;
• supposed hobbies.

So, how to properly meet people on the Internet?

1. Radiate positivity. Communicate with a woman with humor, but do not use sarcasm towards the interlocutor. Make jokes more often, use emoticons in moderation in your messages, and do not burden the girl with sad stories at the beginning of your acquaintance.
2. Write correctly. The absence of errors is perhaps the first thing that many representatives of the fairer sex pay attention to when corresponding. Before sending a message, check it for literacy through various services that can be found on the Internet.
3. Be polite. Don't forget to say hello. Greeting is a mandatory element of the message, as well as the absence of obscenities, swear words and vulgar words. Advice from pickup truck experts: do not forget to call the young lady by name when communicating, since the name is the most favorite word for every person.
4. Intrigue your interlocutor. Followers of pickup recommend changing communication tactics. For example, after making sure that the girl is interested, try to disappear from VKontakte for several days, stopping the conversation at the most interesting place.
5. Be different. If your first words were extremely brutal, during the communication process, surprise the young lady, for example, by sending her romantic poems. Or inadvertently indicate in the message that you once danced.
6. Be interested in the girl. Communicate with unknown girl quite difficult, but pickup truck experts recommend asking the young lady more often about her hobbies, being interested in her desires and plans for the future. Talking about your interlocutor is a good move.
7. Communicate via SMS. Communication on VK is, of course, wonderful, but if you want to meet in real life, after some time, switch to SMS. A phone message allows you to send poems and greetings in the morning, and generally stay in touch. Of course, there is no need to insist on switching to SMS.

How to start a correspondence?

Find a nice person to talk to on social media. networks and specifically VK is quite simple. However, the following problems immediately arise: what to write to a girl in contact in the first message, how to start a conversation, what should be avoided in communication and how to translate the dialogue into a real meeting.

The first rule of pickup is no platitudes! Forever get rid of the standard messages “Hello, how are you?”, “Let’s meet?”, “Hello, beautiful” from your mind.

Many guys start communicating with girls online using exactly similar phrases. But if the young lady is pretty, such messages on VK come to her regularly.

The first message should be short and concise. Pickup artists recommend that before sending a message, check whether it answers three important questions that arise in every pretty girl’s head after the young lady reads your succinct “hello.”

Here are the following questions for dating and communicating on the Internet:

1. Who are you? I mean, your name.
2. For what purpose did you start communicating? Your tasks: just communicate, find out something from the girl, invite her on a date, etc.
3. Why did you choose her from the numerous female company on VK? Perhaps you found common ground, noticed something on her page, etc.

The first messages and masculine greetings should interest the potential interlocutor, force her to start and continue communication.

Do you need to come up with a complex greeting or write a huge text? Another pickup rule is that the first message can consist of two or three sentences, but they must be catchy.

Don’t forget to say hello and include your own name in the greeting - you need to introduce yourself even if you have personal information on your page. You want your interlocutor to form a positive opinion about you, right? Moreover, in decent societies it is customary to voice your name when meeting someone.

If you don't know what excuse to give as a reason for communication, don't worry. Your desire to communicate, carry on a conversation and simply get to know a pretty young lady is already a sufficient excuse to send a message. Of course, you should not indicate in the first sentences that you dream of having children with her and walking down the aisle next Sunday.

So, the first message should be original and creative. You need to avoid vulgarities and all sorts of sexual innuendos, so as not to end up on the blacklist of unreliable users. Even if you are a pick-up guy, you don't need to immediately demonstrate the true purpose of the communication.

If your goal is in real life, you shouldn’t delay asking for a date and taking a phone number. Pickup experts recommend immediately pulling your interlocutor out of the network for a meeting, since you absolutely do not need to delay the communication.

The girl does not agree to communicate via SMS and does not want to meet in real life? Don’t immediately dismiss her, try to practice communication and tackles with representatives of the fairer sex. In addition, perhaps after one or two messages the young lady will change her mind and go on a date with you.

If you really have serious intentions, and not just a pickup, then there is no specific time frame for meeting and communicating on the Internet with the girl you like.

Keep up the conversation, send poems and pictures to the cute young lady, in general, show yourself to be a good conversationalist. Then, when it opens, you can switch to communicating via SMS. And there it’s already close to the real meeting.

Getting to know a pretty young lady on VK is not so difficult, but only if you adhere to certain rules and are not afraid of numerous pitfalls.

It is important to understand that the first message is the main key for subsequent communication and further development of relationships. Avoid platitudes, use original phrases and write compliments to girls. Perhaps an ordinary conversation online will be the beginning of a passionate romance and love!

Hello, I am Nadezhda Plotnikova. Having successfully completed her studies at SUSU as a specialized psychologist, she devoted several years to working with children with developmental problems and consulting parents on issues of raising children. I use the experience gained, among other things, in creating articles of a psychological nature. Of course, I in no way claim to be the ultimate truth, but I hope that my articles will help dear readers deal with any difficulties.