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“People meet, people fall in love, get married.” A variety of people meet and, being for each other, become two halves of one whole.
It happens that people meet, different not only by their inner worlds, but also by their country of residence, religion, traditions.
Let's talk about Russian-Arab marriages. How do such couples meet, what are the difficulties in their relationship, how to understand a person with a different mentality?
In our country, in different cities, according to statistics, about 15 thousand people live in Arab countries. And enough of them are married to Russian women.
Most often, such couples get to know each other, studying at the same university, less often in a cafe or a movie, on the streets, at parties with common friends or chatting on the Internet. Russians also get to know Arabs while on vacation in Arab countries.
What attracts the eastern boys of Russian girls? Usually Arabs have a bright and memorable appearance, they are extremely polite, they create a very pleasant impression about themselves. They are very beautiful at caring for a girl, give expensive gifts, and are very attentive. And a woman, as you know, loves with ears and eyes.
But what awaits such a couple after they realize that love is between them? After all, there is so much between them ... First of all, this is religion.
Most Arabs are Muslims, many quite strictly observe Islam. Relatives and friends of a young man are often against the Russian bride, especially of another religion. And public opinion in the East plays an important role. There are couples whose parents did not approve of the marriage on the part of the husband. Such families live more often on the territory of our country, the husband visits home alone, and there are cases when he has another family there. That is, his parents, having not approved the marriage with a Russian woman, forced his son to marry “his” one more time. And since Islam allows a Muslim to have up to four wives, he lives in Russia with one wife, and a second is waiting for him in his homeland. Sometimes a Russian bride accepts Islam for her beloved. The Arab relatives are more loyal to such, especially if the girl really sincerely became a Muslim, studies her husband’s religion, performs the obligatory prayer, dresses according to Sharia standards. But, nevertheless, this is not the last difficulty in the relationship.
Of course, in any marriage there are problems, people begin to live together, the habits of one may contradict the habits of another, people adapt to each other. And in marriage with an Arab, all this is compounded by the fact that he was brought up from childhood on the following principle: a man is the head of the family, his word is the law for his wife. And this cannot be eradicated. The Arab wife should either take it for granted, or, most likely, the marriage will fall apart sooner or later. We have to step over ourselves, through how we were raised, through our habits. But for the love of her husband, everything is possible.
Difficulties also arise if a husband takes his wife to his homeland. Not every Russian woman can take root and fall in love with a foreign country. Someone gradually gets used to it and lives, but someone just runs away or wants to run away from her husband and all his Arab relatives, but remains to live in a marriage in a foreign land because of the fear that the spouse will not give up children.
It is a well-known fact that his family will have a great influence on the husband, therefore it is very important that the attitude of the mother-in-law to the Russian daughter-in-law is not bad and even more hostile.
The support of the husband is very important, especially in the first year of life of a Russian wife in a foreign country. Arabs, like many other eastern nations, often live in the same house with their parents, so that children can take care of their elderly parents. And the daughter-in-law, of course, has a hard time, and the foreign daughter-in-law is even more difficult.
If family life continues on the territory of the wife, then problems arise, for example, after the birth of children. A man from the East is most often a very attentive father. This, of course, is a big plus, but there are also some nuances from which quarrels in the family arise, for example on religious grounds, especially if the spouses belong to different faiths. So, there are often cases when a Christian wife would like to christen a child, and a Muslim husband will undoubtedly be against it, because according to Islam, a child whose father is Muslim is also Muslim and must be brought up according to Islamic traditions. Surely it will be the husband who will decide how the child will be called, how to raise him, how to dress him, and so on. Not every mother will unconditionally agree to entrust her husband with important aspects of raising her baby. Disagreements can cause a child’s clothes, feeding - when and what exactly to feed the baby, parenting issues and much more.
It happens that troubles arise due to the holidays. Of course, many of us are used to celebrating birthdays, the New Year, and in the Arab countries, not everyone celebrates this. In Islam there are only two major holidays, and both of them relate to religion. Many Muslims do not celebrate anything else. Many Arab husbands forbid Russian wives to celebrate non-Islamic events and teach their children to do this.
