What a strong and wonderful feeling love is. She inspires us, inspires, makes us suffer and worry. Here I am, I just can't find a place for myself after a quarrel with you. I am so ashamed in front of you, beloved, for my words, but believe me, all this was not out of malice, emotions just played out. I know I offended you, and therefore, I apologize. Excuse me, please, my dear, unique and unique. Let's make up, and forget our quarrel as the worst dream. I love you, my dear, and I want to always be only with you.
Living life is not a field to cross. And this is absolutely certain. Everything in life cannot always be smooth, it just does not happen. Here we are, my beloved, we are now in a quarrel, but I am sure that very soon we will definitely make up. I just can't stand this separation anymore. Please forgive me for having offended you. I promise that this will never happen again, because all mistakes can be corrected, if only you really want to. And I really want this. Do not hold me more angry, because I love you more than life. You are my very best, dearest.
The word - not a sparrow, flew out - you won't catch it. So I, quite by chance, have such offensive words in your address. Forgive me, please, I realize that I told you nonsense, but it was not at all out of malice. I love you more than life. You are my window light, my ideal, my dream. You're just the best guy on earth. Let's make up, my kitten, and forget this misunderstanding forever. May our boat of love sail calmly in the sea of \u200b\u200bhappiness, may a favorable wind of good luck always blow to it.
Love makes the world bright and colorful. But separation is quite the opposite - gray and dull. So for me now everything is in gray tones, everything seems so dull, because you are not near, my beloved. I can no longer live with you apart, and therefore, I ask you, my beloved, forgive me and come back. Let's enjoy the nectar of love again, let's try to bring back our tender feelings again. It's so hard for us to live without each other. Let this terrible dream end soon, and we will wake up in the beautiful garden of love.
Darling, I feel such an emptiness in my heart, because it’s not you. I know that I myself am to blame for our quarrel, only I am alone. You have a patient, angelic character, and I took advantage of this, and undeservedly offended you. Forgive me, my kitten, do not hold any more grudge against me. Let's make up and be together again. Most of all in my life I am afraid of losing you, my best boyfriend in the world. May the rain wash away our quarrel, may the wind disperse the dark clouds of separation, may our love endure any test.
Love makes people happy, but separation from a loved one makes us the most unhappy. So I consider myself now the most unhappy in the world, because you and I are in a quarrel, my dearest person. I suffer so much in separation from you, I miss you so much. Please forgive me that I wrongly offended you. I promise this will never happen again. Let's keep our love and be together again. I so want to snuggle up to your strong shoulder, to hear your ringing laughter, to feel the tenderness of a kiss.
Darling, you are the kindest, the nicest, the most gentle, you are just mine, I will never give you to anyone. Our little quarrel is like a small grain of sand, compared to such a huge love, like ours. Forgive me, please, for those offensive words that I said to you, do not hold me more angry. Let this little misunderstanding be the biggest test for our love. Let everything remain as before, because we love each other so much. I love you, my dear, and I want to be only with you.
My sweetest person in the world, I'm incredibly lucky with you. I always want to be by your side, although in our situation this is almost impossible, because we are in a quarrel. Darling, forgive me, please, do not bear any more evil on me. Let's make it up, my only one. Forgive me for my thoughtless words. I promise to change. May our love live happily ever after. May all your dreams come true. All the best to you, dear, good luck and family warmth. May our quarrel end quickly and everything will return to its original place.
Sometimes, just one word can hurt a person. So I, not at all from malice, offended you, and now I simply cannot find a place for myself. Please forgive me, my beloved. I'm so sad without you. Don't be angry with me anymore, my dear. This quarrel was a great lesson for me. Forgive me and believe that this will never happen again. I promise to change my insufferable temper to keep my love with you. You are the kindest, the best, and in general you have the most angelic character.
For me, the whole world has become somehow gray and uninteresting, because you are not nearby, my most important person on earth. There is only emptiness and despair in my soul. After all, only I am to blame for everything. Please forgive me, my beloved. Let's make it up to be together again. It was so good for us. You are like a light in a window for me, like a warm ray of sunshine, only with you - I am the happiest. We are now apart, and I love you even more. Let's forget our quarrel like a bad dream.
There are different situations in life. Sometimes you feel so empty, so lonely, because you hurt the person you love. And, as it turns out later, it is completely undeserved. Honey, forgive me, please, I am the one to blame for our quarrel. Believe me, I didn't want this, it just happened, somehow suddenly. Don't be angry with me anymore. You know how much I love you. It’s so difficult for me now without you, life is all gray, there is no joy. I need you like air, I just live and breathe you.
It seems that life just stood still. Everything around is disgusted, there is no mood. Even sunny weather seems gray and overcast. And all because you are not nearby, my kindest, most gentle, most beloved guy on earth. Forgive me, please, because everything is my own fault. I fully admit my mistake, and I promise from now on, first of all, to think rather than present unfounded accusations. I know I hurt you a lot and I apologize. I love you, my desired one.
I am sad and bored without you, my beloved. When you are not next to me, everything seems gray and empty. We are now in a quarrel, and every day we move further and further from each other. I am so afraid of losing our love, and therefore I apologize for my behavior. I understand that I offended you completely without reason. Forgive me my beloved. Let's try to return our old love, because we were so good together. You are my best, most unique, most desirable in the world. Let our love be a talisman for both of us.