What is important so that, having gone through all the difficulties, to keep love and go through life hand in hand? Probably the most important thing is mutual respect, mutual assistance, mutual understanding. It is necessary to realize that an Arab man is from a completely different environment, and it can also be difficult for him. But the husband and wife are still one whole, and this whole must be preserved, no matter how difficult it is. And then love will not break into family life and all those warm and bright feelings for each other that were sparks at the very beginning of the acquaintance will be preserved.
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About Arabs and Russian girls:
I would like to say a few words in defense of our girls ... You never know how to dress, if the girl has beautiful legs, why don’t she put on a mini skirt, this is not at all a reason to think that she is a prostitute or some kind of frivolous one.
Yes, in our country this is perceived normally, but in Arab or Turkey, you are a prostitute only because you were born in Ukraine or Russia and you have such an attitude. I was in Turkey and noticed that there was no elementary respect for our girls from these Turks.
Impudent, persistent, lustful animals what else to say about them. I was at a disco in Kemer and watched a picture of how two Turks were sitting and our girls were with them, so they did it there ... brazenly climbed the girls under the dresses without any hesitation, in general, they arranged some orgies in front of our eyes. How many here I have not visited nightlife anywhere I have not seen this. I would have driven them all of these Turks to behave like wild animals!
One day, in one of my visits to a nightclub in my native Kharkov, I met a foreign friend, from which regions he didn’t understand yet, I had a birthday at that time, he took the initiative and paid the bill (they were alone with a girlfriend), moreover Then he insistently began to invite me to visit.
And then ... they found out that he was a Turk, although he didn’t look very much like him. Well, we naturally politely sent him to hell, then after a while we saw him in the same institution a couple of times and all with new ladies.
Yes, these Turks simply will not do anything disinterestedly.
And our girls do not have advice on their tales !!!
Mila, letter to the editors of the site.
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Comment administration site. Answers Alexandra - editor-in-chief.
Mila, thank you very much for your letter! However, agreeing with you is very difficult.
The difference in mentality (Slavs and Turks) is huge. Absolutely normal and ordinary things for us are completely unacceptable in Muslim countries. And guests, including vacationers, should have at least basic respect for their culture.
No one talks about the need to wear a burqa, hijab, abaya and other things that I have learned about over the years of work on this site, but you should not flaunt Muslim (!) Men in short shorts and tops. It is as if you are waving a red rag in front of the bull, for men, the reflex that the girl is looking for adventure subconsciously works. For a trip to the Arab countries it is better to buy a light long skirt, which, by the way, will turn out to be more comfortable in the conditions of 50 degree heat.
As for marriages with Turks, Arabs, I can say from experience that this is possible!
If a woman learns to behave in Islamic society, proves herself to be a hospitable hostess, a wise wife and a loving mother, and her husband becomes a reliable support and protection for the whole family (even in front of relatives), the result will be a lasting, happy marriage (many such examples on our website).
And, believe me, it will not matter who is of what nationality and religion.
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23 comments for “ Arabs and women from Russia are incompatible (letter from Mila)”
- Olga:
Girls, never believe the Arabs!
I met with an Arab from Iraq for six months, at first there was love too, swore to me that she loved only me and nobody else. I also met on the Internet and saw each other more than once.
He said that his parents were not against our marriage, and after it turned out that his parents had already married him in an Arab from Iraq and they would have a wedding soon! How can I understand all this?! Only after that I opened my eyes to all these "Arabs" and it’s good that in time I learned everything about his deception.
Do not believe them, they just have fun with us and right here many girls write how cunning these Arabs are. Now I believe how many girls they have broken their lives !!!
- Lada:
fine letter, to the point, it is. Girls above your head are you princesses and do not get fooled by these assholes 😉
- Olga:
Dear, Mila! And the fact that there is a difference in mentality, it did not occur to you? What is considered normal in our country is completely unacceptable to them and vice versa. And, please, do not tell here that ALL Russians and Ukrainians are treated badly in Turkey and the Arab countries. How you behave will be true. I have visited Turkey many times, and, believe me, there has never been a disrespectful attitude towards my person. Respect yourself first and foremost. And do not forget that you are going to rest in a country with a completely different mentality.