We quarreled with you yesterday, and I already feel like the loneliest girl on the whole planet. This quarrel torments me so much, because everything is my own fault. I never thought it would be so difficult for me without you. Forgive me, my beloved, for the insult I have done to you. Let's make up, and we'll be together again as before. I miss your smile, your lips, your ringing laughter. My love for you flares up more and more, forgive me for the insult. Let's try to get everything back, because we were made for each other.
Every person on earth has experienced such a wonderful and powerful feeling as love. She works wonders with us. How nice it is when you have a reliable, kind, sweet, and most important person next to you. You feel protected, needed, and the happiest. I am so sad now, because you are not nearby, my beloved. I apologize to you for all the wrongs that I have done to you. Believe me, it all happened so suddenly, so thoughtlessly. Let's make up, because we were so good together. Do not be offended by me. I love you my darling.
Today, the sun is shining gloomily, and the flowers do not please with their beauty, it seems that all nature has become gray and dull. Nothing makes me happy, because you are not near, my dear. We quarreled with you over a trifle. I admit my guilt and I ask your forgiveness. Do not be offended by me, please. After all, you and I should be happy. Let our quarrel be the first and last test for love. You are for me the most beloved, nicest, most important person on earth, my love for you flares up more every day.
You and I have been quarreling for a whole week now. This is the most terrible test for me. I cannot come to terms with the fact that you are not nearby, my beloved. Let's forget our quarrel as the worst dream. After all, we are simply created for each other, and our quarrel is some kind of misunderstanding. It is not for nothing that the people say that the dear ones scold, only amuse themselves. Don't be offended by me anymore, let's make up, my only and most important person on earth. I am without you, like the sun without warmth, like a flower without fragrance. I am looking forward to our meeting.
There are different situations in life, and sometimes, due to a small misunderstanding, a huge quarrel can turn out. So you and I, my beloved, got hooked word for word, and as a result, we are in a quarrel. I feel very bad without you, forgive me for everything, because I myself was the initiator of our quarrel. This will never happen again, I promise you. Do not hold me more angry, and let's make up. We are halves of one whole, we are simply made for each other. Let the rain wash away our quarrel, and not a trace will remain of it.
Love inspires us, makes us the happiest on earth. And separation - depressing, and makes the most unhappy. So I feel like the most unhappy girl in the world, because you and I are in a quarrel, my beloved. No more strength to endure our separation. Honey, forgive me, please, for offended you. Let's make up, and we'll be together again, because we felt so good with you together. Let's forget our quarrel as the worst dream. I love you and I want us to always be together. Forgive me love.
Fate gives each of us a soul mate, and how sad it is when you lose your loved one because of some nonsense. I just can't find a place for myself because of our quarrel. Forgive me, my dear, I know that everything is my own fault. All my hot temper. I promise to change, trust me, this will never happen again. I offended you, and I feel guilty about everything. Let this quarrel be the first and the last on the huge ship of our love. May he only have a happy voyage.
Sometimes to the depths of your soul you can hurt a person with a simple word, thoughtlessly inflict undeserved insults. I apologize to you, my beloved, for the fact that we are now in a quarrel with you. I am to blame for everything, and I am now oppressed by a pang of conscience. Forgive me, please, for the fact that I offended you, because all this was not out of malice, but just a surge of emotions. I understand that this is not an excuse, but still, don't be offended by me anymore. Let's make up, and preserve our love, because we both need it like air.
My dear, because of my bad character, you and I constantly have some kind of conflicts and disagreements. I want you to know that I am trying very hard to change for you, because you are very dear to me. I cannot imagine my existence without you and without our relationship, so I want to ask you for forgiveness once again. Please, try to accept me and understand, because it is not very difficult because of all that is happening. I may seem so cold and unapproachable, but, in fact, you yourself know that I worry no less than you. I want you to forgive me and try to forget about what happened, although I know that this is not so easy. I promise to try to control myself and stop exploding over little things. Please forgive your unbalanced girlfriend, who just loves you madly.
My beloved, I did very ugly to you. I am very ashamed of every word that I said to you. You know that I just lose control of myself when I'm in this state, because I need support. I beg you, please forgive me! Know that I am insanely sorry, I am very ashamed, because I allowed myself a lot of things that you simply do not deserve. My dear, I have no excuse, I know that you are already tired of such conflicts, but be sure that I will make every effort to ensure that there are no more such cases in our life. You know that I didn’t say all this out of malice, I just felt very bad at that moment. But even then I regretted every word, I just could not stop myself. Let's forget about everything, let it be like a terrible dream that was and passed. I love you very much.
I feel just awful because I offended my dearest and closest person, who is ready for anything for me. Dear, I know that you are now offended at me, and you have every right to do so, because I behaved ugly towards you. But know that you did not deserve any of what I have said. You know how much I love you and how I value our relationship. I want to ask you for forgiveness, because I'm really ashamed, I shouldn't have behaved like that. Let's just forget about it, although I know it's not easy, I promise that nothing like this will happen again, because I realized what a big mistake I made. My dear and most beloved, forgive me and do not be angry, please, because I love you more than life. I promise that I will be the best girl.
My dear, I want to ask you to listen to me. I am very ashamed of everything that happened yesterday. You were not guilty of anything, but I behaved very unworthy. You didn't deserve a single word that I said to you yesterday. I sincerely want you to forgive me and forget about everything. I may be asking a lot, but I really want you not to hold me back. All this was a huge mistake, which I, unfortunately, made. But I promise you that nothing like this will ever happen again, because I just won't let it happen. It is very difficult for me to look you in the eyes now, because I am very ashamed. I behaved in a way that I should never have. I beg you to forgive me. I promise that things will only get better.
Our relationship for me is the meaning of life, and I don't know what came over me yesterday, that I behaved this way. I have no excuse, but I ask you to listen to me. I made a huge mistake, which I will correct myself, and right now. My beloved, you know that I cannot imagine my life without you and without our relationship. I am very sad, I am very ashamed and scared, because I am afraid that you will not forgive me. It was a momentary weakness that I admitted through my stupidity. Just let's get it out of our lives, because nothing like this will ever happen again. I will be the best for you, my beloved. I promise that I will correct myself, and I will do everything so that you forget about this terrible day. I love you very much! Forgive me silly.
There is no person in the world more beautiful and kind than you, my beloved. I just can't find a place for myself, because we are now in a quarrel with you, there is no joy in life, everything seems gray and indifferent. I realized how much I love you, and therefore, I apologize for having offended you. Forgive me, please, let this quarrel remain in the past, and we will forget about it forever, because our love is much stronger than all misunderstandings. You are my most desirable and only guy on earth, I love you, and I only want to be with you.
Forgive words to your beloved guy: In verse | Short | Postcards
Unfortunately, in the relationship between a young man and a girl, everything is not always cloudless, and sometimes disagreements occur between lovers. If you understand that you are at fault for the conflict, then it would be wiser to admit that you were wrong and apologize.
How to apologize correctly and when to do it
If you understand that not only your chosen one is guilty for the misunderstanding or quarrel that has occurred, then, of course, you need to apologize to him. Surely, like any other person, he feels resentment and hopes for some kind of explanation or at least a partial admission of his guilt. It very rarely happens when in any quarrel only one person is guilty, and the ability to recognize this fact is often very conducive to the harmonious development of relations. If you do decide to apologize, then it is important to do it right so as not to provoke a new wave of dissatisfaction with each other.
Not "we" or "you", but "me"
When you start a conversation with the person to whom you want to apologize, speak only about your feelings and your attitude to the situation that happened. That is, you do not need to start with something like: “You and I were wrong”, “You yourself know what provoked me”, “If we…”, “If you…” and so on. It is important to assume your part of the responsibility nevertheless: “I did the wrong thing in this case”, “I should have warned you” and the like.
Show that you are upset
Show your loved one that you are worried about the situation and would like to fix it. He must see that for you in the first place is not your own ego, but a harmonious relationship in your couple. Your upset shouldn't look like an offense to him personally - you are generally worried that not all is well in your relationship.
Suitable environment
Of course, it is important that your apology is not made in passing, and not on the run or in front of witnesses. In order to achieve rapport with a loved one, it is important to choose the right atmosphere. It is better to start these conversations in private, in a calm atmosphere. At the same time, a man should not be tired or in a hurry somewhere. It is also advisable to apologize after all personally, and not by correspondence or phone. However, this already depends on your personal preferences.
Is it worth apologizing to a man at all
Of course, you can and should apologize to men too, when appropriate. That is, you should not do this with or without reason, but if you are really to blame, then your apology will only make you look in the best light. You will show yourself to be a person who is able to admit your own mistakes and take responsibility for them. Also, the chosen one will understand that his feelings are important to you, you pay attention to various little things, and prefer to solve problems, rather than wait for them to be resolved themselves.
Some women consider apologizing to a man as a kind of humiliation, and this rather indicates some of their personal complexes. Of course, how the lover reacts to your admission of guilt also matters. If he takes steps forward and shows interest in resolving your contradictions, then this is one thing, but if, after the apology you brought, he begins to humiliate you or in some way scoff, then this is a completely different case. In the second situation, perhaps you shouldn't hope that your relationship can have a really happy future.
Apologizes to her husband to improve family relationships
If grievances have accumulated over the years and do not feel guilty
You should analyze your relationship with your spouse, and understand from what period in your relationship problems have appeared. Also think about whether these conflicts can be resolved in any way, and if this is not possible - whether you are able to come to terms with the situation that does not suit you.
Talk frankly with your husband and try to understand together why you are failing to achieve harmony in your family. Ask your husband what exactly he is unhappy with, and what is his vision for solving this problem. In turn, convey to your spouse what you do not like, and ask how he sees the development of the current situation. If your husband is dear to you, and you do not want to ruin your family, then be attentive to his words. It is possible that he is seriously upset by something in your behavior or offends, but at the same time you do not feel guilty. Explain to the chosen one why you are convinced that you are right and for what reason you are sure that he has no reason to be offended. If your arguments seem unconvincing for the chosen one, and you understand that the current situation really hurts him, then it makes sense to apologize, at least with these words: "Sorry that you have to experience such emotions, I really didn't want it to upset you."
Express empathy for your loved one. Don't dismiss his grudges as something stupid or irrelevant. Let him know that you understand the reason for his worries, and it is not easy for you that there is a place for such emotions in your family.
Be responsible. Don't apologize like you're doing a favor to someone you love. Let him see that you regret the hurt done to him, and at least partially take the blame on yourself. The phrases are appropriate: “I am sorry that I did this”, “I understand that I offended you with my act” and so on.
How to ask a guy for forgiveness
In my own words
If you have seriously offended a young man, then you should feel responsible for it. In this case, it is completely inappropriate to apologize with someone else's poems or by sending any sentimental songs on social networks. Most guys will find such an apology extremely frivolous and, most likely, insincere. If you really want the young man to no longer be offended by you, and the problem has been resolved, then by all means talk to him personally. Let it even be a conversation on the phone, but you need to convey to him in your own words that you are seriously repenting and want everything to work out in your relationship.