- ALEX:
Is it possible to discourage a wolf from eating sheep? No, because this is his nature. Is it possible to dissuade some Slavs from sleeping with Arabs, Negroes, Turks? No, such is their nature Is it possible to destroy the Negro’s great dream to sleep with a white woman? After all, this feeds his ego as an irresistible handsome and unsurpassed lover (with Arab it won’t work with women) And the point is not so much that they buy fake, annoying, sugary, sweet, flowery stuff - this is compliments, attention, false promises, supposedly tenderness, etc. or on sexuality, real or mythical. The essence is in themselves. Some of these unfortunate women, after this false gilding flies, understand that they’ve "got" and begin to hysterically and feverishly seek a way out. For the majority of the indicated females, it is sweet to BE SLAVES AND SUFFER. Those. there is an accentuation of character with elements of masochism. There can neither be exhortations of relatives, nor the advice of friends and acquaintances, nor the bitter experiences of other victims, nor psychologists and even psychoanalysts .. TAKOVA THEIR NATURE
There is nothing more false and empty than the statement "Among every nation there are villains and precursors." There is only a national ethnic mentality, that is, the predominance (not 100%!) in the national mass of certain traits (Russians — Germans drink a lot and lazy Germans — pedants and workaholics Americans — are “imprisoned” for career and success, etc.) Does the “Oriental” have positive qualities Absolutely. Among these are loyalty to the blood ties to the clan clan family. THIS IS WHEREAS THE SLAVIC FAVORITES OF THE “EASTERN PRINCE” WILL NEVER BECOME OURSELF FOR ISLAMBIAN RELATIVES! THEY ARE ALIEN BY BLOOD! Consent that the son marries the "infidel" is merely a concession to the capricious spoiled child.
As if the “beloved” did not try (the adoption of Islam, the readiness to put on closed clothes, sitting in four walls, servility obedience to the relatives of the “oriental”) SHE WILL BE IN THE BEST CASE TOLERANT IN THE WORLD-RESISTANT (our handsome son is worthy of the best and his own blood!) .Among the negative features of the Oriental- lying, cowardice, laziness, lasciviousness and voluptuousness (however, this is welcomed by the chosen ones), treachery, insidious cruelty, a tendency to physical and psychological violence (but always only in relation to the defenseless, bereaved weak), betrayal (but not to one’s own), servility and obsequiousness towards the strong and rich, quick temper, hot temper tantrums of irrational anger. As if the “oriental” did not mask or suppress the manifestations of these qualities, these manifestations erupt and fall upon the heads of the "chosen ones." And the last. The word "Natasha" in Egypt and Turkey has become synonymous with the word "Russian (Ukrainian Belarusian) prostitute. The local “Casanians” have albums with photographs of “victims of their charm” and even videos “with their participation in the act). Yes. I hear I- NOT SUCH !!! MY FRIENDS ARE NOT SUCH !!! WE HAVE ONLY ON LOVE !!! Then stop seducing and seducing with your idiotic advice those who are ready to set foot on the slippery slope. Of course, I am not a decree for you and others like you. But, there is a God who endures for a long time, but painfully beats later.
- ALEX:
- Anita:
Mila Hello. To begin with, if you are going to another country, then respect the customs and people who live there.
What kind of ambition that I want to turn around, where is the culture. Undress in Russia even if you go in underpants, even my girls in bathing suits annoy me, it doesn’t matter whether it is a beach or a grocery store.
As for appearance, the Turks are a mixed nation (because of the warrior, unless of course you remember the school curriculum) there are a lot of dark-haired but also plenty of light ones, blue and green eyes are not uncommon and European features are present.
Disco, everything is just like in Russia, our ladies spread their legs for a cocktail. And again, this is your lack of awareness if you notice that the Turkish women are not at the disco, and if there is, then she is only with her man. Well, if suddenly the Turkish woman is alone or with a girlfriend, then they work ... you know who ... a prostitute. Draw conclusions :)
As for prudence, I’d argue with you))) In my opinion, men in Russia are more greedy and cunning, they just sing in your native language, but this tale seems more true to you.
Our men are not so beautifully looked after, not so brightly felt, we spoiled them. And I’ll tell you a terrible secret all the men initially want only sex ... and they are all animals in part, that's just all in your hands, how you behave and get it.
- Mila:
Yes, such an impression was formed about the Turks exclusively from my own experience, as I narrated earlier.
And when I was in Turkey, their excessive attention did not give me joy. I went to Turkey myself, and as I arrived naturally I didn’t know anyone, only then I met our guys who were resting and when the Turks saw that you yourself started “courtship moments”
And what should I tell if the first time I went outside the hotel ... their reaction to our women shock me.And what should I wear on the beach, to which 300m, naturally beachwear, shorts or a skirt.