If I screw up a lot and I am to blame
In this case, apologies in your own words are also no less important, so that the guy understands the sincerity of your regret about what happened. However, it is important to understand that if you really made a lot of mistakes and upset your chosen one very much, then apologizing to him may not seem enough. Most likely, his trust in you is now very undermined, and he does not know what to do. To make it easier for him to forgive you, promise that you will certainly correct the situation and leave behind the reasons for his grievances. If he didn't like flirting with other guys, then you should promise to stop doing it and keep your word. There can be a lot of situations, and if you are aware of your guilt and value the relationship, you should take responsibility for what happened, and not allow this problem to reappear in your relationship.
Apology to your beloved in SMS
Rarely does a man appreciate an apology via SMS - it is better to do this in person, however, of course, there are exceptions. If you know for sure that your beloved is now on edge and does not want to hear you at all, then the SMS may be quite appropriate, it may be something like this: “Forgive me for this act, I am very sorry about what happened. I want to talk to you as soon as you're ready. Love you". After some time (several hours or days), it depends on the character of the chosen one and the degree of your guilt, you can try to call the guy and bring him to a conversation. If he rejects your call, wait a little longer and try again to contact him or meet. Perhaps he will remain adamant, and in this case, you have no choice but to wait - he appreciated your perseverance, and he will contact you when he is ready.
Forgive me darling: for lies, treason, for stupid behavior
How to apologize to forgive
If you want the chosen one to forgive you, be sincere with him and show that you are sorry about what happened. The first step is not only to apologize, but also to explain. Tell him why you decided on this or that unseemly act. Also let him know that you yourself are frustrated with this behavior and will do your best to prevent this from happening again. If you feel like crying during your speech, then allow yourself to do so, but note that your tears should not cause rejection - this means that you do not need to cry, sob excitedly, and incoherently express yourself. Quite enough silent and almost imperceptible tears - this is likely to give more positive effect.
Do not demand or expect a person to forgive you immediately after you want it. Most likely, it will take him time to realize and think about what happened, as well as reflect on your apology. Tell the chosen one that you understand that he is offended and it is not easy for him to forgive you. Note that you are ready to take a break and wait for him to make a decision. By doing so, you will demonstrate respect for the opinion and feelings of your beloved.
How to let someone know they can trust you again
It will not be superfluous to ask the young man what he sees as the development of events. Ask him what you can do to improve your relationship so he can forgive you. If his requirements seem to you quite logical, and you value the relationship, then it is better to meet the guy halfway and do as he asks.
Show him that he no longer has reason to be upset about the situation that made you quarrel. If it was about cheating, you need to completely exclude the possibility of contact with a person who has become the "third odd" in your couple. Don't expect your partner to take your word for it, that you won't have any more contact with that guy, even if you have to meet regularly. In this case, you will simply postpone your breakup, so initially think about how valuable your relationship is to you.
Make it clear to the young man that you really appreciate that he found the strength to forgive you. Say that he is very dear to you, and this situation helped you realize how you do not want to lose him. Pay attention to your loved one and take care of him.
It is important that this situation really remains in the past. If you do not want your relationship to be unhappy, then it is important that the chosen one actually forgives you, and does not manipulate your feelings of guilt for many months. Tell him that you are very upset about what happened, that you are ready to change and take care of your relationship, and also give him as much time as he wants to think about whether he can forgive you. If he constantly reproaches you with the situation that has happened, then there can be no talk of any full-fledged relationship. In this case, it will most likely be more appropriate to part for a period, and individually think about whether you can have a happy future together.
Do not assume that after your apology, the beloved should trust you for granted. If you notice that he is trying to test you in some way, do not express your irritation or incite conflict. Be tolerant of this behavior, and put yourself in its place - most likely, you would behave the same way. These checks are likely to fizzle out soon after the man is convinced that there is no reason to worry, and you can truly be trusted again.
Beautiful apologies in poetry and prose
This type of apology is appropriate only if you yourself are writing prose or poems - then you may well present your story in your work, express remorse and ask for forgiveness. If you decide to use the skill of another author, it is unlikely that it will be appreciated. The person whom you offended is not waiting for someone else's words and thoughts - it is your apology and your vision of the situation that matter to him. By sending a verse or an excerpt of a work with an apology found on the Internet, most likely you will only make it worse - few will consider such regrets to be sincere. You should learn to take responsibility for the mistakes you make - apologies in your own words (even in prose) are much more appropriate in this case.
by The Wild Mistress's Notes
"Lovely ones scold - only amuse themselves" - is that so?
There are quarrels between lovers - this must be taken for granted. Quarrels are different, but they have the same result - to be able to make peace and forget all the negative that happened during it. Women's psychology is such that it is often more convenient for her to blame a man for the conflict, rather than admit her own wrong.
Today there is a phrase that is gaining more and more momentum: "If a woman is wrong, a man needs to come up and apologize." This phrase was invented by an unreasonable woman who thinks only of herself. It should not be forgotten that a man is also a person, and he is no less capable of experiencing torment from worries and quarrels than a woman.
By the way, men endure quarrels harder than women. A woman can throw out her pain in the form of tears and hysteria. A man carries all this in himself, which means that it is much harder for him.
Why do fights happen?
All fights are completely different. There are domestic quarrels: I left my socks in the wrong place, put my clothes in the wrong place. There are quarrels over stress. We live in a very hectic world where we experience discomfort every day, and if we restrain ourselves at work and in transport, then at home we can disrupt all the evil.
There are personal quarrels. Time passes, and remorse begins to torment us, but it is not so easy to make peace with my husband. After all, the most important thing to do is to step over your huge and arrogant "I".
How to make peace with your husband if you are to blame?
Many women ask themselves this question. Reconciliation with a man can happen in different ways. Here another important fact is played by the man's temperament. There are those who need to be given time to “cool down”, to analyze the problem, to assess it.
The main thing is not to drag out the reconciliation, a maximum of two days of quarrel, and there you just need to urgently look for ways to each other.
So how to make peace with your husband if you are to blame? There are several trivial but effective ways to make a truce with your husband when the fault lies with you, and the first of them is to admit your guilt.
Learn to apologize for your mistakes
Moreover, obeying is half the battle. A simple apology is much more effective than other methods. It is clear that it is not so easy to say to a person in the face: “Sorry, I was wrong,” but without this, nowhere!
You shouldn't apologize by phone, SMS, or send banal excuse cards to the post office or social networks. Young children do this, and adults should be able not only to admit their mistakes, but also to be able to apologize for them. The reaction will follow immediately - most men will melt and forgive their beloved. Of course, if the reason is not so global and fundamental.
A romantic dinner will extinguish a quarrel
Psychologists generally recommend having romantic dinners at least once a month. But, even if you and your spouse do not have such a tradition, then making a romantic dinner as a sign of reconciliation is the very thing! Prepare his favorite dishes, meet your loved one with a smile right at the door.
Of course, such dinners should have a logical conclusion in the bedroom. Men love with their eyes, so please him with beautiful lingerie. By the way, in general, accustom yourself to wear exceptionally beautiful underwear, this will make you feel more confident, and your man will be pleased to look at you.
Straight Talk Is So Important!
Talking frankly during an argument is a dangerous option, but you still need to talk to a man. If you are to blame, explain to him the reason for your action and what you now think about it. True, here the line between just a conversation and a new wave of quarrel is very thin. Be careful. If you see that your husband just flashes from such a conversation - stop. Explosive emotions do not lead to anything good.
If you intend to end the conflict in this way, then you need to constantly keep yourself within the framework.
The easiest way to make peace with a man, if you yourself are wrong, is a romantic dinner and an apology. This gives you an almost one hundred percent guarantee that he will forgive you!
From everyday experience ...
Finally, I'll tell you one story. I have one friend - a hot-tempered and very emotional person. She quarreled with her husband. The quarrel was domestic, something she did not like in his behavior. Word by word, they raised their voices to each other, expressed to each other something that had absolutely nothing to do with the cause of the quarrel.
Particularly striking were the claims to her husband on her part, as they say, she said too much. You yourself know how it happens - you start with one thing - you end up with another. Staying at the house became unpleasant for her, she took it and went to her friend for the weekend. There she had time to think and analyze the situation. And I felt ashamed. And for the words, and for the departure. Pride does not allow to reconcile, but also a keen understanding that it was she who was wrong did not allow to sleep peacefully.
Returning home, she bought all sorts of goodies and wine, and while her husband was at work, she made dinner. The husband came home from work, and the first thing she did was just ask how his day went. A person melts as soon as he sees that someone is interested in him, that he is not indifferent. After such questions, the man, if he does not become talkative, will at least give a short answer about how the day went.
Seeing dinner on the table, a man begins to think: "I took care, cooked, so I waited." The most important thing is that not a minute should be lost at this moment. And my friend did not lose. She touched his hand lightly and said, “I'm sorry, please, I was wrong. Something happened to the nerves, but I didn't mean to offend you. "
The most important thing is to fully admit your guilt, without any reservations, like: "But you're good too." When putting up with your husband, you need to think about your mistakes, not about his. After such an attack of apology, the man himself admits his mistakes.
Then my friend bombarded her husband with questions: how was he without her these days, at the same time admitting what stupidity she had done that she had gone to her friend. It all ended well. Passionate sex after a delicious dinner and an oral apology erased the last remnants of the conflict.
In general, when a woman apologizes, she should know that the crown will not fall off her head. Men are real children who also perceive everything through the prism of emotions, they just have such a role - to remain unapproachable. In fact, melting his touchy heart is as easy as shelling pears.
Therefore, making peace with your husband, even if you are to blame, is not so difficult. Three rules - verbal apologies, an intimate dinner, passionate sex - after this, a man himself will feel guilty (for what ?!) and will please you in every possible way.
I beg your pardon, my dear.
I was cold to you.
My mistakes hid tenderness.
I am now alone.
Forgive me and forget everything.
I'm ready to fix it.
A long way awaits us with you
Your forgiveness is somewhere in the heart.
Do not hide, please, offense,
You are for harsh words
I understand perfectly well
That I was wrong
What she said from evil
Any nonsense to you
Now I'm sorry
So listen to the prayer!
I will be able to curb my temper,
Just help a little
Forgive me soon
And forget the insult!
My beloved, my dear and best guy, please forgive me. I'm so sorry that I offended you. Let's fix this situation, let's not ruin and spoil the relationship, forgive me, please, let everything be fine with us again, don't be angry, darling.
We have so little experience ...
Here we have managed to quarrel.
Manage to forgive, manage to understand
I'm so afraid to part with you!
I want to see you again
To hug, kiss.
And look into your eyes
And never let go!
Forgive me my dear
I'm sorry what happened to you.
I won't do this anymore
I love you very much.
Foolish girls make mistakes
And wise guys forgive them.