In general, I think it’s not a secret for anyone that “hot blood” flows in the veins of Turks and other Muslims, and this gives its imprint and there is no arguing with that. - Irina:
Yes, of course, you must respect the customs of the country in which you arrived, BUT ...
Let us remember that in Egypt, Turkey, Tunisia, etc. we are BROKEN, ASKED to come, because we carry a FREE CURRENCY CURRENCY there, their country earns us. And it is for our money that they teach their children and treat their old people. We must be respected, otherwise we won’t come. Right now in Egypt they spilled oil on the sea and on the beaches, because by the winter half the country would die of hunger.
Should I respect their mentality and hang around in the maxi in the heat? Or should they respect me?
We Slavs are crazy, we need to admit it. I saw on the Arabian beaches of Italians and British women of different ages and complexions, sunbathing topless, and at least someone from the local yelled. First, secondly and ninety-ninth MYSELF must be respected, and only then the mentality of someone. - Anita:
Well, this is ours, if I’m crying, then let’s wash everything :) Therefore, in Turkey, many hotels do not want Russian tourists but prefer Germans. Well, as for business, we have all of Russia in Turkish clothes, shuttles are millions. Our girls intentionally marry the Turks (fictitiously) in order to obtain citizenship and fly without a visa. I don’t know anything about Egypt, my husband, the Turks, does not like Arabs. (They even have a different language and the Arabs are polygamy, etc.)
- Olga:
Well, Anita, why so rude about the Arabs. And it’s not at all necessary for the Arabs to have polygamy, what kind of stereotypes are these :)))) In my Arab husband, maternal blood flows in Turkish blood. And in Egypt, for example, there are many such mixes.
Otherwise, I completely agree with you. Cutlets separately, flies - separately. You don’t need to drag the tourism industry here, because this is not an indicator at all. - Merelin:
Anita
What you wrote 07/21/2010 - 100% true! Actually, Mila needed to at least get acquainted with the traditions and customs of Muslim countries, as well as read on the forums how to behave in Turkey so as not to fall face in the mud.
But then you wrote to Anita that the Arabs are “different” - that you mean different and that polygamy. There is such an expression, each praises its swamp, you are married to a Turk and you praise the Turks, and the Arabs are “different” for you. If your husband does not like Arabs (although I don’t understand why) and you don’t know anything about them, don’t write what you don’t know. I am married to an Arab man, they do not have polygamy - this is generally nonsense about 4 wives! This was hundreds of years ago, and even that of very rich people.
And for Mila, the next time you go to Jordan or Morocco, there you will definitely not have such problems. There, the men are very polite and no one pester!- ALEX:
Have you already renounced the faith of Christ? Islam accepted? Well yes. Beloved so wanted. How not to please, not to please the adored islambek! Well, for completeness, there are closed clothes, a ban on swimming in the sea, talking with men, sitting in four walls. Are you still not washing your mother-in-law's legs? Do not wash her panties? Then, everything is ahead. Beloved and does not want to hear about the harem? Well, a joke. Maybe it doesn’t go to the mosque? Nothing. I’ll accumulate my favorite money (the second or third wife is not a cheap pleasure), and she will say “Love Men? Then connect our traditions. Elder wife, khanum, budesh! ”And the relatives will calm down. The son will marry the girls of their blood. As though not yet a cousin, a second cousin!
Do not create illusions! After all, your father-mother told you the same thing. At best, you will be tolerant, at worst, despised. Slaves sometimes feel sorry, but always despise. I do not wish you luck. Sorry. I would like to live up to the day when you grow old, go into circulation, and you will be thrown out like no one needs garbage. Then, perhaps, I remember, our ever-drunk, tongue-tied, foul-smelling Vanya. After all, she often gets leftovers from someone else's table . And yet ... Do not need this babble "My Islam-cultural, educated, modern." The wolf changes coat, but not nature.
- ALEX:
- Anita:
Merlin, Olga, I don’t praise anyone, I’m talking about what I know.
Where I wrote that the Turk is good, the Arab is bad.
Girls read carefully please, I do not know the writing. And we do not have to waste time on useless correspondence. These are the words of my husband, not mine.