So you forgive me
You are my world, my destiny.
In my heart I believe you will forgive me.
And I am somewhere wrong.
I know you are sad too now
But how do I find the words I need?
Resentment, they say, cannot be concealed.
And I beg you, forgive me.
Press to you and hug gently
Love me again with all your soul.
Sorry for the offensive actions
Sorry for the hurtful words
And now, I smoke this pipe.
Remembering you sometimes.
I loved you so much
But fate turned out differently.
I left for another city
I left without you.
I want you to understand me
What then, you had nothing to do with
It just happens in life
Sorry, don't think about that.
I'm sorry I got lost.
I'm sorry I was rude.
That jealousy suddenly me
She took and blinded.
For rude words
For stupid deeds
Please forgive me
Make concessions to me.
I love you so much,
Cannot be expressed in words.
And I want to save
What happened between us.
Forgive me, oh my good!
My gentle one, I'm sorry now.
Your beautiful eyes light
It warms the soul.
I am guilty before you -
She spoke in a temper.
Sorry for the stupid words!
After all, you are very dear to me.
Sorry for what happened.
I snapped, was rude.
I am for no apparent reason
Suddenly offended you.
It was just a strange day in the morning
And every little thing hurts.
Dear you are my man,
I blame myself for everything.
Smile, forget, forgive
Foolish forbid me to be,
Hold me tight
Protect yourself from yourself.
You are angry in vain. Do not be angry!
And I never thought
Upset you and upset with something.
Forgive me! Resentment is nonsense.
How to beg forgiveness from you?
I didn't want this quarrel at all.
Let's make it up soon, because I
I love you, you are dearer to me than light.
A wise woman adds sugar to everything she says to a man and removes salt from everything that a man tells her.
Eastern wisdom
Family is the most important thing a person has. We choose for a long time with whom to build a family nest, and having decided, we pin great hopes on the person who becomes family. A husband for a woman is the most important person, because it is with him that she realizes her life tasks: develops femininity, creates a family, learns motherhood, builds relationships with people, takes care of loved ones.
While the relationship with my husband is rosy, we fly like on wings. We succeed in everything, everyone likes us, life is beautiful, there is enough energy and desire to change the world for the better. When unpleasant friction arises with a spouse, harmony with all that exists is violated. I don't want anything anymore, my hands give up and the main goal becomes peace with the chosen one, since our happiness depends on this. All women, without exception, who are in a civil, church or official marriage, from time to time need advice on how to make peace with her husband.
We have collected the positive experience of many married couples, which you can use in times of crisis to restore harmony in the microcosm of your family.
Quarreled with her husband: what to do
Well, it happened - you quarreled with your husband. Friends from time to time complained about misunderstandings, quarrels and partings with their men, and you could not even imagine that your loved one would also try on the mask of one of the antiheroes of their sad stories. Or maybe you yourself offended him, but this time he was no longer condescending and repaid you in kind? It is no longer so important who is to blame. One thing confuses you: you quarreled with your husband. You are confused because you have no idea how to make peace with your husband, even if this is not the first time. After all, what worked the last time can do much harm this time!
Tip # 1: Don't let the conflict flare up! The situation in the house is tense, you have to do something, you think ... Actually, no, you don’t have to do anything yet, except to stop. You must stop throwing brushwood into the fire of discord and end the quarrel in any way. Contrasting behavior has been proven to be the most effective during conflicts. If the dialogue continues in a raised voice, you just need to be silent for a while.
Conversely, if silence has become depressing, it is necessary to talk about anything, just not about what has become the bone of contention.
Reception "Contrast". Aggression is extinguished by calmness. Indifference is a manifestation of emotions. Lies are true. Swearing is courtesy. Apply contrast - and consider yourself halfway done: this way you will achieve at least a break, if not the end of the quarrel.
Reception "Spyglass". In the meantime, think about what happened, where your conflict originates from. Look at the situation from the outside, as if it happened to a friend or sister, and not to you. When you understand the cause of the conflict, you will probably immediately understand how to make peace with your loved one.
After a fight, you both feel bad. This is understandable, because you are very close people! In 99 cases out of 100 possible, you have to put up with your husband. Nowhere to retreat. This is not a boyfriend with whom you still have almost nothing connected, and not a guy with whom you have already been on hikes and parties, but have not yet shared life, and not a groom with whom you did not even have time to exchange mutual promises. It would be relatively easy to turn from the mentioned heroes in the opposite direction, but with your husband you are on the way. And for this path to be comfortable, the conflict must be extinguished. But you don't know how to make peace with your husband after a fight.
Relationship redecoration tools
If there was a domestic skirmish, then everything can be solved quite simply. You don't even have to say anything like "I want to make up", "let's forget about it." Everything you need is always at hand: a refrigerator, general duties, a family car, a matrimonial bed and much more.
Tool 1: delicious. Turn to your husband with a casual: "Aren't you hungry there?" And without further ado, serve his favorite dish. He will not be able to refuse, and not to thank either. So much for "Peace between us - a bowl of pies!"
Tool 2: nice. “I'm going to drive today. Because of those pills, you can't even drink a sip of wine. Yes, and you need to rest for a long time ... ". Believe me, he will be glad that he can finally relax at a party. And with a good mood, dialogues stick better!
Tool 3: irreplaceable. You can simulate many everyday situations to provoke interaction. For example, hide a thing without which he won't live a day. You yourself will have to put up, because who else, if not you, he should ask: "And you did not see it by chance ...". Innocent cunning is perfectly acceptable in a good deed.
And what will be needed to "overhaul" relations?
Intimate talk. Reconciling with your husband after a major conflict can be more difficult. Men do not always succumb to female tricks when it comes to their wounded pride. If you avoid looking into each other's eyes for more than a day, this is already serious. Offer to discuss the situation immediately. Maybe you just did not understand each other, maybe someone thought too much. We need to find out. Choose a convenient time for a conversation, when your husband is full and in no hurry, and calmly bring the situation to clean water. It is important that you are not distracted during the conversation. Put the children to bed or send them out, turn off the phones. Because if the husband is not in the mood for a conversation, he will take the least chance to interrupt him. Try to minimize these chances.
Take time out. If the conversation does not help, you can make up after an argument with the help of favorable circumstances. Maybe your wedding anniversary is approaching, or one of you’s birthday, just another weekend after a busy week. Ask your husband to forget about the subject of the conflict for a while, so as not to spoil the long-awaited holiday or vacation. If this trick works, then after the holidays, probably no one will remember the conflict. If there is no landmark event to take time out for in a quarrel, just invite friends or neighbors to tea in the evening. Well, he will not sulk in front of strangers! Maybe, in a pleasant atmosphere, he will forget that he is angry with you, and will speak and caress.
Operation Seduction. You have approached your husband this way and that, but he is irreconcilable. Well, combine business with pleasure: initiate intimacy. This method is as old as the world and works almost flawlessly! Men rarely ignore a woman's sexual initiative, especially when she herself does not allow her to show pride.
How to make peace with your husband after a quarrel if he is to blame?
Goethe also noted that the one who is smarter is to blame for the quarrel. Indeed, the problem is solved by the one who values \u200b\u200bthe world more than his pride. This is usually a woman. Well, when have you ever heard a man admit that he is guilty of something? If you have met such a unique male, then you are very lucky! Do not abuse his nobility. Do you understand what we are hinting at? That's right, no matter who is to blame, most likely you will have to put up with it. And do not delay with it, because the further, the more difficult it will be for you to do it. And we will show you how to make up after a quarrel so that the man appreciates your step towards and realizes his guilt.
Knight's move. Apologize to him. Even if you are innocent (but this is unlikely), come up with something. "Sorry, I was going to bake a pie yesterday, but my hands dropped through our quarrel." Say and collect your hares shot in one phrase: saved pride, the fact of forgiveness, a positive beginning of a dialogue.
Let the man go ahead! Therefore, a quarrel is a mined field, and even by a chain reaction. Let him say what he thinks about the incident. You will know if he sees the beam in his own eye. Set an example of how to listen: don't interrupt or blame. Just listen and think through the counterarguments in the meantime. If you are interested, of course, to be listened to, when is your turn to speak.
Your way out. Agree with at least one fact that he just announced. This is an obligatory compromise part. And then just clearly explain what does not suit you. If your husband defends his right to continue to act in a way that is unacceptable to you, be categorical. Offer to switch roles and ask if the proposed scenario would suit him.
Demand respect. Shouting, attempts to confuse you, aggression are unacceptable. Not in the mood for a conversation - let him continue sulking in the corner. Postpone the conversation, but make it clear that it is required.
How to make peace with your husband in difficult cases, when for a long time you cannot agree? A truce period must be appointed. During this time, you will have the opportunity to remind about all the advantages of the world: cook more inventively, make love hotter, pay more attention to your beloved. And the world will sign on both sides automatically.
How to make peace with my husband after a quarrel if I am to blame?
Know how to be guilty - know how to apologize. Nobody will do it for you. But this, you see, is easier than apologizing when he is to blame! Plus, you can make amends for both of you.
Gold fish. There is nothing easier than making peace with a man by arranging a holiday for him. Ask what he would like the most, and if it is acceptable to you, do it. But don't spoil it! Even a goldfish does not fulfill more than three desires.
Surprise. If you know what can please your loved one, then just go for it. Spend your seventh pair of sandals and buy your husband a ticket to the match of the year.
How to ask forgiveness from a loved one?
You can ask your loved one for forgiveness not only with words. All of the above methods will be accepted with a bang! Or maybe you don't have to invent anything special if you just say "Forgive me, dear!" For many men, this is enough, especially if you tenderly look into his eyes and wrap your tender arms around his neck ...
If you are guilty before his business trip, at least apologize via SMS or call. But the best thing is to take a taxi and apologize at the train station. It will be very eloquent. How much - you can estimate after his return.
It happens that he is offended in earnest. How to ask a man for forgiveness if not a word, not a festive dinner, or surprises help? We'll have to try.
Make concessions. Has he been waiting for your consent for an important family purchase for a long time? Maybe it's time to agree? He dreams of conquering the summit, but due to family troubles he cannot escape to the mountains? This time, don't just let go, but ride with him. This will bring you very close.
Remember that the most effective weapon you can use to obtain forgiveness is your sincerity.
How to make up with your husband after infidelity
Something has changed between you. For a long time you notice that your husband has become strange, as if he was replaced. As if nothing had happened, but you became less comfortable together. The strangeness of a man can manifest itself in different ways. A loving, caring husband suddenly began to behave like a stranger, gets annoyed, offended, always disappears somewhere. Or, on the contrary, your beloved, who last gave you flowers on the birthday of your first child, began to come home with lush brooms and even spoil himself with gifts, but gives himself less and less ... With such symptoms, cherche la femme. Most likely, we are talking about another "la femme" that your man found himself.