And why doesn’t he love, maybe you can give her husband’s mail ask? - Olga:
Anita, there are many women who are married to Arabs, so, in my opinion, you should not quote your husband’s words here. This is his own business. We all here express our own point of view (and not what our husbands think about this or that nation), based on our own experience of family life or communication with representatives of another nation and religion. In all other respects, I completely agree with you.
- alex:
Yes ... Some Türks married to Slavs show disrespect for Arabs, including those who are married to Slavic women. And vice versa. Yes, this is a problem of universal proportions and universal significance. The heart is compressed from pain (from anger - too), tears come to my eyes! Where are you, Shakespeare? Only he could describe the sufferings of the poor, console and dispel their doubts. Only who describes the humiliation of Slavic husbands, grooms, gentlemen, who preferred the Turk or the Arab? Who will tell about the sufferings of the father, mother, relatives of the wretched female mates who chose Islambek? They said so. Warned. No !!! He is the most beautiful! The most tender! The most caring! Most sweet-voiced! Either he, or I-in the loop! Who will tell about the feelings of those who believe in Christ, who see how the daughters of Christ easily change the faith of their grandfathers to Islam in order to please their eastern "princes" and their relatives! That's what I tell you all. For the majority of Slavic men, and women too, bastard beasts are worse than prostitutes. Those, spreading their legs, although they sin, but they do not change faith. And remember! NO ROAD BACK! Remember the Soviet students who married Syrians in their time
- alex:
- Merelin:
Anita, we are to some extent “colleagues” since we are Muslims married to foreigners. No one here is going to extol this or that nation. It seems to me that everyone has found or will find his happiness where he was destined. For example, I’ve never thought that I would marry a foreigner and, more likely, an Arab man. I was not a racist, but I was not a fan of eastern men. But it so happened that on my life's path it was a slave man who met. On your way met Turkish. God give you health, patience, strength and happiness, as well as all women who are married to foreigners!
The desire of foreigners to marry a Russian woman still does not fade. In Italy, even the book “How to Marry a Russian Woman” was published, which gives detailed tips on how to call a Russian woman to marry and live with her after the wedding. So why are foreigners so interested in Russian women?
There are several reasons for this:
- immersion in relationships. Men from foreign countries claim that Russians do not play in feelings. If they love, then wholeheartedly giving themselves to the family. Even if the marriage is done with the expectation, the Russian woman treats her husband as a mother, trying to surround him with affection and care, delving into problems and helping her life;
- ready for trouble, risk and problems. Wives from Russia are not afraid of temporary difficulties that arise in the process of moving. They steadily endure troubles in the form of a lack of funds or a lack of stable work. This is most often due to the fact that Russian girls expect more from the future with a foreigner than they could have achieved at home;
- watching themselves. It remains important for foreign grooms that the Russians are trying to look good. The beauty of Russian women is recognized all over the world, but for foreigners to conquer such a woman is a separate reason for pride;
- low requests. Russian wives do not make scandals if a man does not devote much time to them. The fact that they were chosen by a foreigner is already increasing significance in their own eyes. Therefore, the absence of complaints is another plus to the choice of a Russian bride;
- liberated. Unlike European women, Russians are more inclined to experiment with her husband, including in bed;
- submissive. The Russian woman does not try to shift the responsibility for the family onto her shoulders, she will gladly give this function to the man and allow him to feel like the head. This is most appreciated by Turkish men, since matriarchy is rare in their country;
- smart ones. Girls from Russia have wisdom, so conflicts and misunderstandings in the family are easier with such a wife. The Russian woman will listen to her husband, give good advice and keep silent in tense situations, thereby smoothing out sharp corners.
Consider in which countries and why Russian wives are preferred.
Why do foreigners love Russian women?
If you understand the issue more deeply, it can be noted that foreigners do not give preference to brides on a national basis. They are interested in the personal qualities of the girl. Speaking frankly, all the qualities that interest foreign suitors are present among Russians.
What do non-Russian men want from a woman:
- all foreigners are looking for beautiful, pleasant brides. Only in Russia, girls devote a lot of time to their appearance, even if they are going to throw out trash. This is a great virtue in the eyes of foreigners;
- grooms are looking for loyal brides. In Russia, girls are preconfigured that a foreigner is higher in status than a Russian man, therefore they treat strangers with such kindness;
- foreign grooms seek to find a bride of childbearing age. They are interested in women from 20 to 40, although 50-year-old ladies are also often popular.