Treason! The realization that another woman has come between you is perceived as a sentence. You are shocked and humiliated. And your first reaction is to collect the traitor's things. You have nothing else to do under one roof and in one bed! But while you are packing your suitcases for the villain, memories are pouring on you from every shirt: you ironed a white short-sleeved one for him yesterday, bought these elegant shoes when he won a competition for a decent position, and a suitcase with wheels is a gift from friends for the 5th anniversary of his marriage. life! How could he! Will not forgive! - you think and shove a family photo somewhere between T-shirts and a shaving razor ... Well, packing his things will not hurt, let him know that you are serious. But do not rush to put your suitcase out the door. Suddenly, your man belongs to those 10% who will take him and still go without looking back. We're not sure if you really want this. And you?
Unfortunately, there is no third option. Your behavior after marital infidelity will entirely depend on what decision you make: forgive and keep the family, or break up and cross everything out.
Assess the pros and cons of both possible options yourself, preferably before making a decision. If you know that you cannot live with this, you will have to part. Here you will need more advice from a lawyer. But how to make peace with your husband after he betrayed you, we can tell you.
The right to make a mistake - but only one! The main thought that you should put into the head and heart of your unfaithful husband: you do not consider infidelity a normal phenomenon and do not intend to continue to tolerate them. He must know that he will be forgiven only one time, moreover, on clearly defined conditions. Since he is the culprit, you set the conditions! We advise two prerequisites: he must break up with that woman. And he must apologize. The time when you accept his apology is individual. We do not advise cultivating resentment for too long. However - he must wait as long as necessary.
Taboo on reproaches! The ritual of complete reconciliation requires that you finally accept your husband's apology. And as soon as you say that you forgive him for betrayal, she should sink into oblivion. Act like it never existed. From this moment on, the rules are for you: it is forbidden to hint, remember, reproach. You have no right to return to this topic. Simply because it is not profitable for you.
Is it possible to forgive treason? Recover lost trust? Of course, it's up to you to decide. If you really want to forget cheating and start over, you should definitely try. How to forgive cheating on your husband: relieve tension, release pain and start trusting again - read here .
In our dynamic times, people converge for a long time, but quickly disperse. It once was: courtship, short and rare meetings, in a month or two matchmaking, and then a wedding. And to part - it was once in a hundred cases! In this context, I recall a fragment of a conversation between a young journalist and a married couple celebrating their golden wedding. The journalist asks: "Share the secret, how did you manage to live together for so many years?" To which the hero of the day replies: "You know, young man, we lived at a time when the broken things were not thrown away, but repaired." Now everything that has the slightest defect flies to the dump! Modern people live mobile, they often change their place of residence, work and even people. The value of marital relations has been diminished, as if everyone around them took courses "Readiness for change" and practice their postulates not only in their career plan. It's a great skill to start over. But the reward is worthwhile. It is difficult to reach an understanding if you have already thrown it into a landfill and signed in court to voluntarily dispose of old feelings. And yet ... Divorce is not always the end.
An inspiring experience. Many married couples reconciled after parting. The stories of their families in events look like this: wedding-divorce-wedding. As in that joke: "We love each other so much that we have already married three times." Their repeated wedding ceremonies are less solemn, but this is already a balanced decision. In such families, both know for sure that they are made for each other. But to understand this, they even had to lose a loved one, and then again fight for his favor.
Awareness of loss. Having lived separately, you realized that you had lost a lot. You just can't live. Not only is it missing - you are missing everything! What if he also suffers without you? Just find out. People who ran a joint household have many reasons to meet. Use an appointment. It is possible that the ex-husband is just waiting for this.
Straight Talk. If you feel that there is a chance for a reunion, say about it: "Sometimes I think, could we ever live together again?" Even if the ex-husband does not want to put up, all is not lost. Today he does not want to, because he is carried away by something or someone, and tomorrow he may be disappointed and understand that you are everything for him. And then it will be important for him to know that the lock on the door of the house that he left has not yet been changed. At the right time, admit that you miss him from time to time. Try to look especially good and be in a good mood whenever you see your ex-husband. Do not intrude, but do not avoid communication.
After a quarrel: drawing conclusions
A quarrel, like separation, is a litmus test of the strength of a relationship. Quarrels strengthen a strong family, and destroy a weak one. If emotions flare up between you, even negative ones, this is not bad, it just indicates that you are not indifferent to each other. And this is very important, especially when you have been together for many years. It is important that you reconcile as easily as you fight. After all, it is known that quarrels between loving hearts do not last long. If you fight more and more and each time you become less inclined to reconciliation, then your family is on the verge of divorce. It's time to schedule a trial period. And let the further fate of your couple be decided in the end.
Watch your husband. Does he deliberately provoke quarrels? How does he behave, does he hang all the dogs on you? Or is he objective? Are you ready to compromise? Maybe you can't come to an agreement with him? Then don't waste your time on it. Life goes by. Break an unpromising alliance.
Or maybe, on the contrary, you are used to inflating elephants from flies? Analyze your behavior. If you realize that you are asking too much of your husband, think about what you can sacrifice for the good of the family. Otherwise, your man may already think about the advisability of continuing such a tense relationship.
It is possible that you both sat in the wheel of discord, as an attraction, to refresh your senses, but hyped it too much. At least one must stop. Be wise: stop spinning the wheel. He himself will not be able to twist for a long time, and the inertial movement will certainly end. Everything will work out if you learn the lessons of marital ethics and do not ignore the work on mistakes.
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