Foreign men, especially Italians, Serbs, French, Turks seek to find a bride who quickly agrees to get married and have children.
In European countries, difficulties arise with this - there women are more oriented toward a career, postpone family ties and having children until a later age. Men do not tend to wait. Russian women are happy to get married, give birth to children, while the duration of the novel before registration at the registry office can be only a few months.
Why do Turkish men love Russian women?
Russian women seem special and unusual to the Turks, since in Turkey it is difficult to find a suitable bride. The main thing that the Turks pay attention to is appearance, beauty and sexuality. They often choose women older than themselves, because even in this situation the Russian woman looks perfect.
Due to the traditions in Turkey, compatriots practically do not pay attention to platonic, sensual relations. In this regard, men have an overabundance of sexual interest that cannot be realized within their own country. Russian women pay great attention to appearance, are ready to experiment and put sexual relations in the center of family life.
Important! Russian women also distinguish Turkish men, which is why spa novels are so often found in popular destinations.
So what attracts Russian brides to Turkish grooms:
- beauty and sexuality. No one, except Russian women, will be on vacation to bring complete make-up and do hairstyle to go down to the sea. Bright outfits, exciting images, sexy presentation, burning eyes - Russians stand out from other visitors to Turkey, which attracts attention to them;
- education and enterprise. In Turkey, few women who have higher education work and bring income to the home. Against this background, Russian girls win. Knowledge, high posts, a combination of skills for family and professional life make Russians attractive to Turks;
- social fitness. Russians pay great attention to the development of the inner world - they travel, attend events, and gain new knowledge. Unlike their compatriots, they are progressive and Turkish men like it.
Important! Such popularity has another side. The Turks see the interest in themselves on the part of Russian girls, so many of them are not afraid to offend the Russians. The Turks have confidence that instead of one bride he will easily get another.
Why do eastern men love Russian girls?
The eastern mentality is fundamentally different from the European idea of \u200b\u200blife and family. Here you can make a small separation.
Tajiks, Arabs and Uzbeks adore Russian brides. This is primarily due to the appearance. Since women in the eastern countries are mostly dark brunettes, white-skinned Russians with blond hair are a real delight for local men.
Love for Russian women is also determined by the general approach to family life. Eastern women are more moody and demanding. They need to give a lot of gold, fulfill the whims, deal with children and pay all expenses. Against this background, the Russian bride, who herself earns and is ready to sacrifice her interests for the sake of family and children, clearly wins.
Why do Hindus love Russian women?
In India, the bride and groom often get to know each other only at a wedding. At the same time, compatriots often do not look after themselves after the wedding, spending time only with children. Therefore, Indians are so interested in Russian brides.
Why do Asians love Russian women?
Asians show interest in the character of Russian wives. The patriarchal system of Asian countries has led women to be submissive there and fulfill all the wishes of their husbands, which is a drawback for the latter.
According to the Asian men themselves, Russian girls combine humility with a man, but also independence and emotionality. She will not blindly follow directions, but will try to solve the problem together.
Why do Caucasian men like Russian women?
Russia is a multinational country, and increasingly it is possible to meet such marriages in which Russian girls are married with Caucasian men. Why is this happening, for what reason do Azerbaijanis, Armenians, Abkhazians, Lezghins and other representatives of the Caucasus choose women not of their nation, namely, Russians?
This situation is facilitated by several reasons:
- with Russian wives easier. They don’t know who they are from; they are open to new acquaintances and relationships, which makes marriage with a Russian woman so desirable for Caucasians;
- girls from Russia are not trying to seem better than they are. They honestly talk about their life, status and work;
- it’s more fun with Russians - they know how to relax and feel great in companies. However, most Russian girls know their measure and do not cross the line in terms of drinking and socializing with the opposite sex;
- russians are trying to emphasize and enhance the status of their husband. You can rely on them in any situation;
- for Caucasian men, it is important that the Russian wife perceives him as a person, and not as a way to receive expensive gifts. Even if a man does not have a lot of money, a Russian woman will gladly meet him and give her love;
- for Georgians, a great advantage is the presence of Russian women of bright appearance, rounded shapes and soft character. In addition, they are captivated by the emotionality of Russian girls, it is impossible to get this from the Georgians.
